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Topic: too many friends makes you suspicious
Atlantis75's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:20 PM
I get that sometimes from non-posters. According to some, if you got too many friends on mingle, you are some sort of a "player", or there is something wrong with you.

What do you think?

Mr_Music's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:21 PM
I think they've never been to myspace.

Italy0219's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:21 PM

I get that sometimes from non-posters. According to some, if you got too many friends on mingle, you are some sort of a "player", or there is something wrong with you.

What do you think?


Different strokes for different folks.

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Tue 06/30/09 06:22 PM
idc what ppl think...

you do look kinda like gerard butler in ur new pic...even if u aren't smilin :wink:

grneyedldy1967's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:23 PM
Couldn't they be just that.. friends?

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Tue 06/30/09 06:23 PM
Sound's like insecurity.

Friends drinker

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:23 PM

idc what ppl think...

you do look kinda like gerard butler in ur new pic...even if u aren't smilin :wink:


lol..Is that a good thing or a bad thing?

no photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:24 PM
some people just collect pictures regardless of whether they know em or not

I get friends invites all the time from people I never heard of. They seem offended when I say no but all the friends on my profile really are friends

moonlight_ride62's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:24 PM
you say player like it is a bad thing...winking

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:25 PM

I get that sometimes from non-posters. According to some, if you got too many friends on mingle, you are some sort of a "player", or there is something wrong with you.

What do you think?
:cry: I was robbed by a girl I met on here that had a lot of friends on her list:cry:

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Tue 06/30/09 06:25 PM
It's funny. I know of one site where I often see girls with a sign-up date of 2 or 3 days ago, and they have 1733 friends already. Of course, I've never gotten a message or a friend request on THAT site that WASN'T from a scammer.

I've never seen it as a "red flag" issue here, though.

But then I've never seen anyone here who obtained 1733 friends in a few days, either.





bastet126's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:25 PM
i think they're just jealous!:wink: friends just means you're social, nothing wrong with that!

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:25 PM
Who cares what anyone says!

Have one. Have thousands!!

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Tue 06/30/09 06:27 PM


idc what ppl think...

you do look kinda like gerard butler in ur new pic...even if u aren't smilin :wink:


lol..Is that a good thing or a bad thing?


what--that you look like gerard?? he is totally hawtttt.....
:smile:

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:30 PM
pimpin aian't easy :banana:

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:30 PM
Ok, how about "you've been here too long". Does that make me suspicious ?

Mingle2 is unlike myspace or facebook, those aren't like having a discussion forum. Many people treat mingle2 like 'yahoo personals' or 'match.com'. Basically, some might think, hanging around too long on a dating site makes some think that I might be something like a 'social reject" ?

grneyedldy1967's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:33 PM


I get that sometimes from non-posters. According to some, if you got too many friends on mingle, you are some sort of a "player", or there is something wrong with you.

What do you think?
:cry: I was robbed by a girl I met on here that had a lot of friends on her list:cry:


Awww here's a big {{{{HUG}}}

moonlight_ride62's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:34 PM

Ok, how about "you've been here too long". Does that make me suspicious ?

Mingle2 is unlike myspace or facebook, those aren't like having a discussion forum. Many people treat mingle2 like 'yahoo personals' or 'match.com'. Basically, some might think, hanging around too long on a dating site makes some think that I might be something like a 'social reject" ?




well darlin that is exactly what I am...I live in the back woods like a hermit with my kids...and I don't have a problem with it...

bastet126's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:35 PM
i've been off and on since 12/07 so i guess i would belong in the land of forgotten toys then. ohwell laugh

FindMe1113's photo
Tue 06/30/09 06:38 PM

It's funny. I know of one site where I often see girls with a sign-up date of 2 or 3 days ago, and they have 1733 friends already. Of course, I've never gotten a message or a friend request on THAT site that WASN'T from a scammer.

I've never seen it as a "red flag" issue here, though.

But then I've never seen anyone here who obtained 1733 friends in a few days, either.








surprised

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