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Topic: LIKE ME OR NOT
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Wed 05/18/11 06:53 PM

Why is it when you like somebody ....that person don't like you the way you like them & somebody you don't like LIKES you in that way


The answer is obvious! :D

When you like someone, you look up to them as great and beautiful/handsome.

They are also seeking this, but you don't fit there mental description. Plus they may already have someone else in mind or different future plans altogether.

The person that likes you, does not fit your mental description or your other future plans. blah blah blah

shades

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Wed 05/18/11 07:16 PM


Why is it when you like somebody ....that person don't like you the way you like them & somebody you don't like LIKES you in that way

I honestly don't know!what
But doesn't this always happen?!

To me anyway!!!:laughing: spock noway ohwell


I have people who like me, who like me more than is comfortable and I think its because if you are open and friendly , which you are when you are being friends with people, you let them see who you are and relax and have fun with them and then they think that because you are there for them that you must really want more.

But its just that you are their friend and they think you are what they want, where in reality if they had you , they probably wouldnt want you,

Hmm basically I have no idea, should have just said that in the beginninglaugh

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Wed 05/18/11 07:19 PM

Why is it when you like somebody ....that person don't like you the way you like them & somebody you don't like LIKES you in that way
BOOHOOsad

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Wed 05/18/11 07:22 PM

Why is it when you like somebody ....that person don't like you the way you like them & somebody you don't like LIKES you in that way


gotta roll with it - it happens and it sucks

good luck!

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Wed 05/18/11 07:53 PM
Many of us have had that at some point in time,my observation is.....to be in a relationship,interests have to match but not one to one all of them if this so happens repellation occurs.On the contrary interests should not be parallel this disjoints a relationship.......u can argue

Edited by Humuh 19/05/2011 @04:25 am

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Wed 05/18/11 08:07 PM
ladies do not argueflowerforyou

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Wed 05/18/11 08:09 PM



Why is it when you like somebody ....that person don't like you the way you like them & somebody you don't like LIKES you in that way

I honestly don't know!what
But doesn't this always happen?!

To me anyway!!!:laughing: spock noway ohwell


I have people who like me, who like me more than is comfortable and I think its because if you are open and friendly , which you are when you are being friends with people, you let them see who you are and relax and have fun with them and then they think that because you are there for them that you must really want more.

But its just that you are their friend and they think you are what they want, where in reality if they had you , they probably wouldnt want you,

Hmm basically I have no idea, should have just said that in the beginninglaugh


Yeah, there's that.

But they may also have learned something about you that they love, and this can make them fall for you.

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Wed 05/18/11 08:16 PM
Because for some reason, a lot people are all about this independance thing. When you tell someone you want them or want them to do something, they feel like you are not giving them a chance to fall for you on thier own. People want to like you and approach on thier own so they feel in control.

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Wed 05/18/11 08:31 PM

Because for some reason, a lot people are all about this independance thing. When you tell someone you want them or want them to do something, they feel like you are not giving them a chance to fall for you on thier own. People want to like you and approach on thier own so they feel in control.


((Scorpio!!!))

I think some lucky girl is gonna fall head over heels and wanna be with you all the time flowerforyou

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Wed 05/18/11 09:15 PM

ladies do not argueflowerforyou
You believe in them so much huh!! hats off for them then

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Wed 05/18/11 11:31 PM
Edited by josie68 on Wed 05/18/11 11:34 PM




Why is it when you like somebody ....that person don't like you the way you like them & somebody you don't like LIKES you in that way

I honestly don't know!what
But doesn't this always happen?!

To me anyway!!!:laughing: spock noway ohwell


I have people who like me, who like me more than is comfortable and I think its because if you are open and friendly , which you are when you are being friends with people, you let them see who you are and relax and have fun with them and then they think that because you are there for them that you must really want more.

But its just that you are their friend and they think you are what they want, where in reality if they had you , they probably wouldnt want you,

Hmm basically I have no idea, should have just said that in the beginninglaugh


Yeah, there's that.

But they may also have learned something about you that they love, and this can make them fall for you.


rofl rofl rofl
Yeh, my totally chaotic, unorganised, unplanned, fairytale view of life that would eventually drive them to drinktongue2 tongue2
Oh no, that was only the last 3 men in my life...:angel: :angel:


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Thu 05/19/11 05:55 PM


Because for some reason, a lot people are all about this independance thing. When you tell someone you want them or want them to do something, they feel like you are not giving them a chance to fall for you on thier own. People want to like you and approach on thier own so they feel in control.


((Scorpio!!!))

I think some lucky girl is gonna fall head over heels and wanna be with you all the time flowerforyou
thanks flowerforyou I hope it happens soon though :P

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