Topic: Getting to know you....
Tessa02's photo
Sun 04/04/10 11:40 PM
Are we really the people we display on the boards? All joking aside I'm really a sensitive person who cares deeply for others. In RL I stay to myself & have many friends but don't "hang out". I just don't feel like I fit in most of the time. I'm actually pretty quiet & don't talk a lot until I get to know someone. I don't like gossip & will walk away from it in a heartbeat. I just don't see bashing others. I can't stand negativity & will try to avoid it at all cost. I try to enjoy life to the fullest & try not to let things get me down. When a friend ask how I'm doing I'll tell them "fine" even if I feel like crap. If I need help I'm too stubborn to ask for it & will somehow manage on my own. Now, sexually speaking I'm seriously a freak & need help!!! Now, what about you?

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Sun 04/04/10 11:42 PM
I'm the same shy, sweet wallflower in real life as I am on here.blushing

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 04/04/10 11:49 PM

I'm the same shy, sweet wallflower in real life as I am on here.blushing


I can vouch for that. LOL

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 04/04/10 11:51 PM
I am who my 16,000+ posts say I am.

Sometimes conflicted. Sometimes a little out there. Sometimes irritating. Sometimes funny.

I don't say anything here that I wouldn't say in person.

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Sun 04/04/10 11:52 PM


I'm the same shy, sweet wallflower in real life as I am on here.blushing


I can vouch for that. LOL


:laughing: drinks

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 04/04/10 11:55 PM



I'm the same shy, sweet wallflower in real life as I am on here.blushing


I can vouch for that. LOL


:laughing: drinks


bigsmile

thewaterbearer's photo
Sun 04/04/10 11:55 PM
I am actually shy until I get to know people but I don't hesitate to say whats on my mind that actually has got me into trouble other than that I am a pretty nice person:angel: whoa

bastet126's photo
Mon 04/05/10 12:08 AM
everyone i've ever met online say's i'm exactly like i type in person. laugh it takes time just being myself, let alone make up someone else to be online. to thine own self be true flowerforyou

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Mon 04/05/10 12:10 AM
I'm exactly as I am on here. The only times of difference, is if
I'm not feeling well or not in a great mood, then I'm just kind of
quiet, and that most people won't see as I just don't say much and
sort of hang by myself, but it usually doesn't last long. Then I'm
back to being silly and laughing. I used to be really shy and quiet
when I was younger, too much to be serious about, learned to
"lighten up", which was a long process, but I'm glad I did. I can
be serious when and if needed, but even then I can't help but insert
some type of humor into the situation if I can.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Mon 04/05/10 12:18 AM
Ya know....come to think of it...

When I am around a bunch of people I don't know...I really won't say much for a while because some of the stuff I say can be odd at times.

I like to people watch...and I like to know what I can get away with.

I got enough of the " WTF is WRONG with that guy " looks a long time ago.

If I don't think I am with a group of people I can just be the " Say whatever " me....then I'll be the " Dude over in the corner people watching " me.

Works for me either way.

Queene123's photo
Mon 04/05/10 12:45 AM
i was really shy in school and i gradually over came that
but i still can be a bit shy in my own way.. im the type to be a real deep thinker for i can be the type to be scared to open up thinking i would say the wrong thing..

i had a old bf from many moons ago he had a buddy that was really extemly shy but yet he was able to talk to me... he had no problem it was just other woman that he was scared to comfront... im still guessing after all that time he most likey still that way

gazzmate's photo
Mon 04/05/10 12:56 AM
Im pretty Shy aswell, but ive discovered in myself recently the ability to be very open with the right person, instead of bottling it all up inside.

HawaiiMusikMan's photo
Mon 04/05/10 01:01 AM
I wear my invisibility cloak and get surprised when someone can see me. Those are the ones I'm looking for

Tessa02's photo
Mon 04/05/10 01:01 AM

everyone i've ever met online say's i'm exactly like i type in person. laugh it takes time just being myself, let alone make up someone else to be online. to thine own self be true flowerforyou


I guess the person I appear to be is who I really am. I just don't show it in RL like I do on the forums. Seems when I'm around people instead of laughing & jokings I tend to freeze up. lol

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Mon 04/05/10 01:06 AM
flowerforyou :heart: drinker :wink: YOU just need to relax and get around people more to over-come that,,,wink,,and as to all the other you said about YOU,,,YOU sound a LOT like me,,,wink,lol

Queene123's photo
Mon 04/05/10 01:07 AM


everyone i've ever met online say's i'm exactly like i type in person. laugh it takes time just being myself, let alone make up someone else to be online. to thine own self be true flowerforyou


I guess the person I appear to be is who I really am. I just don't show it in RL like I do on the forums. Seems when I'm around people instead of laughing & jokings I tend to freeze up. lol


i think i show more who i am when it comes to my poetry

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Mon 04/05/10 01:09 AM
im not the same,im way more serious in reality than online.Also dont really like to talk to people,not shy at all, just dont wanna talk.

EquusDancer's photo
Mon 04/05/10 01:36 AM
Depends on my mood. I'm usually more quiet, but can be fairly open and talkative.

Generally, I'm the one who sits back and watches others.