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It seems internet social sites have created a conundrum ... if you are in a relationship (both people love each other), is it acceptable that one or both have profiles up somewhere to chat with other people as if they were single? Is it harmless?
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It seems internet social sites have created a conundrum ... if you are in a relationship (both people love each other), is it acceptable that one or both have profiles up somewhere to chat with other people as if they were single? Is it harmless? You know I really don't know how to answer this. But in my opinion I don't think it is. Just because I'm more of the jealous type. What's mine is mine, ya know? There's other ways to chat with people that shows that you are taken. Having a profile that says your single leaves you open to other people although you may avoid them, you could one day fall for another person. I guess, haha. |
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"as if they were single" is the part with which i'd have an issue.
my boyfriend and i both have profiles here and i'm sure that he has the occasional conversation with other people (as do i). however, if he were insinuating, or stating, that he were single, that'd sure bother me, as i'm sure it would him too if it were in reverse. |
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To clarify: I ended two relationships because of it. And I wonder about entering into another and having it happen again. Perhaps I have been too paranoid about it in the past?
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who knows,you talk to a guy,you have alot in common, you start to like him and you dump the guy you are with.
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"as if they were single" is the part with which i'd have an issue. my boyfriend and i both have profiles here and i'm sure that he has the occasional conversation with other people (as do i). however, if he were insinuating, or stating, that he were single, that'd sure bother me, as i'm sure it would him too if it were in reverse. |
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That part bothered me also. I know of married couples that have profiles up but clearly state they are taken. Surely they might flirt a bit ...
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who knows,you talk to a guy,you have alot in common, you start to like him and you dump the guy you are with. only if you are looking for another...if you are happy, contented and satisfied with your relationship you won't be looking. |
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"as if they were single" is the part with which i'd have an issue. my boyfriend and i both have profiles here and i'm sure that he has the occasional conversation with other people (as do i). however, if he were insinuating, or stating, that he were single, that'd sure bother me, as i'm sure it would him too if it were in reverse. Neither boyfriend was honest. I posted a profile and spoke to one of them as a stranger ... he pretty much stated he was free. |
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who knows,you talk to a guy,you have alot in common, you start to like him and you dump the guy you are with. only if you are looking for another...if you are happy, contented and satisfied with your relationship you won't be looking. |
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"as if they were single" is the part with which i'd have an issue. my boyfriend and i both have profiles here and i'm sure that he has the occasional conversation with other people (as do i). however, if he were insinuating, or stating, that he were single, that'd sure bother me, as i'm sure it would him too if it were in reverse. Neither boyfriend was honest. I posted a profile and spoke to one of them as a stranger ... he pretty much stated he was free. 
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It seems internet social sites have created a conundrum ... if you are in a relationship (both people love each other), is it acceptable that one or both have profiles up somewhere to chat with other people as if they were single? Is it harmless? as if they were single? no i dont think so...i think people deserve to know where they stand... |
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Neither boyfriend was honest. I posted a profile and spoke to one of them as a stranger ... he pretty much stated he was free. you pretended to be someone you were not, in order to catch him in a lie? you're playing just as dirty as he, in my opinion. |
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who knows,you talk to a guy,you have alot in common, you start to like him and you dump the guy you are with. only if you are looking for another...if you are happy, contented and satisfied with your relationship you won't be looking. I didn't say never. And friendships can be developed, doesn't mean it's time to leave the current partner. If one is settled in where they are they are not going to be seeking another relationship just because a new friendship clicks. |
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Neither boyfriend was honest. I posted a profile and spoke to one of them as a stranger ... he pretty much stated he was free. you pretended to be someone you were not, in order to catch him in a lie? you're playing just as dirty as he, in my opinion. And that is exactly what I felt when I did it too. I was off that site in a flash and haven't been back. It's a year later now and I am dipping my toe back into the internet waters ... I guess I wanted an opinion of if I had been too uptight in the past. Based on the answers, moving on was best. |
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If the couple is married or in a committed relationship i think this would be very inappropriate to list yourself as single, however if you are just dating then i guess it is ok.
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 trust It's a good thing |
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Dateing is just dateing. If I am engaged then sorry Mingle it is time to say good bye. No sense playing with fire when you have something worth protecting. But if a guy wants to mess around like I am a head of cabbage he can get around to when he feel like it he should expect I will loose interest.
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No, I donot think it is okay to have a profile and act as if you are single if you are in a relationship...That kinda defeats the purpose of being in a relationship, doesn't it?
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Sure it's OK---You might find someone with more money to spend on ya!!!
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