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Topic: Does Jealousy Have A Purpose?
Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Wed 08/05/09 05:07 PM
Well, DOES it? Give us your reasons why/why not...

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Wed 08/05/09 05:08 PM
Well, DOES it? Give us your reasons why/why not... Helps to weed out the useless.

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Wed 08/05/09 05:09 PM
Well, DOES it? Give us your reasons why/why not... Helps to weed out the useless. great answer....I am not the jealous type...

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Wed 08/05/09 05:09 PM
it is a wasted emotion

Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Wed 08/05/09 05:09 PM
no jealousy comes from insecurity and I don't like being in a relationship where I don't feel secure and eventually will wander off

mcgilvrey21 Joined Fri 07/10/09 Posts: 377	Wed 08/05/09 05:11 PM
Its a control tactic used to establish power over another person. See it all the time in my business.

wannacuddlewthme Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 7110	Wed 08/05/09 05:11 PM
Jealousy gets woman put in jail

Phuque2 Joined Thu 11/20/08 Posts: 4927	Wed 08/05/09 05:12 PM
It is such a waste of time. And time stands still for no one.

forman562 Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 78	Wed 08/05/09 05:12 PM
jealousy just wears me out

Phuque2 Joined Thu 11/20/08 Posts: 4927	Wed 08/05/09 05:13 PM
Jealousy gets woman put in jail Don't forget the men also

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Wed 08/05/09 05:14 PM
jealousy is useless waste of your energy

wannacuddlewthme Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 7110	Wed 08/05/09 05:15 PM
Jealousy gets woman put in jail Don't forget the men also No men go too prison

silentmonolith Joined Tue 06/30/09 Posts: 50	Wed 08/05/09 05:15 PM
I think little doses of jealousy help a relationship (in my view). Why? Jealousy is born out of love. It shows you care about your partner. I underline "little doses" though. Picture this: guy says to his girl "I'm going out tonight with a bunch of girls. I'll be partying all night. See you tomorrow morning"; girl answers "well then, have fun!" I think something would be wrong with this picture, don;t you?

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Wed 08/05/09 05:16 PM Edited by Phuque on Wed 08/05/09 05:45 PM
I think some jealousy stems from paranoia...and as F&L pointed out...it DOES separate the wheat from the chaff...

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Wed 08/05/09 05:16 PM
The only purpose I can see is to warn the sane that a person is and emotional cripple and move on.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 08/05/09 05:17 PM
I'm jealous about this topic

Phuque2 Joined Thu 11/20/08 Posts: 4927	Wed 08/05/09 05:22 PM
I'm jealous about this topic I'm jealous of all the wimmins you have found on Mutual Match

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Wed 08/05/09 05:23 PM
Well, DOES it? Give us your reasons why/why not... Helps to weed out the useless.

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Wed 08/05/09 05:27 PM
I think little doses of jealousy help a relationship (in my view). Why? Jealousy is born out of love. It shows you care about your partner. I underline "little doses" though. Picture this: guy says to his girl "I'm going out tonight with a bunch of girls. I'll be partying all night. See you tomorrow morning"; girl answers "well then, have fun!" I think something would be wrong with this picture, don;t you? You do have a point there... I've always been very honest with my partner...& have never put myself in that position...again...it's all about trust & self-esteem...IMO.

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Wed 08/05/09 05:29 PM
Well, DOES it? Give us your reasons why/why not... It is the devil. But I will admit, I am at times