Topic: How would you make the first move?
bsdetector's photo
Wed 03/31/10 03:52 PM
I club her over the head and drag her back to my man cave.

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Wed 03/31/10 07:04 PM
I didn't read all these posts... but if I saw someone I was interested in getting to know I'd send them an email. I wouldn't nudge, as I tend to ignore nudges from complete strangers. I wouldn't add them as a friend until I've chatted with them a bit. And I definitely wouldn't add them as a favorite. Emails are the best way to go.

gstaats7938's photo
Wed 03/31/10 07:07 PM


Just wondering how everyone makes the first move when they see someone on here that they are interested in. do you nudge, add to favorites, add as friend, sent a letter, or something else? would love to know what slaphead



I would say all the above if your really interested in the person.

Go get her BOY!

ha ha...im going to try my best :banana:

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 03/31/10 07:12 PM

Just wondering how everyone makes the first move when they see someone on here that they are interested in. do you nudge, add to favorites, add as friend, sent a letter, or something else? would love to know what slaphead


Throw a brick at their head.

buttons's photo
Wed 03/31/10 07:19 PM
simple as this.. after being on here for 4 1/2 yrs.. i don't bother looking lol! 2 outta 3 that wanted to meet.. set a date or time and did not call.. or follolw through..<hid when the time neared>. so i dont get too excited about meeting anyone on here.:wink:

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Wed 03/31/10 07:23 PM

I club her over the head and drag her back to my man cave.

Way to go, BS. That's sexy for some reason. bigsmile

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 03/31/10 07:25 PM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Wed 03/31/10 07:26 PM
I go right for the email!!!

I like when a man does that too!!

No nudges. Kisses. Hugs. Winks. Or kicks in the butt!!

That does not cut it for me!!:heart:

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Wed 03/31/10 07:51 PM


I club her over the head and drag her back to my man cave.

Way to go, BS. That's sexy for some reason. bigsmile


laugh

Tessa02's photo
Wed 03/31/10 07:56 PM
I just send them boobie pics...JT's not on my list tho!rofl Actually I don't do anything. I'm yet to contact a guy here first.

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Wed 03/31/10 08:15 PM

I just send them boobie pics...JT's not on my list tho!rofl Actually I don't do anything. I'm yet to contact a guy here first.


I made the mistake of contacting a local guy, he looked at my profile and never answered. I guess he thought I was after him when all I did was ask him where he lived before....:laughing:

Tocheeky4U's photo
Fri 04/02/10 08:51 AM
I would take him to a hobo fight cause nothing says romance like hobos fighting!

gstaats7938's photo
Fri 04/02/10 02:03 PM

I think nudges from strangers are creepy, I think being added to a favorites' list by someone I've never talked to is weird, I reject friend requests from people I don't know, and unless I know the person from the forums, or they have a non-personal question, I don't answer emails.

So you had a good idea- posting in the forums to get yourself known. I wish you luck.flowerforyou

thanks for the advice...im just getting myself out there...plus its fun talking to you guys...especially the crazy ones (you know who you are...lol)

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Fri 04/02/10 02:06 PM


I think nudges from strangers are creepy, I think being added to a favorites' list by someone I've never talked to is weird, I reject friend requests from people I don't know, and unless I know the person from the forums, or they have a non-personal question, I don't answer emails.

So you had a good idea- posting in the forums to get yourself known. I wish you luck.flowerforyou

thanks for the advice...im just getting myself out there...plus its fun talking to you guys...especially the crazy ones (you know who you are...lol)


You're doing well, you've joined in the forums and seem to be making friends. And yeah, I'm one of the crazy ones......laugh

gstaats7938's photo
Fri 04/02/10 02:06 PM

I would take him to a hobo fight cause nothing says romance like hobos fighting!

rofl rofl rofl :thumbsup:

msmyka's photo
Fri 04/02/10 02:44 PM
You're definitely cute enough to get away with just a nudge first but if you really want her attention send an email :wink:

gstaats7938's photo
Fri 04/02/10 02:53 PM



I think nudges from strangers are creepy, I think being added to a favorites' list by someone I've never talked to is weird, I reject friend requests from people I don't know, and unless I know the person from the forums, or they have a non-personal question, I don't answer emails.

So you had a good idea- posting in the forums to get yourself known. I wish you luck.flowerforyou

thanks for the advice...im just getting myself out there...plus its fun talking to you guys...especially the crazy ones (you know who you are...lol)


You're doing well, you've joined in the forums and seem to be making friends. And yeah, I'm one of the crazy ones......laugh

The crazy ones are the best...i dont feel so left out :thumbsup:

gstaats7938's photo
Fri 04/02/10 02:54 PM

You're definitely cute enough to get away with just a nudge first but if you really want her attention send an email :wink:

i usually just send an email...but there is a limit on here rofl rofl rofl and thanks for the compliment...i have ugly duckling syndrome embarassed but im starting to break out of my shell smokin

msmyka's photo
Fri 04/02/10 03:02 PM


You're definitely cute enough to get away with just a nudge first but if you really want her attention send an email :wink:

i usually just send an email...but there is a limit on here rofl rofl rofl and thanks for the compliment...i have ugly duckling syndrome embarassed but im starting to break out of my shell smokin


Don't be silly you're adorable flowerforyou

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Fri 04/02/10 03:07 PM


I think nudges from strangers are creepy, I think being added to a favorites' list by someone I've never talked to is weird, I reject friend requests from people I don't know, and unless I know the person from the forums, or they have a non-personal question, I don't answer emails.

So you had a good idea- posting in the forums to get yourself known. I wish you luck.flowerforyou

thanks for the advice...im just getting myself out there...plus its fun talking to you guys...especially the crazy ones (you know who you are...lol)
HEY! im not crazy!! the voices in my head say im not!!rant

gstaats7938's photo
Fri 04/02/10 03:31 PM



You're definitely cute enough to get away with just a nudge first but if you really want her attention send an email :wink:

i usually just send an email...but there is a limit on here rofl rofl rofl and thanks for the compliment...i have ugly duckling syndrome embarassed but im starting to break out of my shell smokin


Don't be silly you're adorable flowerforyou

your going to give me a big head blushing