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| Topic: Impatient or Inconsiderate ? | |
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Yesterday I promised my girlfriend that I,d take her to brunch
today. Well 10 oclock rolled around and she was ready to go. Pkay I said, a half hour later I still wasn,t ready and she got upset, a few minutes later I,m ready to go, and she,s eating a bagel and saying forget it. So she,s saying I,m inconsiderate for not being ready, and I,m saying she,s to impatient, who,s right ? |
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Depends on what you were doing, sounds like you 2 should have agreed on
a time. Need a unified agenda in a relationship. Otherwise you have a team of horses pulling different directions. Both end up with hurt feelings. |
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my advice, apologize to that gurl cause if ya did it to me, i'd say u
were inconsiderate. buy her some flowers, kiss her feet, and tell her u r not busy this saturday, and want to spend the whole day with her. then buy her a diamond. 
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sorry but no!
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Sorry Duffy, glazing over what happened won't help. They need to learn
to work together & communicate. Otherwise it just keeps happening. |
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Manwich, I have to agree with Oldsage... the next time you set a brunch
date with her, set a definate time that you will leave to go to brunch and then be ready in plenty of time, I am sure that she will change her opinions if you just do that simple step. |
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ya know manwich, u told me to apologize to giglo...hunka burning love.
so when u get your own advice back, it is no huh? ya gotta move on it when the gurl is ready to go. ya made her wait, and then, moved at your own speed. what do ya expect. she sat down, and ate a bagel. take her some flowers. otherwise, keep lookin. 
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I gree with oldsage
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We had a time set, I did,nt feel like getting up, or being rushed, I
told her to eat a bagel and wait, whats wrong with that, the food was,nt going anywhere. |
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By not being ready at the said time you translated to the woman that she
is not important enough to be on time. Women need to be fed or we get crazy  
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"We had a time set, I did,nt feel like getting up, or being rushed, I
told her to eat a bagel and wait, whats wrong with that, the food was,nt going anywhere." I would say it was inconsiderate. If you made a date with me and were a half hour late and the only reason was "I didn't feel like getting up", I wouldn't go either. I would consider it very disrespectful and rude. I agree with your g/f. |
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so u told her to eat a bagel and wait, and u did not
feel like being rushed. well the fact is u lazy bum, u r the problem, and she should trade u in for a younger model.
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you dont need to do anything fancy, just tell her your sorry and that
you wont do it again...how many times have you done this?? if never just relax dont sweat it and prove her wrong the next time, diamonds are worthless anyway and flowers die an apology is heard and never forgotten. |
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He doesn't want advice. He just wants to be told he is right.
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he can only be right if he gives me those dogs
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everyone is entitled to their own opinion. diamonds are not worthless,
and flowers, well they do die. and apologies are worth a dime a dozen, because it will happen again, if it happened once.
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"THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE."
Man you dis'd the lady big time. Your sleep was more important than your DATE with her. I would have been pissed to. With these facts, YOU ARE WRONG!!! Need to remember your manners & KEEP YOUR WORD. Apologize to the lady & make amends. If she isn't worth it to you, BE A MAN & take a walk. |
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What date, she,s my girlfriend the hard part is over.
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With the explantion you gave. Totally inconsiderate.
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