i would never say i do again with out it! what do you think???

i ain't getting married and they can take all their shit with em when
they leave, i don't want it.

thats funny king. guys at work was talking about marriage and what they
thought of it. is it just a piece of paper or does it mean more?

i believe in committed relationships but i don't think the piece of
paper means anything. i've had more commitment with some of my
girlfriends than some married people have .

right on.... i agree.

I used to think signing one of these was setting the relationship up for
failure. Then I realized that it doesn't have to only include what I
own vs. what you own but could also contain information to try to save
the relationship too. This is a material world, therefore I will sign a
prenup that includes a clause that states one party will loose 100% of
everything if they refuse to go to counseling. They also loose
everything if they have an afair, etc, etc. This way instead of a
negitive document it turns it into something pretty positive.

got that right!

I would say if you're rich like Bill Gates or Donald Trump
then a pre-nup may be necessary, but think about it-
most people do not have anything worth putting in a prenup.
A pre-nup is a pretty straightforward way of saying to
someone that you don't trust them. To love is to trust.
There are no guarantees in love. Love is alot like rolling
dice- sometimes you're lucky, sometimes you roll snake-eyes.
A pre-nup is kind of a way of taking a chance without taking
a chance. It gives you a sense of false security. Look,
even with a pre-nup the other person could take away something
more valuable than money or property- they can royally
fuck up your heart and soul. If you think you have to get
a pre-nup that already means you don't trust the other person
so I would question at that point whether or not you really
love them as trust is part of what love is.

Tricky area to be sure. You are just about to enter into a place where
you say you are wanting to trust and be with someone for the rest of
your life, but then you want them to think about if you break up, and
agree not to take what is not rightfully theirs. I can understand
protecting yourself, but I can also see how it could kill a great
relationship asking for that to be signed. It wouldn't take a dishonest
person to be hurt and decide that is the proof you don't even trust them
prior to marriage.

Boy, do I feel lucky to be in my current situation.

I wouldnt get a prenup if my life depended on it. I like what you said
king they can take there shit when they leave I dont want it id say the
same thing.

my ex tyied to take all my stuff and i cought her f-ucking a guy red
handed! thats why ya need 1.

MINE was caught by me to, but she knew she was bad and knew that I would
be BADASS in court, so she did'nt do me that way. I got all that we
built she got him? But there are TRUE BITCH'S out here?

well. i guess alot of people dont have alot to loose but im not going to
have some chick take my house and retirement thats bull
shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Never been married and if I do get married I would say I have to get one
because I have a lot to lose:(

yep.. me also!.. i dont want to loose my nice house and cars and
retirement!!... alot of gold diggers out
there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

Oh Jimi, you must be on the cheaper to keeper program. I'm sorry, was
that mean again? My bad, I forget, reality is harsh at times, but then
again, so is honesty. But, then again, just my own thoughts on the
subject, as someone once put it. Have a wonderful day.

I would have to get one.

If you have nothing to lose or don't care one way or the other, you're
fine without it, you're taking a chance not worth taking. I believe
that both parties should respect the feelings of the other on the
subject and it shouldn't matter at all to have one. If there is a
problem, then, THERE IS A PROBLEM. I would require one, no question.

Yeah, Chuckie... I,m not rich, but I am part owner of a business and
can,t afford to go thru the bad side of a marriage.

hell. my ex was banging all kinds of guys at the bar and she then wanted
all my stuff. i didnt think that was to cool!!