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You are 22 years old. You are muslim. Isn't there arranged marriages in pakistan? Why not wait until you are married? Don't be a jerk... just wait until you are married or get involved in a relationship. Yes there are arrange marriages here but mine is too far.I have still a lot of education and job experience ahead. Then why worry about sex now, why not just focus on education/work. |
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If they already have a gal lined up for you, they might let you take her for a test drive.
How old is she? |
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you know what, you title says it all! it actually angered me, therefore i will refrain myself (which is unusual for me) from saying what think of your post... i'm pretty sure i would be sent to the naughty corner for few days by the mods Well i wouldn't feel bad about what ever you will say ,Because when i sparked a discussion here ,I was actually heartedly open to all the constructive critcisms So you can go on saying what ever you felt like,What can be the worst?May be in your insult or anything will open my eyes.So go ahead and shred those bullets.I promise i won't complain although if i felt that its not something i am then i will just reply back |
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Then why worry about sex now, why not just focus on education/work. Yes it's not entirely about sex but i don't believe in arrange marriages much. |
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I always believed in true love and believed one should stay true to it. The only thing keeping such loving commitment from working is yourself. I promised myself that if such a "prince charming" some women dream about does not exist, that through me I would become that prince charming. I have worked very hard to be the best I can be for my one and only. She is out there somewhere and when I find her, I will be loyal to her forever. I also live by a code of honor for myself. One of the chief parts of it is honesty. I will not lie or cheat or steal, such things are demeaning and wrong for all peoples involved. Do not allow despair to cloud your judgment, you WILL find the one you were meant for with patience and dedication. Thanks for your honest opinion. |
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You are 22 years old. You are muslim. Isn't there arranged marriages in pakistan? Why not wait until you are married? Don't be a jerk... just wait until you are married or get involved in a relationship. Yes there are arrange marriages here but mine is too far.I have still a lot of education and job experience ahead. You already have an arranged marriage? If you are with somebody before that marriage, you'll just be using them. That will hurt the woman and you too. |
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You already have an arranged marriage? If you are with somebody before that marriage, you'll just be using them. That will hurt the woman and you too. No i don't already have an arranged marriage.She asked me that don't we have arrange marriages here so i said that yes we do have them here but i am a sheer follower of arrange marriage. |
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sex just for the sake of sex is just gymnastics and in the end pretty hollow and unfufilling sex with someone you love is a whole different thing and it's worth waiting for when it happens What he said. |
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sex just for the sake of sex is just gymnastics and in the end pretty hollow and unfufilling sex with someone you love is a whole different thing and it's worth waiting for when it happens What he said. Yeah, what she said except, I'll have a little hollow and unfulfilled on the side. 
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highly religious but psuedo intellect place? um well what could that be now a nun?
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I just hope that ticking sound is your watch and not a BOMB.....
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I just hope that ticking sound is your watch and not a BOMB.....  
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i didn't hear any ticking.
i heard something about religious in a high place. well something like that..iticking...maybe biological clock? 
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i didn't hear any ticking. i heard something about religious in a high place. well something like that..iticking...maybe biological clock? You gringa,you good... 
