Topic: Men looking for fun???
no photo
Sat 05/15/10 09:45 AM
Hi

I'm i the only one that's a bit stressed at the fact that most men on here just look for fun?? i mean i know not EVERY man on here is like that, that's why i don't understand, if that's the case then why come to a dating site? and not adult-finder or other adult sites which are mainly for that purpose.
Don't get me wrong i'm not saying its wrong :smile: to ask for that as long as its safe and everything, but being that me and many men and women on here are after a actual relationship it seems weird, then again maybe many on here are after that kind of thing? does it bother anyone else? maybe I'm wrong rofl would be great to hear some reply's :smile:


Tinkerb3ll89 x




s1owhand's photo
Sat 05/15/10 09:52 AM
a relationship that is not fun is not much of a relationship!

flowerforyou

most people on here are not just here for sex.
although i guess you can't stop human nature.

:tongue:

Mayhem_J's photo
Sat 05/15/10 09:56 AM
I just want to dance.

Can I just dance?

Cant you play some dance music for me?

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 05/15/10 10:03 AM
Actually there are many types of people here all looking for different things. This has never been strictly a dating per-say site....noway whoa

So regardless if they are here for something long term, friendship, booty call or just for grins........to each their own.....as long as they are honest in what they want then more power to them...:thumbsup:

willing2's photo
Sat 05/15/10 10:10 AM
Honey, used as a caring, fatherly term, you're 19. Thank God you don't have a boatload of kids.

I'm gonna' tell you. Forget wanting to get serious about some hard-leg!

Get out there and have fun, get more education and make for yourself a great career.

You have plenty of time to get yourself tied down.

Live a little, Darlin'flowers

willing2's photo
Sat 05/15/10 10:14 AM

Actually there are many types of people here all looking for different things. This has never been strictly a dating per-say site....noway whoa

So regardless if they are here for something long term, friendship, booty call or just for grins........to each their own.....as long as they are honest in what they want then more power to them...:thumbsup:

Booty call!!!!surprised

I thought I smelled a gal calling for one!!drool

False alarm.

Down, Big Boy or I'll have to give you a dishonorable discharge and quit tryin' to ride her leg!!! What th' hell did I do with that rolled up newspaper!grumble :angel:

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 05/15/10 10:30 AM

Honey, used as a caring, fatherly term, you're 19. Thank God you don't have a boatload of kids.

I'm gonna' tell you. Forget wanting to get serious about some hard-leg!

Get out there and have fun, get more education and make for yourself a great career.

You have plenty of time to get yourself tied down.

Live a little, Darlin'flowers


Great advise and actually this is what I tell my kids all the time. Why such a rush to be tied down live a little see and do things you want to before the fact....... travel with friends go do the things that you want to while your young and can go do them...:banana: :thumbsup:

AndyBgood's photo
Sat 05/15/10 10:36 AM
Walk, don't run!

Yeah I want fun especially when it doesn't involve having to deal with a woman who freaks out the day after about "getting pregnant."

I mean seriously, what the hell is birth control for?

I got tired of being forced into a commitment I was not ready for. A lot of women in my past were of the sex=marriage attitude which is fine for them but when they misrepresent that is wrong!

I am one of those guys who sex does not = marriage. I am one of 'those' men who commitment is earned, not granted because women are just as scandalous as us guys!

So if a woman wants to have a fun non committal relationship with me I can get jiggy with that as long as I have no prior commitments considering at the moment I don't so I get to do what I want for now.

So anybody out there want a spanking???spock



pitchfork

No matter how hard I try I just can't be good!

twinight's photo
Sat 05/15/10 04:14 PM
No sex does not have to mean marriage and kids, but sex should be more then our baser instincts!
As you’re all telling you kids to relax and enjoy, I bet most of you are also saying that Sex with someone you love and or care about is so much better or something simpler?
I don’t think you mean this as a contradiction!
I think you all would prefer if young people cared about the person they shared there body with, not just noticing a cute guy or girl and jumping in to bed! You also don’t want them getting to involved before there ready
There are allsorts of people out there and on here find someone you like and get to know them and enjoy the time, if you take the time you will find the kind of person you want.
We as humans are a fickle bunch!

no photo
Sat 05/15/10 04:19 PM

Hi

I'm i the only one that's a bit stressed at the fact that most men on here just look for fun?? i mean i know not EVERY man on here is like that, that's why i don't understand, if that's the case then why come to a dating site? and not adult-finder or other adult sites which are mainly for that purpose.
Don't get me wrong i'm not saying its wrong :smile: to ask for that as long as its safe and everything, but being that me and many men and women on here are after a actual relationship it seems weird, then again maybe many on here are after that kind of thing? does it bother anyone else? maybe I'm wrong rofl would be great to hear some reply's :smile:


Tinkerb3ll89 x






I have occasionally suggested to some users here that they might do better on one of the more "quickie-themed" sites. Mainly because I've noticed that people (usually guys) who come across as the "intimate encounter" types seem to generate a fair amount of negative feedback!

On the other hand, if they're honest and up front about what they're looking for, and they can deal with the occasional bits of flak, it doesn't bother me if they stick around here. I'm not particularly judgmental; I mean, I wouldn't be interested in NSA, but that's just me.