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Topic: Have you ever.....
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Fri 12/11/09 02:19 PM
I did until I met my blow up doll and EVERYTHING fell into place!!noway bigsmile

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Fri 12/11/09 02:22 PM
at my age I am a complete person...and do well on my own..I will not waste someones time nor mine...

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Fri 12/11/09 02:31 PM

I did until I met my blow up doll and EVERYTHING fell into place!!noway bigsmile


I thought that they blew out the window.laugh

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Fri 12/11/09 02:34 PM


I did until I met my blow up doll and EVERYTHING fell into place!!noway bigsmile


I thought that they blew out the window.laugh
oops Well I thought they did!!noway bigsmile

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Fri 12/11/09 02:59 PM
no, some spark of interest would have had to be there, if it were for friends then they would know that is all it is.. actually that is all a first really is ayway right? sure i have gone on a first date thinking i may like him more than for a friend, but till u get to know each other in person you really dont know if there is more or not than just a friendship. in some instances you can learn that u see them differently in your eyes as they see themselves .. in anycase if it were a date or a romantic interest in my head or if it were a date of a friendship interest. there had to be some sort of interest on my part.. other wise why would i want to hang out with someone i thought i did not like or thought was boring? what would be the point in that?

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Fri 12/11/09 03:29 PM

A LONG time ago, this guy buddy convinced me to just hang out all the time. Told him there's no attraction, that it would be just to have company. Next thing I knew, he was introducing me to others as his girlfriend, and then trying to get romantic and sexual. Ended badly. Yes, I have a couple of guy friends I will meet every now and then for dinner, but I keep a huge distance at the table and such. That one deal ended up with me having no friend and him having hurt feelings.


Oddly enough, this sounds similar to a relationship I once had. I dated a girl, for whom I had some intense feelings, but she made it clear that she was only interested in me for a friend. I never told her how I felt. I'm still friends with her, I'm over my attraction, and she's married and has a new baby.

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Fri 12/11/09 03:53 PM

Dated a guy..or girl that you weren't attracted to and had no interested in whatsoever purely for the sake of not wanting to be alone and hoping to find someone you WOULD be interested in on one of your dates??


The girl before my last girl was that. I think I dated her because i was craving to be with someone, and it was her who pursued me though..I just didn't want to go into it, and finally gave in. For my mistake, she lasted 2 months.

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Fri 12/11/09 03:55 PM
No, so far I have not hung out with anyone that I didnt have some interest in,,either as a friend or romantic interest.

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Fri 12/11/09 06:21 PM
No I can't say that I have, I am rarely lonely, and when that happens I usually go with it eat ice cream watch a chick flick, then sweat it out in the gym the next day.

I honestly think if I did that I would be leading someone on and I don't want that to happen

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