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Well i had never been in a relation ship ,I mean never.I see my friends dating girls everyday but my nature is definitly not the stalker type ,I find my brains pretty uncomfortable when disturbing some one unknown that too just for relationship/friendship with opposite sex.It's just i never found one.Most of my friend says that i am left with two options only ,First one is i begin stalking like them ,Lie cheat trap them into my nest take advantage of them and ditch or secondly have sexual relationships with some high class call girl for some time untill all the lust and hunger to discover about girls is finished.I find both of them reasons absurd at some momments ,Since our media has shown so many romantic flicks ,It has turned human logical mind into some fairytale? Remember i live in a highly religious but pseudo intellect place. What would you people comment on this situation. I think what you are saying makes spiritual sense, in that you are not willing to tie sex in to a relationship just because its 'the thing to do'. I dont think you should stalk anyone, which implies UNWANTED advances,,but keep your eyes open for signs of mutual interest and just make polite conversation , you should get a feel for whether there could be a relationship there(friendship) and if a friendship ensues,,possibly something else might as well. I hope you dont allow the world to make you feel the pressure to have sex. I admire your restraint and integrity but also remember not to live your life in a prison,,all people arent so bad, some make awesome friends if nothing else. take your own advice 'Life is about taking chances and experiencing new people ,I am here for that. ' I'm seriously amazed you made any sense out of that :O |
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Edited by
Edy_ca
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Fri 01/08/10 07:13 PM
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you know what, you title says it all! it actually angered me, therefore i will refrain myself (which is unusual for me) from saying what think of your post... i'm pretty sure i would be sent to the naughty corner for few days by the mods Well i wouldn't feel bad about what ever you will say ,Because when i sparked a discussion here ,I was actually heartedly open to all the constructive critcisms So you can go on saying what ever you felt like,What can be the worst?May be in your insult or anything will open my eyes.So go ahead and shred those bullets.I promise i won't complain although if i felt that its not something i am then i will just reply back this is not a discussion, this is blatant insult to anyone that has had sex before they got married, calling it getting dirty. Don't go out asking us, non religious sinning perverts for advice, follow your religion and don't call me dirty! |
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you know what, you title says it all! it actually angered me, therefore i will refrain myself (which is unusual for me) from saying what think of your post... i'm pretty sure i would be sent to the naughty corner for few days by the mods Well i wouldn't feel bad about what ever you will say ,Because when i sparked a discussion here ,I was actually heartedly open to all the constructive critcisms So you can go on saying what ever you felt like,What can be the worst?May be in your insult or anything will open my eyes.So go ahead and shred those bullets.I promise i won't complain although if i felt that its not something i am then i will just reply back this is not a discussion, this is blatant insult to anyone that has had sex before they got married, calling it getting dirty. Don't go out asking us, non religious sinning perverts for advice, follow your religion and don't call me dirty! You a DIRTY girl... 
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you know what, you title says it all! it actually angered me, therefore i will refrain myself (which is unusual for me) from saying what think of your post... i'm pretty sure i would be sent to the naughty corner for few days by the mods Well i wouldn't feel bad about what ever you will say ,Because when i sparked a discussion here ,I was actually heartedly open to all the constructive critcisms So you can go on saying what ever you felt like,What can be the worst?May be in your insult or anything will open my eyes.So go ahead and shred those bullets.I promise i won't complain although if i felt that its not something i am then i will just reply back this is not a discussion, this is blatant insult to anyone that has had sex before they got married, calling it getting dirty. Don't go out asking us, non religious sinning perverts for advice, follow your religion and don't call me dirty! non religious sinning pervert women turn me on!!  
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you know what, you title says it all! it actually angered me, therefore i will refrain myself (which is unusual for me) from saying what think of your post... i'm pretty sure i would be sent to the naughty corner for few days by the mods Well i wouldn't feel bad about what ever you will say ,Because when i sparked a discussion here ,I was actually heartedly open to all the constructive critcisms So you can go on saying what ever you felt like,What can be the worst?May be in your insult or anything will open my eyes.So go ahead and shred those bullets.I promise i won't complain although if i felt that its not something i am then i will just reply back this is not a discussion, this is blatant insult to anyone that has had sex before they got married, calling it getting dirty. Don't go out asking us, non religious sinning perverts for advice, follow your religion and don't call me dirty! non religious sinning pervert women turn me on!! oh but im dirty, im very very dirty! |
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you know what, you title says it all! it actually angered me, therefore i will refrain myself (which is unusual for me) from saying what think of your post... i'm pretty sure i would be sent to the naughty corner for few days by the mods Well i wouldn't feel bad about what ever you will say ,Because when i sparked a discussion here ,I was actually heartedly open to all the constructive critcisms So you can go on saying what ever you felt like,What can be the worst?May be in your insult or anything will open my eyes.So go ahead and shred those bullets.I promise i won't complain although if i felt that its not something i am then i will just reply back this is not a discussion, this is blatant insult to anyone that has had sex before they got married, calling it getting dirty. Don't go out asking us, non religious sinning perverts for advice, follow your religion and don't call me dirty! non religious sinning pervert women turn me on!! 
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