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Topic: What does it meanif the woman insists on paying her part of
Updawg's photo
Sat 12/19/09 09:05 AM
Women can pay and its no biggie, as long as its rare and her request.

Wow 10 bucks thats a cheap date.

Get a car and a job, thats the biggest turn off

time_for_a_change's photo
Sat 12/19/09 09:15 AM
I have a job It just pays for my appartment but I need another so I can save for another vehicle I said she paid for hers she just got a salad I got a 20 dollar steak

lilott's photo
Sat 12/19/09 10:05 AM
It's cause women are more independent these days.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 12/19/09 02:48 PM
Hummm matter of fact I have paid my part more then once and it does not bother me one bit.noway Why do I do it normally if I'm meeting someone for the first time why not pay my way to me that is not considered a real date at all just a meet. Now if it ends up that we click and really want to make a second date and he wants to pay for it then I understand. But why should one or the other pay all the time? I have been known to pick up the tab even with those I'm dating heck figured a guy likes the idea that another would pick up the tab once in a while.

Matter of fact have taught my daughter to be the same way with her B/f as well...bigsmile

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sat 12/19/09 06:46 PM
Ask her. She could simply want to have a sense of self-worth, or she might just not be into you.

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Sat 12/19/09 06:56 PM
If it's something I can afford {coffee, pizza} I might say, "Let me get this one" ONCE but I won't needle about it. If it's high dining I let him take care of it.

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