It all comes down to your wife and and her thought s on this..


I have seen many affairs blossom off the web......


Just as well from work or anywhere else..

personally I wouldn't like it.....

But, I am not your wife.

IMHO


I can't believe there is not another way to be in contact with your dad.


Perhaps you 2 need to talk!


Once again MHO!

I'm just wondering, what if you spend too much time on JSH with your new
found friends and you kinda put your wife on the back burner. What'll
happen then? Just wondering.

Sluggo, my thoughts exactly.


It is like playing with fire, eventually you get burned.

I also NEVER say NEVER, they say times change, MAYBE?

I think as long as both parties are ok with it then
fine..............Maybe your wife would want to come here to she would
probally like it as much as you do.............
Indiana I will be both your friends and your Dad is a great person
to

Thanks for all the feedback, everyone brought up some good points.

Hi Indiana, how is it going. Was just talking to your "pops." I don't
have an issue with you being on here, as I said, I feel you are honest
and upstanding. You could have your wife on here too as a couple, there
are several on here. Sorry you are taking so much heat over this.

Heck, had a 13 y/o girl in the sex threads one night, had 35 guys on her
friends list too, all ages up into the 40s, and when someone mentioned
she was 13, some backed off, but not many. (Saw her in a post the other
night where she had been on since 02/20/07 - wow and no one caught it.)
Buttons, Megforhire and I went after her and got her banned, what a
bunch of "old Biddies" we were huh? Sorry Buttons and Meg, you girls
aren't old Biddies, but I will wear the title with pride. Why didn't
one of the guys report her and get her banned for being underage?? My
point is, she was playing with fire, flirting with older men, had she
met with someone could have destroyed his life had he been caught. So
no one goes after her for being underage and playing in the sex threads
with older men, but is worried about you being married and being on here
to make friends.

Again, I feel as long as you are honest, and not chasing women for
dates, and your wife is fine with this, I don't see an issue. I
understand you have a good strong marriage, and if she has an issue, she
will let you know. Invite her on if she wants.

yur married bro yur lady should be yur best friend.!!!!!!!!!!1

Just putting my two cents in...I think the idea of your wife being your
best friend is great but she can't be your only friend....if and when I
finally find love- I am not going to stop being social. I couldn't be
with someone that tried to destroy my inner social butterfly :)

if you are married - as I am - and seeking friends online

you desire and want more friendships - and yes this can and *does* open
some doors to places you may not wish to go

and if you think that you and you alone are in control of it, then you
are likely quite mistaken - although being in control is overrated

but it is life, an adventure, so explore my friends
and learn something about yourself and others

Things aren't as black and white as some you think.

I believe that maybe you are not actually looking for anything to
happen....but what if it does? Things can be perfectly innocent and then
you might meet the "perfect" women and in all honesty....that "perfect"
woman should be your wife!!
If you are on here, then yes you are putting your wife on the back
burner. I say get off the computer and talk to your wife. Thats my
opinion, but if I was your wife...I wouldn't be ok with this at all!! I
know that you say that you want to talk to your father...then tell your
father to talk to you on the phone! If he can't do that...then he can't
make time for you at all~~thats my opinion!!
Does your father like your wife?? I guess thats my first question? I
just think you need to get off of a dating sight and go be with your
wife...I am not trying to be a bytch, but sometimes things happen before
you realize it.

if you and your wife are solid then you'll be fine

unsure,

Is this a dating site? It is to my understanding when I filled in the
material required for my profile there was a clear sub title of
FRIENDSHIP. There are many here looking for a relationship,which is
fine, while others like myself are here for the simplicity of
networking.

I think if you were to look around you would find a lot of people on
justsayhi here for friends only, nothing more.

Indiana,
Actually, you asked people for their opinions. I stated my opionion. I
myself was really just looking for a friend and I didn't want anything
more.....but what did I find? I ended up finding a lot more then a
friend...was that what I was looking for? Absolutely not...so I was
stating that you can fall for someone with out even realizing whats
going on!! Trust me, it can be a great thing....in the right situation!!
I wish you well and if your wife if fine with your situation, best of
luck to you

Thank you unsure and good luck to you as well.

hi indiana

i just whanted to say. i am married and my hubby is here and my self.
we are here to find frienship only. it is hard for us to find friends
out of the internet cuz we are verry shy people. we both put some rules
down and we respect them. as long that your wife dont mined well i dont
see the problem.

I see nothing wrong with it. There has to be a reason for the looking
for "friendship" option right?

I'm not single and I'm here, so what?

Is it a sin to want to enjoy this awesome site because you're not a
"single"???

As long as your signifiacant other is ok with it.
What business is it of anyone else?

Peace out Indiana You're a great guy.

Like my sassy lil sister tulip says if your married and the wife is
aware of your membership here then rock on!!!

unsure you go GIRL!! what IS wrong with picking up the phone instead of
meeting your daddy here at JSH???
I stand and applaud you for your honesty unsure!!!

i think that some may have misunderstood indiana's interest here. seems
to me that participation here allows him to share this part of pop's
world. (egads!) not simply emailing or calling him. this way you get to
know some of each others' friends and have a common basis for
interaction and discussion. and pops gets to interact with jr in a
different way. nothing wrong with that.

rock on - but you might want to consider justsayinghi as a couple most
of the time - that way everybody gets to join in the fun! although this
is not always possible or desirable.

of course he could meet someone extremely dangerous here
(or at the grocery store, or at work, or the laundromat, or pool hall,
or Vegas, or that little exotic pan-asian restaurant around the
corner....well you get my point)