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Topic: I think I need something...
morethanjust_janedoe's photo
Thu 06/07/07 09:06 PM
if you cant be who you are and be able to have your time without her
then maybe your not ready.

BryanZieroff's photo
Thu 06/07/07 09:14 PM
Hey, those are some great ideas. I do appreciate the advise. I've been
think about learning to play an instrument and my mother actually works
at a retirement home, the only thing is though I don't think there is
anybody my age I can really connect with there.

catchme_ifucan's photo
Thu 06/07/07 09:15 PM
blushing I was just teasin Bryan,


I've never even seen a real one ggeesshh!


It's not like anybody is going to have the answers for you
we can post our thoughts & you can take pieces to help you.

catchme_ifucan's photo
Thu 06/07/07 09:16 PM
:tongue: they have nurses, kitchen help,GRAND KIDS!! :wink:

SheNerd's photo
Thu 06/07/07 09:17 PM
Just do the things you enjoy doing and you'll make friends that way.
IMHO the best relationships usually start with friendship first.

BryanZieroff's photo
Thu 06/07/07 09:22 PM
Thanks, I forgive ya! I didn't even think about the people that come in
to visit. I might go to the retirement home next day I have off. Anymore
ideas on places where I could meet decent ladies?

Jess642's photo
Thu 06/07/07 09:26 PM
Bryan, if that is your motivation...ONLY to meet ladies, then you will
find yourself right back to here...


If your motivation is to expand your life, and have a more fulfilling
one, then you will have, by volunteering, with good intentions.

Look at the journey, and the outcome will turn up.

You may find if you try to force things,(only looking for a girlfriend)
then it may lead to some rejection.

SheNerd's photo
Thu 06/07/07 09:26 PM
How about libraries or bookstores? Adult ed. classes are also a great
way to meet new people. And there's always church activities, if you're
into church stuff.

BryanZieroff's photo
Thu 06/07/07 09:40 PM
If that's true then what your saying is just let love happen when it
happens, right? I'll give it a shot, I've got nothing else to do laugh
Anyways, I've been wanting to give back to the community for some time
now.

catchme_ifucan's photo
Thu 06/07/07 10:06 PM
Yea If you just focus on having to meet somebody to make you happy then
your not going to find it.
You have to find peace with in yourself.

Be able to enjoy your own company out bike riding, or the gym there are
2 places you should check to see if there is some kinda group thing for
your area.
shoot go to the gym to the classes they have.

iRon's photo
Thu 06/07/07 10:10 PM
One needs a life before they can invitd someone into it.


Just a thought


Peace

SheNerd's photo
Thu 06/07/07 10:37 PM
Wise words, iRon. :)

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