Topic: confused
zanne46's photo
Fri 03/19/10 11:48 PM







If most were like you it wouldn't be so hard... Chances are she's had some bad experiences... But then again she could just be thinking and getting back to you later....

i'm sure that's the case. still not holding my breath though.


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you're loved and lusted by many :wink:
thanks, but i'm gonna have to get checked for colon cancer now. i think someone is blowing smoke up my azz.


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2;47 A.M. MAYBE IMAGINATION....I CAN'T SEE THE SCREAN ANYMORE...LMAO

74Drew's photo
Fri 03/19/10 11:48 PM
i'm out ladies. thanks for the discussion. i hope it's been enlightening for you. i know i've got some things to consider.


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IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 03/19/10 11:49 PM
april 2nd Cher... I have to send out invitations or emails or something.. I'm so tired I have been debating if I have the energy for a party....

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 03/19/10 11:49 PM

i'm out ladies. thanks for the discussion. i hope it's been enlightening for you. i know i've got some things to consider.


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It was darlin'... Sweet dreams.. I'll keep you updated...

mscherbear's photo
Fri 03/19/10 11:53 PM
I'll keep the date open! Woohooo!!

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 03/19/10 11:54 PM
:banana: now to get my bum in gear huh... slaphead

zanne46's photo
Fri 03/19/10 11:55 PM
GOODNIGHT EVERYONE..

HAVE A GREAT DAY TOMORROW....

i'M GOING TO A MEETING WITH MARINE PARENTS.....

18 months and finally found the ppl I need to be with,

I'm so excited I can't sleep.....:smile: happy :heart: :banana:drinks smooched :heart: :heart: :heart:

goodnight...flowers

Tessa02's photo
Sat 03/20/10 11:27 AM
Ok, Drew!!! I'ma going to kick your butt!! I've done hurt two feelers telling them I wasn't interested. Persistant little creatures. I can't help it they arent what I'm looking for!!tears

74Drew's photo
Sat 03/20/10 11:48 PM

Ok, Drew!!! I'ma going to kick your butt!! I've done hurt two feelers telling them I wasn't interested. Persistant little creatures. I can't help it they arent what I'm looking for!!tears

you got to be cruel to be kind



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Tessa02's photo
Sun 03/21/10 09:37 AM


Ok, Drew!!! I'ma going to kick your butt!! I've done hurt two feelers telling them I wasn't interested. Persistant little creatures. I can't help it they arent what I'm looking for!!tears

you got to be cruel to be kind



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I must not of hurt them too bad...he's back!! Think I'll send a message leave me the "F" alone & hit the block on my way out of the mail room!!rofl

74Drew's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:25 AM



Ok, Drew!!! I'ma going to kick your butt!! I've done hurt two feelers telling them I wasn't interested. Persistant little creatures. I can't help it they arent what I'm looking for!!tears

you got to be cruel to be kind



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I must not of hurt them too bad...he's back!! Think I'll send a message leave me the "F" alone & hit the block on my way out of the mail room!!rofl

sometimes that's what it takes.

i swear, sometimes i'm a bit envious of people. of course, it's not cool to be stalked by someone you don't desire, but wouldn't it be great to be stalked by someone you did?


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IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:27 AM




Ok, Drew!!! I'ma going to kick your butt!! I've done hurt two feelers telling them I wasn't interested. Persistant little creatures. I can't help it they arent what I'm looking for!!tears

you got to be cruel to be kind



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I must not of hurt them too bad...he's back!! Think I'll send a message leave me the "F" alone & hit the block on my way out of the mail room!!rofl

sometimes that's what it takes.

i swear, sometimes i'm a bit envious of people. of course, it's not cool to be stalked by someone you don't desire, but wouldn't it be great to be stalked by someone you did?


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It can be intriguing for a bit and then not so much.. :wink:

74Drew's photo
Sun 03/21/10 10:39 AM





Ok, Drew!!! I'ma going to kick your butt!! I've done hurt two feelers telling them I wasn't interested. Persistant little creatures. I can't help it they arent what I'm looking for!!tears

you got to be cruel to be kind



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I must not of hurt them too bad...he's back!! Think I'll send a message leave me the "F" alone & hit the block on my way out of the mail room!!rofl

sometimes that's what it takes.

i swear, sometimes i'm a bit envious of people. of course, it's not cool to be stalked by someone you don't desire, but wouldn't it be great to be stalked by someone you did?


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It can be intriguing for a bit and then not so much.. :wink:

i'm sure.


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74Drew's photo
Mon 03/22/10 12:24 AM
so, i've learned a little bit about women from this discussion.
also, it seems that i'm of a select group of males who don't insist on an explanation for their incompatibility.

and just to update, i still haven't heard back from this girl. good thing i wasn't holding my breath.



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EquusDancer's photo
Mon 03/22/10 12:30 AM


how about some role reversal.
would you rather hear "not interested" or "....................."?

i don't think anyone prefers being ignored over being told the truth.


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There's the common decency argument which Drew is saying, but, then there's Monier's very good point as well. You say you're not interested, which quickly follows with "why," and then "what did I do," etc. blah blah. There's got to be some kind of middle ground though.


I got that today. Irritating.

74Drew's photo
Mon 03/22/10 12:32 AM



how about some role reversal.
would you rather hear "not interested" or "....................."?

i don't think anyone prefers being ignored over being told the truth.


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There's the common decency argument which Drew is saying, but, then there's Monier's very good point as well. You say you're not interested, which quickly follows with "why," and then "what did I do," etc. blah blah. There's got to be some kind of middle ground though.


I got that today. Irritating.
what's that? the disregard or the why?


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EquusDancer's photo
Mon 03/22/10 12:34 AM
It also might depend on the way the email ended? I know sometimes enough info comes across that there's a feel of not needing to respond, especially if it's chat in general.

I know Lex and I have been discussing his books off and on, and I haven't responded this last time. It's not that I'm ignoring, and certainly hope not to be appearing that way, but his info answered my questions and I didn't see the need to write back at this time.

Perhaps I could be wrong?

So perception can make things interesting.

Tessa02's photo
Mon 03/22/10 06:36 AM
Ok, I get fat nudie pics this morning from a guy on another site. He says "Hi, nice pics" Now, I could have been nice enough to reply with "Why thank you" But, not wanting to encourage him I replied "Morning, not so nice pics" Now, I feel a tad guilty!! Not!!laugh What made him think I wanted to see his fat azz first thing this morning to start my day!! Eeeewww!!!

Tessa02's photo
Mon 03/22/10 06:46 AM
Drew, just send her another email saying good morning or the like & if she doesn't answer. Then she's probably not interested. At least with a greeting she could greet you back if she's interested.

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 03/22/10 06:52 AM
It's very rude not to answer back!

I always do despite the time it takes

and I'm always honest!!

To me it shows cowardness-- ya know-- like they are intimated !

I even do all the damn nudges every day!!!:heart: