Is lust a category, if not then I choose anger.

Lust is a tertiary emotion not a primary one, so it really does not fit into this discussion...

love, because anger gets weak, and weakens us.

Love is the stronger emotion because it is harder to obtain and will survive almost anything while anger is something that can be there one day and be gone the next.

or there one minute and gone the next

Can love also disappear very quickly?

I believe it most certainly can.. but the loss of love imo doesnt weaken us.

It takes ALOT of energy to anger while love is proven to energize.

I'm angry I'm not getting love right now!!!

Not if its true love, if your really love someone it is for life, doesn't mean you will be with them for life but the emotion will always be there.

for me anyway

I think it takes some time to destroy love...look at all the people who pine away for their ex's. Unconditional love never goes away..but that isn't necessarily romantic love

For me. I have loved deeply.. but ya know what?


Hit me once... I have NO love for you anymore. AT ALL!! NADA!!


I dont know if anyones experienced this.. but at that point.. love is in the garbage, there is not one thing I love about that or that person.


It leaves in less than a second. INSTA closure.

I experienced this... but it was after I realized that what I felt was based on false information he gave me. When I realized it was all a lie, it went away.. poof!

Usually if it goes away, I feel at least sadness and disappointment. For a good long while.

I respect your experience.

Much love.

I felt AMAZING!! I got rid of him, and I was wearing sexy stuff at the beach drinking mimosas with a beautiful scene.. I was pampering myself, and treating myself right.. and I was just relieved with every breath he was gone. I was truly grateful I had my life, and had no sadness, I actually dropped a bunch of weight, and flirted, and had a ball.

lol totally different experience, even though my bank account was drained, and my credit cards were charged up from him.. my new laptop was in a million pieces.. I mean.. i went out, and watched this cute guy sing acoustic, and flirted with the bar tender.. I danced my *** OFF all by myself.

lol

Love is a two way street, you loved him deeply and he loved you in his twisted way (not really love) so for me thats not true love just a very bad experience that I hope nobody would ever have to live through.

Sorry you had to live through it.

And thanx for sharin' that ...

ah its cool, thanks.. I just chalked it up.

That sounds like a ton of fun, Earthy!