Topic: LIER LIER PANTS ON FIRE
1CoolMommy's photo
Sat 08/08/09 11:12 PM
OK people, we all know that not everyone has the strength to tell the truth. The Internet makes it Hard.The temptation to be what you desire to be. Be that perfect Guy, That sexy women everyone wants. For those who are insecure ,feel & are inadequate sociably. Therefor they post pictures of movie stars, or they paste and copy from flicker, or even worse they use four to five year old pictures.

Tell Us about how you thought you where gonna go on a date with the person you had been IM'n and emailing and then when you show up you find out it was all a Big FAT LIE! and rate the poor soul above you
1 - 10

1 : Your superficial, and just expect to find MR/MRS perfect
10 : Oh you poor BABY!



EX:
True Story

I was chatting with this guy .He was kind and funny. His face really fit the personality on his profile. He said he made a little money , but he wasn't a billionaire. We decided to meet at Hooters and When he showed up he was Not who he said he was at all. He lived with his mother and only wanted to go on the date to find the potential mother of his Five children. His money came from a fake Workmans comp claim. He smelled like he hadn't washed in weeks and he really needed to brush his teeth!
I walked away full ( hot wings, I paid) and creep-ed out! this dude seriously didn't care who I was he just wanted to impregnate me with Five of his little lazy A@# kids. I went home and called my Mommy!

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Sat 08/08/09 11:35 PM

OK people, we all know that not everyone has the strength to tell the truth. The Internet makes it Hard.The temptation to be what you desire to be. Be that perfect Guy, That sexy women everyone wants. For those who are insecure ,feel & are inadequate sociably. Therefor they post pictures of movie stars, or they paste and copy from flicker, or even worse they use four to five year old pictures.

Tell Us about how you thought you where gonna go on a date with the person you had been IM'n and emailing and then when you show up you find out it was all a Big FAT LIE! and rate the poor soul above you
1 - 10

1 : Your superficial, and just expect to find MR/MRS perfect
10 : Oh you poor BABY!



EX:
True Story

I was chatting with this guy .He was kind and funny. His face really fit the personality on his profile. He said he made a little money , but he wasn't a billionaire. We decided to meet at Hooters and When he showed up he was Not who he said he was at all. He lived with his mother and only wanted to go on the date to find the potential mother of his Five children. His money came from a fake Workmans comp claim. He smelled like he hadn't washed in weeks and he really needed to brush his teeth!
I walked away full ( hot wings, I paid) and creep-ed out! this dude seriously didn't care who I was he just wanted to impregnate me with Five of his little lazy A@# kids. I went home and called my Mommy!




Wow!noway noway what That was just so wrong!scared

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Sun 08/09/09 05:14 AM
Bummer for You.

Only one who wasn't real clear on her weight.

Chat Global, Date Local.

digger56's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:24 AM
All I seem to attract are the scammers. They post great looking pics and send mail, but once they find out you won't give out email address they seem to deactivate. Haven't meet anyone in person yet.

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:50 AM
Ive met alot of great people in person and a few not so great- but its all what you make of it-

If I was interested in dating anymore I would agree with the chat global and date local statement though- the long distance relationship is really difficult and usually destined for failure. Sometimes they work but the majority of the time- its just not worth the heartache>

Holly4459's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:51 AM

OK people, we all know that not everyone has the strength to tell the truth. The Internet makes it Hard.The temptation to be what you desire to be. Be that perfect Guy, That sexy women everyone wants. For those who are insecure ,feel & are inadequate sociably. Therefor they post pictures of movie stars, or they paste and copy from flicker, or even worse they use four to five year old pictures.

Tell Us about how you thought you where gonna go on a date with the person you had been IM'n and emailing and then when you show up you find out it was all a Big FAT LIE! and rate the poor soul above you
1 - 10

1 : Your superficial, and just expect to find MR/MRS perfect
10 : Oh you poor BABY!



EX:
True Story

I was chatting with this guy .He was kind and funny. His face really fit the personality on his profile. He said he made a little money , but he wasn't a billionaire. We decided to meet at Hooters and When he showed up he was Not who he said he was at all. He lived with his mother and only wanted to go on the date to find the potential mother of his Five children. His money came from a fake Workmans comp claim. He smelled like he hadn't washed in weeks and he really needed to brush his teeth!
I walked away full ( hot wings, I paid) and creep-ed out! this dude seriously didn't care who I was he just wanted to impregnate me with Five of his little lazy A@# kids. I went home and called my Mommy!



I agree with your point-
however you said you were chatting with him and that he was kind an funny-this is part of what must have drawn you in
in the the beginning also! Part of it is the talking and getting to know someone and some people are very good at drawing you in that regardless of their pics! It's hard to know if people are telling the truth about themselves...makes it hard to trust!

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Sun 08/09/09 05:56 AM
If I think a woman I am talking to might be more than just a chat then I tell her all my bad side bad habits and whatever else bad is in me and if she is still there after then I will let her know my good sides.

If she doesn't mind the bad she might be impress by the good flowerforyou

1CoolMommy's photo
Mon 08/10/09 08:31 AM
You are right! People post some of their most personal values on their profiles and there are some people who are very good at reading them and catering to what they are looking for. Wolf in sheep clothes, so to speak!

Thanks for posting a reply! Its nice to see other people still stay true to themselves. It has become a rare quality for people to be honest these days..

flowerforyou


1CoolMommy's photo
Mon 08/10/09 08:34 AM
Edited by 1CoolMommy on Mon 08/10/09 08:42 AM

If I think a woman I am talking to might be more than just a chat then I tell her all my bad side bad habits and whatever else bad is in me and if she is still there after then I will let her know my good sides.

If she doesn't mind the bad she might be impress by the good flowerforyou



blushing smooched laugh :tongue: flowerforyou flowerforyou
Well then you are a very rare Man indeed. I loved your journey photo. It was very creative and cute!!.

4974's photo
Mon 08/10/09 08:35 AM
I am honest, and blunt. those who pretend know you wldn't look at them otherwise, and just pray you will settle once you meet them.

1CoolMommy's photo
Mon 08/10/09 08:41 AM

Bummer for You.

Only one who wasn't real clear on her weight.

Chat Global, Date Local.



I don't care for insecure people. I use to have allot of self-esteem issues, but over time i realized ."this is what I got and I love it!" When people are insecure its a red flag for me. It is a doorway for many other issues and unnecessary drama> ...

Then again there is also a fine line about weight. Americans are so obsessive over it~ some guys and women will freak over a few pounds. The older we get the slower our metabolism gets and its harder to stay in shape. Some people are just too dame judgemental!

mssilverfox's photo
Mon 08/10/09 08:44 AM
I'm on the last leg of a 3 wk trip from Ohio to Idaho and Montana.. I have met several people from here on my way and they all were very nice and honest people.. Meeting a couple more on the way back.. One that I met is what I call a "keeper" and will persue that further and see if it goes anywhere...LOL On the road again tomorrow headed home.. Have a nice day everyone!

catseyes1's photo
Mon 08/10/09 08:45 AM
Bummer sorry to hear that happened to you. But don't let that one incident stop you from finding the one. Good Luck to you. Next time ask if the can send you a picture.