Topic: How would you make the first move?
rara777's photo
Tue 03/30/10 09:36 PM
rofl :laughing: Or what? :laughing: rofl

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 03/30/10 09:36 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Tue 03/30/10 09:39 PM
When someone adds me as a favorite I block them; it's creepy.

I also ignore friend requests unless I have met them in the forums and had a few conversations first.

I don't use the nudges, and I ignore nudges I receive unless they are my friends. Nudges are passive aggressive.

Send a polite, informative, witty but sincere email. Just pull up the big boy pants and pretend you are meeting her in real life. If you saw a hottie at the store would you approach her and "nudge" her? Hell no! You would introduce yourself and spark a conversation.

I think you will do just fine! flowerforyou

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Tue 03/30/10 09:53 PM

rofl :laughing: Or what? :laughing: rofl




Like I said in the other thread, ya never know
around here. laugh :tongue:

gstaats7938's photo
Tue 03/30/10 10:05 PM

When someone adds me as a favorite I block them; it's creepy.

I also ignore friend requests unless I have met them in the forums and had a few conversations first.

I don't use the nudges, and I ignore nudges I receive unless they are my friends. Nudges are passive aggressive.

Send a polite, informative, witty but sincere email. Just pull up the big boy pants and pretend you are meeting her in real life. If you saw a hottie at the store would you approach her and "nudge" her? Hell no! You would introduce yourself and spark a conversation.

I think you will do just fine! flowerforyou


thats actually what ive been doing is just email girls im interested in and asking them questions that have to do with their profile or pictures. love the tattoo you have...its an ankh cross, right?

EquusDancer's photo
Tue 03/30/10 10:17 PM

when papersmile and I met

I was going to the bar to get a drink and she tripped me

as I lay on the floor with her foot on my chest holding me down she asked me out

and the rest is history


Geez, sounds like dad's excuse for how he met mom. He still blames the poor dog! LOL!

Drop a line. I usually use the animals as an excuse to talk. Or something interesting in the forum they mentioned.


MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 03/30/10 10:19 PM


When someone adds me as a favorite I block them; it's creepy.

I also ignore friend requests unless I have met them in the forums and had a few conversations first.

I don't use the nudges, and I ignore nudges I receive unless they are my friends. Nudges are passive aggressive.

Send a polite, informative, witty but sincere email. Just pull up the big boy pants and pretend you are meeting her in real life. If you saw a hottie at the store would you approach her and "nudge" her? Hell no! You would introduce yourself and spark a conversation.

I think you will do just fine! flowerforyou


thats actually what ive been doing is just email girls im interested in and asking them questions that have to do with their profile or pictures. love the tattoo you have...its an ankh cross, right?


Yes, it is an ankh! I have 6 others and each is a "chapter" which collectively make-up my spiritual beliefs. I have 3 bachelor's degrees, with one in anthropology (subtext in Egyptology), and that tatt is the final chapter. I need to have it "connect" to my lower piece in a celestial-type pattern. I love my ink; it's very personal.

Regarding the emails: don't take it personally that you may only have 20% or less success in getting replies. It's unfortunately part of on-line dating. You will make faster, closer friends on the forums rather than just surfing the profiles.

gstaats7938's photo
Tue 03/30/10 10:25 PM



When someone adds me as a favorite I block them; it's creepy.

I also ignore friend requests unless I have met them in the forums and had a few conversations first.

I don't use the nudges, and I ignore nudges I receive unless they are my friends. Nudges are passive aggressive.

Send a polite, informative, witty but sincere email. Just pull up the big boy pants and pretend you are meeting her in real life. If you saw a hottie at the store would you approach her and "nudge" her? Hell no! You would introduce yourself and spark a conversation.

I think you will do just fine! flowerforyou


thats actually what ive been doing is just email girls im interested in and asking them questions that have to do with their profile or pictures. love the tattoo you have...its an ankh cross, right?


Yes, it is an ankh! I have 6 others and each is a "chapter" which collectively make-up my spiritual beliefs. I have 3 bachelor's degrees, with one in anthropology (subtext in Egyptology), and that tatt is the final chapter. I need to have it "connect" to my lower piece in a celestial-type pattern. I love my ink; it's very personal.

Regarding the emails: don't take it personally that you may only have 20% or less success in getting replies. It's unfortunately part of on-line dating. You will make faster, closer friends on the forums rather than just surfing the profiles.


yeah...i have been surfing the forums too and leaving my comments where i feel i can...i would love to see all of your tattoos...unless they are too personal or in a personal place...lol...the only reason i know what it was is because i celebrate my irish side every st pattys day and i have one hanging on my lamp beside my bed. it has been a tradition to watch boondock saints every st pattys day and then go drinking. thats one of the few times out of the year that i let the irish in me drink as much as it wants...lol

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Tue 03/30/10 10:26 PM
Ok, it's getting hot in here. noway smokin drinker

heavenlyboy34's photo
Tue 03/30/10 10:33 PM

Ok, it's getting hot in here. noway smokin drinker


Wow, you get hot easily! laugh :wink:

EquusDancer's photo
Tue 03/30/10 10:36 PM


Ok, it's getting hot in here. noway smokin drinker


Wow, you get hot easily! laugh :wink:


rofl

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Tue 03/30/10 10:41 PM
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 03/30/10 10:44 PM



Yes, it is an ankh! I have 6 others and each is a "chapter" which collectively make-up my spiritual beliefs. I have 3 bachelor's degrees, with one in anthropology (subtext in Egyptology), and that tatt is the final chapter. I need to have it "connect" to my lower piece in a celestial-type pattern. I love my ink; it's very personal.

