Oh Lord, I cant believ I'm "old" and I don't know how to deal with this
Here is the story... We meet, I think we like each other.. we kissed, exchanged phone nr., he text me after 3 days asking how I am...blah, blah back in fort on the text. I texted him back after 3 days asking him how he is and asking him to call me when he has time. He said he will try but he has a trying at work... Never heard from him... That was last week... I really,REALLY like him. I wish he could know that. What to do? I got so mad at myself for being stupid that I delete his nr. and name and all text mes. form my phone. What happend there? What did I do?

Either he's busy or he changed his mind, and he's not interested in you. If he never contacts you again, chalk it up to his loss and move on.

What did you do??

Besides not show any patience ( deleting all the texts and his number after a few days )???

Nothing...lol

It happens.

I went out with someone a few times...then she stopped contacting me and didn't answer messages from me for weeks at a time.

You gotta lower your level of " give a shite " a bit.

I'm working on lowering mine, JAG.

he's not interested in you i know it hurts bout its the true :/

Geez, I wish people typed in English. It took me ten minutes to try and translate this.

Methinks you get upset fast. Let it go.

It's a wonderful way to be.

Nothing gets to you when your " Give a Shite " level is low enough.

You speak truth.

i know exactly how you feel
i met a guy over a yr ago .. no not on here but another site
and he was nothing but a workaholic where he didnt even have time for his ownself. and then shortly after i broke up with this guy i met on here, jeff and i got together but he was still a workaholic he hid from reality i even thought he was cheating and more i thought about it. he wasent he was actually cheating on his ownself from not allowing him to have a real realtionship.. but he also gave nothing but excuses where i finally had enough after 6-7months and some of the time he would text me and that was his communication instead of actually talking on the phone.. that was useless.. so i broke up with him by leaving him a email but i dont think he actually read the whole thing.. (i origanly wrote out a 9 page letter to him) maybe i should had sent that to him instead of emailing it
but any how the other day he im me on yahoo and was acting like we didnt brake up...which i did for he respond to the email and he deleted me from his friends list but i email him something and he put me back on his list..i care about him but im not fan of his excuses and my daughter cant stand him...

Always.

It's one of the MANY reasons I am single...lmao

Nothing wrong with being single. I think it rocks, you don't have to please anyone but yourself, you don't have to put up with anyone's ********, there are no false expectations which lead to massive disappointment....it's great, I'm telling you....

if a guy acts like he doesn't give a **** then he really doesn't give a ****..


Oh and what's with the 3 day game?

Sometimes it's just a two day game

I guess it depends on the player

I agree. Unless he's super super busy (which he probably isn't unless he's ruling the world) he just doesn't give a ****. I've heard of the 3 day game, it's so you don't appear too eager. I don't date, so I've never played it, but I hear it's um....safe?

Ah, I've never heard of the 2 day game...however, I can top that. Once a guy told me he'd call me and it's been 13 years ago....and he never called!!!!!!

Damn!

That's not necessarily true.

Just because my G.A.S. level is low....doesn't mean I actually DON'T. lol

Your first mistake is texting each other your feelings. Try talking instead. Too much texting going on. Slow down, and don't expect instant answers, which I guess you're used to because of the texting culture you so enjoy. It's only been a week. I wouldn't get too excited just yet. Give it some time. At least longer than a week.

I know, right? So now, when a guy gives me that line "I'll call you," I don't really put much stock in it.