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Topic: The men I'm attracting
kow626's photo
Sun 12/27/09 10:51 PM

HAHA....I know an OCI pic when I see one.


ok, i'm curious. what's OCI?

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Sun 12/27/09 11:03 PM

I'm trying to figure out a couple of things, maybe some of you ladies are having the same experience. It seems that the men I have the most things in common with are not interested in me. The men who I have little in common with are the ones who want to meet me. I'm surprised how many men on these dating sites have motorcycles and/or goatees. The bad boys want to meet me, what do I have to do to attract nice guys? Do I have to be a homebody in order to find a nice guy?


Not unless you already have a nice guy hidden away somewhere at home.

But I am a bit puzzled, A goatee makes a guy a bad boy???

I wouldnt thing so unless it is blue and tied with a rubber band.

BTW.. as some have already said, Try filling in your profile, It basically says nothing.


AllenAqua's photo
Mon 12/28/09 06:06 AM

AllenAqua,

Too bad you don't live in San Diego. We could go for a ride on your horse!!


Bad timing, I guess... It was my home port while in the Navy.


TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 12/28/09 06:17 AM

I'm trying to figure out a couple of things, maybe some of you ladies are having the same experience. It seems that the men I have the most things in common with are not interested in me. The men who I have little in common with are the ones who want to meet me. I'm surprised how many men on these dating sites have motorcycles and/or goatees. The bad boys want to meet me, what do I have to do to attract nice guys? Do I have to be a homebody in order to find a nice guy?


Hey! What's wrong with having a goatee? laugh

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Mon 12/28/09 08:47 AM
And whats up with goatees anyway??

Did the guys just wake one morning, look in the mirror and think to themselves "gosh... I just don't look enough like a goat?"

rofl all in fun, don't get serious

aladytoo's photo
Mon 12/28/09 08:50 AM

I'm trying to figure out a couple of things, maybe some of you ladies are having the same experience. It seems that the men I have the most things in common with are not interested in me. The men who I have little in common with are the ones who want to meet me. I'm surprised how many men on these dating sites have motorcycles and/or goatees. The bad boys want to meet me, what do I have to do to attract nice guys? Do I have to be a homebody in order to find a nice guy?



Was going threw this thread, reading most of it.For me I don't base a lot on pics, guess it great if there is one posted.As for content on profile,I tend to lean on that a bit more only to get a just what MAYBE they are looking for.

It would be great if you had titles in profile as looking for:
1: Friends/pen pals only
2: FWB only
3: Multiable casual incounters..which to me still means FWB
4: Looking for friend for long term relationship...
5: Opened minded for marriage again.

I think this would help,JMO
you always have the option to change tital.

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