Heck yeah!!!! I mean naughty, naughty, naughty

I will be honest (yes an honest man get out the red marker lol), and say that there is no right or wrong answer for me.

If yuo want to know who I am generally attracted to, I would have to say a lady who is about 5-7 years younger than myself, slight frame (not anorexic, just slim) and shorter than myself. And red hair is a must, lol.

However, I have dated and been romantically involved with bigger women as well. My first true love was about 30 pounds heavier than myself, and the same height.

When it comes to flirting I will flirt with anyone, to include men, as long as they can take the joke (the men I mean lol), and realize I am not serious about anything other than having some laughs. Right now, I have three or four women that are easily twice or three times my size that I automatically flirt with and have them flirt back; they all know that I am not interested i anything other than their friendship, or I wouldn't flirt with them. And, even though I am still looking, there is one lady that if she ever decides to give me the chance, fits the description I gave earlier, except she has dark hair. Otherwise, she is 8 inches shorter than myself, 6 years younger, and fairly slim, though she will tell you she isn't. She also has a very classic Italian fiery temper, which I normally do NOT go for.

So as I said, it all depends on the lady herself. In the end, yes I have those who catch my eye because of how they look. But that is not what I base a relationship off of; at least not completely.

I'm a 140 pounds if a woman is skinner than me it would be a red flag.

I'd date me




Men have their preferences ... so do women ... would you date you? Yes? So will someone else then ... stop worrying ...

I would date you to if you said yes.

If I was into women, I'd date you

If you were just a little bit closer hun, I would date you too But, I just HATE long distant relationships, don't you?

HUH?

oh I'm a little embarrassed ... I was just making a point to 'BE' someone you would want to date and others will want to date you too ... just as you are ...


But thank you peppy, lady and daniel ... you are very sweet!


And yes Daniel - No long distance relationships for me ... been there ... done that ... bought the winnebago ...

My profile used to say "If you weight as much as me or more, this ain't going to work" and listed my weight.
I got some email about that.
And I have dating women that weigh as much as I do or more.
Just a preference , not cut in stone.

That is sooo true, being self conscience about weight gets in the way of relationships. Who wants to date a whiner about the way she looks, smokin hot or not. I have dated quite a few heavy women and when they dont care or bring it up neither do I, it makes her more sexy because I can see who she is. This is probably why toned and athletic women are so successful at dating, they are confident (most of them). Chin up and smile big.

lol, I remember when you first came to mingle hun; I believe we were still justsayhi at that point. You had come in with a group of other refugees from some other dating site, and were given a hard time due to it.
I am very glad to see that you stuck it through (and not just because I enjoy flirting with you so much either lol).

I just pop back in to see friendly faces in the forums ... too many friends here to leave for good!

Nice to see you popping around.

we could cause some serious mayhem

I hate it when you're unfaithful to me. One's never enough, huh?

With friends as beautiful as yourself, I would be a fool NOT to pop back in

truth be told its not whats on the outside that counts to me it whats on the inside that counts ( sense of humer a easy going person that knows how to be open minded)

Well said

Is that directed at me?