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Topic: How long, means he's gone?
Berryboo's photo
Wed 06/13/07 09:23 PM
Hmm, question to the guys mostly, ladies I appreciate your ideas too:
Last phone convo with this guy was last week Thursday.
I sent him a email saying I need to reschedule our meeting. We were
suppose to meet tomorrow, and I haven't heard from him.embarassed
..yea yea

sassystacey69xx's photo
Wed 06/13/07 09:28 PM
uuuuuuummm Berryboo!!!i say move on doll,men are just dumbasses
lol!!!!Theres alot of them around,im sure youll find the right one..his
loss not yours!!!i found mine after a very long time and im happy with
him but i went through tears,heart ache and alot of dates!!!bigsmile
:heart:

Berryboo's photo
Wed 06/13/07 09:32 PM
I'm so over it..once again I let my fear and insecurity consume me.
Maybe I'm suppose to be single for a while longer to figure some more
things out and grow more with myself...but God, how will I know I'm
ready for a relationship to use all I'm learning if I try..I wonder
when..but its best not to ask. Asking and begging I feel like a victim
and I'd rather be an observer and enjoy the life I have now and look
forward to what God has in store for me :smile:

Berryboo's photo
Wed 06/13/07 09:33 PM
Thanks sassy!flowerforyou

sassystacey69xx's photo
Wed 06/13/07 09:33 PM
(((((((((((((BERRYBOO))))

YOU are proberley so much better than him anyway!!!!

KEEP FAITH DOLLflowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou THERES SOMEONE FOR
EVERYONE!!!:heart:

sparkletheworld's photo
Wed 06/13/07 09:34 PM
Berrybooohwell It stinks if you were really wanting to meet but if it
has been since Thursday , sounds like he was not ready for the big sand
box-- BUT- I'm sure there will be a good excuse when you finally do hear
from him

Berryboo's photo
Wed 06/13/07 09:37 PM
(((((sassy)))right back !:heart: :smile:

ZStarWind's photo
Wed 06/13/07 09:39 PM
Hey! Not all men are dumbasses, just most. Lol

Berryboo's photo
Wed 06/13/07 09:42 PM
Thanks sparkle:smile:
Your optimism makes me smile. I need to remind myself I'm no better than
anyone else because when I get close to people I fear they will let me
down...but I'm not that type of person sooo I think its my negative
thinking that attracts real negative outcomes... "As a man thinketh in
his heart so is he..." (Proverbs 23:7).

jade101's photo
Wed 06/13/07 09:43 PM
Hey Berryboo, if the guy doesn't know how to redo or reschedule, then he
doesn't belong in a relationship anyway. There are many guys out there
that do understand the everyday happenings of life. Smile tomorrow is
another day that the sun does come up.:smile:

no photo
Wed 06/13/07 09:44 PM
IF YOU DONT HEAR FROM HIM IN A WEEK HES GONE.mad mad

Berryboo's photo
Wed 06/13/07 09:48 PM
Thanks jadeflowerforyou
Yea, thanks 4fun for being real blunt as well, appreciate it.

no photo
Wed 06/13/07 09:49 PM
U R WELCOME. AT LEAST THAT IS WHAT I WOULD THINK.

Berryboo's photo
Wed 06/13/07 09:56 PM
thanks zstar for the post.

joe1973's photo
Wed 06/13/07 10:08 PM
i TRY to get back to whom-ever within 3 days.IF i cannot then i will
with in 5.so 3 to 5 days is my standard.if you have to wait longer than
that then find someone else pronto,unless you are hung up on that
person.
just my advice.

Claudette's photo
Wed 06/13/07 10:10 PM
i think that is pretty inconsiderate of him not to call Berry....

then i would ask myself, do i want to be involved with someone who is
inconsiderate... and decide from there what to do.

no photo
Wed 06/13/07 10:13 PM
HE IS PROBABLY OUT WITH ANOTHER CHICK ANYWAYS...DONT WAIT 4 HIM.

jade101's photo
Wed 06/13/07 11:23 PM
:smile: :smile:

no photo
Wed 06/13/07 11:38 PM
Jade, I agree with everyone saying that you should not 'wait' for him,
don't put yourself in that place where you are "Asking and begging I
feel like a victim"!

But on the other hand, this is what I see:

Me and a woman have scheduled a meeting. She later emails me and says
we need to reschedule. I take that a cancellation of that initial
scheduled meeting, and a 'leaving open' of when, possibly "if" we will
meet. Depending on exactly how you worded your email, maybe I'm waiting
to hear from you -when- you'd like to schedule it. I would not want to
come across as pushy or demanding.

Sure, an acknowledgment of the receipt of your email would be courteous,
but we don't know what he has going on in his life.

If you find it empowering to walk completely away, then by all means,
just walk away, theres no need to examine this further.

But if you can be both empowered/independent yet remain open to meeting
him, I think you should give him the benefit of the doubt.

no photo
Wed 06/13/07 11:43 PM
Hmmm has anyone considered that he may have had pc probs or just hasnt
checked his email??? Ive heard that there are actually ppl out there
that arent glued to them unlike moi!!laugh laugh laugh

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