I was going to email you...but was blocked.
I have a few questions....

what was your agreement when she moved in?
does she feel rushed in any way?

I think she took advantage of you, but that's my own opinion

-Joanne

give the woman every thing she wants. A
month has passed she always turns me down


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get rid of her!!!!!!!!!!!!

Willie
You are very soft hearted! Don't let her ruin you! If there is no love
then its time for her to move on or at least pay rent.

a month has not passed since u joined here? even if u
moved her in the first day? wow this is strange!!!!!

She apparantly has nothing wrong with her and yet she is looking to
collect disability insurance which is a scam. She must scam her way
through life. She is the type that will sue you for kicking her out. Be
careful cause she probably knows all the laws and loopholes about those
things.If she stayed long enough. She could claim a Common Law Marriage
on you and take your stuff if she was successful in the court process.
Move her out quietly. tell her that you must have a paying renter in
there instead because you can't afford to keep her any long
her...something like that. Whatever you do..don't allow her into your
finances or give her a credit card. She will run it to the max before
she leaves.!!

Good point Lakeman

I'll love ya for a free ride

well that almost was the end of this thread..

but you must ask yourself: why?
there are only a few answers to this question under the circs and none
of them bode well....personally I don't believe that helping someone in
need qualifies you as a "sucker" but you got a dilemma now guitar man...

Well for one..This move was on a need basis and should not be looked at
as establishing a relationship!!!!!!

Whe two people love each other they decide to live together, which is
much different than having to move in with someone because you have no
place else to go!!!!!!!

She should be looking for her own place regardless and if you both want
to have a relatioship go from there...I wouldn't be supporting her or
looking at anything other than her being a freind in need right now...If
she is letting you do all these things and doing nothing to help
herself...YES she is taking advantage of you!!!!!!!!

native is right..

good luck bro..

She is definitely taking advantage of you. I don't understand how
someone can move in with some after that short of a time though.

Desperation - financial & emotional

this does not necessarily equate to evil manipulation
but desperation always sits on the razor's edge

Ass, grass or gas. No one rides for free!

LMAO

I would bring my bike into the living room and tear it down.

Just make sure that you are wearing your helmet when you crash through
the window

lol who wears helmets?

No, Helmets????????? How will I set my hair free????? LOL.

wow wow
I can say she is using you. So wake up and smell the coffee and don't be
so naïve. What is she doing to you is not right.