Topic: Why are all guys such jerks
Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 01/13/10 04:14 PM




I dated a guy not even up to a year, dumped me and now want me to forgive him and come back, how sure is it that he wouldn't do the same


OK, but isn't it a bit of a stretch to categorize "all" guys based solely on a significantly smaller sampling that "all"?

I mean, I met a girl from another site, and she turned out to be an arsonist. But I don't think they're "all" arsonists.

Then again, that might explain a lot....?

shades

Not EVERY guy is a jerk. OK, I am, I admit that, but there are others who aren't!


i belief this is not the first time you are hearing sometimi like this, it happens alot, what i said was generated from deduction, and not generalization


I am a guy and I am not a jerk, therefore your deduction is faulty.


maybe not a jerk, but ya never wear pants...

sharon100's photo
Wed 01/13/10 04:16 PM

If ya keep thinking that their all jerks, you'll just keep attracting more jerks and keep thinking their all jerks...and on and on and on.
okay, i'm convinced, i should have used the word "many" instead of "all". Thanks for the remark. Are you an english teacher or something cos you seams to know too much about deduction and overgeneralization

XenomorphEyez's photo
Wed 01/13/10 04:19 PM
First thing you need to do is not blame ALL men for something that ONE man did. It will benefit you in your future relationships. I'm sure you don't consider your dad a jerk and he's a guy. Anyway, don't repeat any bad situations and you will learn from them. Good luck.

Roco's photo
Wed 01/13/10 04:20 PM
its in guys nature to be jerks..if not, he'd be a women

roko

Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 01/13/10 04:28 PM

First thing you need to do is not blame ALL men for something that ONE man did. It will benefit you in your future relationships. I'm sure you don't consider your dad a jerk and he's a guy. Anyway, don't repeat any bad situations and you will learn from them. Good luck.


my dad was a jerk..slaphead :laughing:

willing2's photo
Wed 01/13/10 04:30 PM
If I was you, I'd quit dating guys from Hawaii.:wink:

beauty314's photo
Wed 01/13/10 04:30 PM

I dated a guy not even up to a year, dumped me and now want me to forgive him and come back, how sure is it that he wouldn't do the same

He's hovering...
he must be in between girlfriends or something.
If you take him back he will dump you again in a matter of weeks and you will feel like a fool.

Annette203's photo
Wed 01/13/10 04:32 PM

I dated a guy not even up to a year, dumped me and now want me to forgive him and come back, how sure is it that he wouldn't do the same


If you love somebody, set them free. If they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were

XenomorphEyez's photo
Wed 01/13/10 04:33 PM


First thing you need to do is not blame ALL men for something that ONE man did. It will benefit you in your future relationships. I'm sure you don't consider your dad a jerk and he's a guy. Anyway, don't repeat any bad situations and you will learn from them. Good luck.


my dad was a jerk..slaphead :laughing:

Okay then...how about instead of dad, I say your son. I'm sure you don't consider your son a jerk. If you do, then I'm running out of options and the OP might be right about all guys. laugh

Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 01/13/10 04:36 PM



First thing you need to do is not blame ALL men for something that ONE man did. It will benefit you in your future relationships. I'm sure you don't consider your dad a jerk and he's a guy. Anyway, don't repeat any bad situations and you will learn from them. Good luck.


my dad was a jerk..slaphead :laughing:

Okay then...how about instead of dad, I say your son. I'm sure you don't consider your son a jerk. If you do, then I'm running out of options and the OP might be right about all guys. laugh


right on.. :thumbsup: that's works better..my boys are sweethearts.

silly's photo
Wed 01/13/10 04:36 PM
not all guys are jerks,mine isn't.His wonderful.:heart:

motowndowntown's photo
Wed 01/13/10 04:39 PM





I dated a guy not even up to a year, dumped me and now want me to forgive him and come back, how sure is it that he wouldn't do the same


OK, but isn't it a bit of a stretch to categorize "all" guys based solely on a significantly smaller sampling that "all"?

I mean, I met a girl from another site, and she turned out to be an arsonist. But I don't think they're "all" arsonists.

Then again, that might explain a lot....?

shades

Not EVERY guy is a jerk. OK, I am, I admit that, but there are others who aren't!


i belief this is not the first time you are hearing sometimi like this, it happens alot, what i said was generated from deduction, and not generalization


I am a guy and I am not a jerk, therefore your deduction is faulty.


maybe not a jerk, but ya never wear pants...


Why on earth would I want to wear pants if I didn't have to????

no photo
Wed 01/13/10 05:24 PM
For the same reason all women are b!tches, sluts, golddiggers, and 'hoes. Oh yeah, that's not true either.

Seriously, OP, if you can't trust him, don't take him back. Simple as that.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 01/13/10 05:28 PM
Oh you men.....................

You are such jerks...............

You are too nice..................

You are so bad..................

You treat us like dirt.............

etc.


Leave em alone already!slaphead slaphead ill :heart:


PATSFAN's photo
Wed 01/13/10 05:45 PM
Surprise, another sweeping generalization !

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 01/13/10 05:47 PM
We suck! :cry:

TxsSun's photo
Wed 01/13/10 05:47 PM
Not ALL guys are...Just because you found a bad seed doesn't mean the whole batch is...

no photo
Wed 01/13/10 05:55 PM
I think it's important to remember that there are good people in the world. Just not in this world.


TxsSun's photo
Wed 01/13/10 05:56 PM

I think it's important to remember that there are good people in the world. Just not in this world.




:tongue:

MaryBlunt's photo
Wed 01/13/10 06:11 PM
Listen most guys do not know what they want and love playing the field. You must decide whether are not you are going to continue on with someone who really will remain around until he finds someone else. Plus, this is the time of year when men need to be connected with someone.

Steve Harvey Bood is excellent when selecting a mate. There is 5 things you must ask him:
-1- The first is his short term goals? This will help you understand who he is, what he does, and how much he makes. His answers will help you determine whether you want to be a part of that plan or not.

-2- Second is his long term goals? Everyone should have a vision. And a man who really have looked at where he see himself in 10 years has looked into his future.

-3- What is his view about relationship? Find out how he feel about family and his views on it. Ask him about his parents. Ask him about his relationship with God.

-4- What do he think about you? What he thinks about you beyond the surface.
-5- How do he feel about you? You would want to hear something like this when I don't see you I miss you.

Mary