Regarding the emails: don't take it personally that you may only have 20% or less success in getting replies. It's unfortunately part of on-line dating. You will make faster, closer friends on the forums rather than just surfing the profiles.


yeah...i have been surfing the forums too and leaving my comments where i feel i can...i would love to see all of your tattoos...unless they are too personal or in a personal place...lol...the only reason i know what it was is because i celebrate my irish side every st pattys day and i have one hanging on my lamp beside my bed. it has been a tradition to watch boondock saints every st pattys day and then go drinking. thats one of the few times out of the year that i let the irish in me drink as much as it wants...lol


Boondock Saints is one of my all time fave movies! flowerforyou I :heart: Norman Reedus.

I can send you a message and get pix of my tatts to you. Only one is off limits; the others are OK to see! winking

gstaats7938's photo
Tue 03/30/10 10:46 PM




Yes, it is an ankh! I have 6 others and each is a "chapter" which collectively make-up my spiritual beliefs. I have 3 bachelor's degrees, with one in anthropology (subtext in Egyptology), and that tatt is the final chapter. I need to have it "connect" to my lower piece in a celestial-type pattern. I love my ink; it's very personal.

Regarding the emails: don't take it personally that you may only have 20% or less success in getting replies. It's unfortunately part of on-line dating. You will make faster, closer friends on the forums rather than just surfing the profiles.


yeah...i have been surfing the forums too and leaving my comments where i feel i can...i would love to see all of your tattoos...unless they are too personal or in a personal place...lol...the only reason i know what it was is because i celebrate my irish side every st pattys day and i have one hanging on my lamp beside my bed. it has been a tradition to watch boondock saints every st pattys day and then go drinking. thats one of the few times out of the year that i let the irish in me drink as much as it wants...lol


Boondock Saints is one of my all time fave movies! flowerforyou I :heart: Norman Reedus.

I can send you a message and get pix of my tatts to you. Only one is off limits; the others are OK to see! winking


just bought the second one a few days before st pattys so i had a double feature that day before going out :)

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 03/30/10 10:49 PM
I always ask for nude pics

If i get them

She's a keeper smokin

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 03/30/10 10:49 PM
:tongue: laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

gstaats7938's photo
Tue 03/30/10 10:50 PM

I always ask for nude pics

If i get them

She's a keeper smokin


rofl :thumbsup:

no photo
Tue 03/30/10 10:51 PM

I always ask for nude pics

If i get them

She's a keeper smokin

See, that's what I'm sayin'!!!! :thumbsup: rofl rofl rofl

no photo
Tue 03/30/10 10:58 PM




Yes, it is an ankh! I have 6 others and each is a "chapter" which collectively make-up my spiritual beliefs. I have 3 bachelor's degrees, with one in anthropology (subtext in Egyptology), and that tatt is the final chapter. I need to have it "connect" to my lower piece in a celestial-type pattern. I love my ink; it's very personal.

Regarding the emails: don't take it personally that you may only have 20% or less success in getting replies. It's unfortunately part of on-line dating. You will make faster, closer friends on the forums rather than just surfing the profiles.


yeah...i have been surfing the forums too and leaving my comments where i feel i can...i would love to see all of your tattoos...unless they are too personal or in a personal place...lol...the only reason i know what it was is because i celebrate my irish side every st pattys day and i have one hanging on my lamp beside my bed. it has been a tradition to watch boondock saints every st pattys day and then go drinking. thats one of the few times out of the year that i let the irish in me drink as much as it wants...lol


Boondock Saints is one of my all time fave movies! flowerforyou I :heart: Norman Reedus.

I can send you a message and get pix of my tatts to you. Only one is off limits; the others are OK to see! winking
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm,,:angel: ONE is the loneliest number that could ever be........surprised :angel:






:angel: mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmwhoa whoa O'well,,,winking lol

fifijones's photo
Tue 03/30/10 11:03 PM
there's no real keepin' of the cyber friends. I'm an aggressive woman,....no, no, it's true...I know you don't believe it... but I believe in the gentle stroking of the inner thigh as an introduction.

EquusDancer's photo
Tue 03/30/10 11:10 PM

there's no real keepin' of the cyber friends. I'm an aggressive woman,....no, no, it's true...I know you don't believe it... but I believe in the gentle stroking of the inner thigh as an introduction.


rofl