Topic: hii i need an advice
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Sun 05/09/10 02:51 PM
hi , well here is the thing , am 22 and i was living wih my boyfriend but for some reasons my parents didnt like it and they told me that if i want their economic support i have to live with my mom and dad , but if i decide to live again with my boyfriend i will not have any support from them. , i love my boyfriend he is 21 , and the plan is that we are supporting each other i will get a job and study , , soo , what do you thing? , am undecided , the other thing is that i dont get well with my mom ,

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Sun 05/09/10 02:53 PM
I think if you want their money you need to abide by their wishes.. If you want to do your own thing then you need to support yourself... I'd choose supporting myself any day of the week...

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Sun 05/09/10 02:55 PM
Your old enough to support yourself and live your life the way you want to. I have been out since 17. Has not been easy. I have still been able to reach all my goals and then some. Trust me, you can do it.

Best wishes to youflowerforyou

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Sun 05/09/10 02:58 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Sun 05/09/10 02:59 PM

hi , well here is the thing , am 22 and i was living wih my boyfriend but for some reasons my parents didnt like it and they told me that if i want their economic support i have to live with my mom and dad , but if i decide to live again with my boyfriend i will not have any support from them. , i love my boyfriend he is 21 , and the plan is that we are supporting each other i will get a job and study , , soo , what do you thing? , am undecided , the other thing is that i dont get well with my mom ,


Sorry to be so blunt but you are 22, its time to grow up. My advice, get a man who can support you if you can't support yourself,OR move home with mom and go back to school so you can support yourself.

If you continue down the road you are on you will end up pregnant and trying to support your baby. Wake up! Get a grip on reality.

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Sun 05/09/10 03:02 PM
Tragic love story. Besides when you end up doing your own thing your parents might flake out and end up giving you money anyway. If not you learn to value things more along the way.

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Sun 05/09/10 03:02 PM
Good lord. One of lifes difficult decesions..........smokin

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Sun 05/09/10 03:13 PM

Good lord. One of lifes difficult decesions..........smokin


Yep, a real major crisis. smokin LOL

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Sun 05/09/10 03:17 PM
Follow your heart and do what U think is best for u!!!