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Topic: How would you make the first move?
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Wed 04/07/10 07:26 AM
I don't understand those who wait around for someone to make the first move.. especially on here. Men or women. Why wait?

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Wed 04/07/10 07:28 AM
laugh laugh laugh frustrated frustrated ~~it very well could be that the ones I want to make the first move..don't
and when I make the first move, they run for the hills...lmao

I think my "picker" is broken!

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Wed 04/07/10 07:30 AM
its the thought of rejection for most people that want the other person to make the first move...i feel like if i talk to someone and they dont talk back that there must be something wrong with me...i know this logic is faulty but its instilled in my brain...lol...sometimes i just work past my fears and take the leap!

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Wed 04/07/10 07:56 AM
whoa slaphead slaphead I ..ummm...actually don't know how to respond to that Gerry...lmao!slaphead slaphead slaphead

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Wed 04/07/10 08:01 AM

whoa slaphead slaphead I ..ummm...actually don't know how to respond to that Gerry...lmao!slaphead slaphead slaphead

ok...lol frustrated

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Wed 04/07/10 08:14 AM
flowers

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Wed 04/07/10 10:44 AM

Hi,i was wondering or least i heard more emported to actually send a message to her then nudge, coz thats seems like nudgeing girls they think men just want action. idk i guess..


I think nudges from strangers are creepy, so yeah, it's best to send an email.

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Wed 04/07/10 10:46 AM

its the thought of rejection for most people that want the other person to make the first move...i feel like if i talk to someone and they dont talk back that there must be something wrong with me...i know this logic is faulty but its instilled in my brain...lol...sometimes i just work past my fears and take the leap!


Exactly, or if you're talking to someone and get the distinct impression they'd rather you went away and left them the hell alone, it's just as bad. That's why I'm more careful who I approach now, it's too embarrassing otherwise.

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