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Topic: Divorce finalized...now what?
Vietscouty's photo
Wed 08/04/10 10:18 AM

Now, a whole new chapter of your life is starting, and you can make it into whatever you want. I would caution you about getting into another relationship too fast. The rotten thing about rebounding is, we never know we are doing it. You should take time out to heal and take care of yourself. You will wake up one day out of the blue and feel that this is behind you. When that happens you will be ready to start dating again....good luck! flowerforyou


So I suppose the last woman who I was dating was a rebound without knowing it? Bummer, I need to apologize to her.

earthytaurus76's photo
Wed 08/04/10 10:20 AM
PAR-TAYYYYY!!!!


Thats what I did.. I STILL am...


VIVA DIVORCE!!!!

venusenvy's photo
Wed 08/04/10 12:44 PM


Now, a whole new chapter of your life is starting, and you can make it into whatever you want. I would caution you about getting into another relationship too fast. The rotten thing about rebounding is, we never know we are doing it. You should take time out to heal and take care of yourself. You will wake up one day out of the blue and feel that this is behind you. When that happens you will be ready to start dating again....good luck! flowerforyou


So I suppose the last woman who I was dating was a rebound without knowing it? Bummer, I need to apologize to her.


I dont know, but I can tell you one thing...rebounds NEVER work out flowerforyou

Vietscouty's photo
Thu 08/05/10 12:35 AM
Ya'll won't be able to get me to change my mind. Nothing has been proven to me yet when it comes to this relationship kind of thing. Yes, I still need time to heal but in the meantime, I always end up running into the kind of women who I don't want. Blessed that they're physically attractive but they're missing a lot of inner qualities that I want, what have become of women in my generation? UGH!

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 08/05/10 07:36 AM

Ya'll won't be able to get me to change my mind. Nothing has been proven to me yet when it comes to this relationship kind of thing. Yes, I still need time to heal but in the meantime, I always end up running into the kind of women who I don't want. Blessed that they're physically attractive but they're missing a lot of inner qualities that I want, what have become of women in my generation? UGH!




Peeked at your profile to see what "women in my generation" was referring to.

There are boatloads of women your age, who have great qualities, it's just a matter of you finding one that you have chemistry with.

Read your profile. You sound extremely deep and very secure in who you are. Love the Ly Dynasty comment. Martial arts should be giving you the "patience" piece of this puzzle as well.

Single parenting is tough in any generation, and either gender. As you focus on your little girl, stabilize in life, things will fall into place for you too. You won't miss what life brings your way.

flowerforyou

Vietscouty's photo
Thu 08/05/10 12:17 PM


Ya'll won't be able to get me to change my mind. Nothing has been proven to me yet when it comes to this relationship kind of thing. Yes, I still need time to heal but in the meantime, I always end up running into the kind of women who I don't want. Blessed that they're physically attractive but they're missing a lot of inner qualities that I want, what have become of women in my generation? UGH!




Peeked at your profile to see what "women in my generation" was referring to.

There are boatloads of women your age, who have great qualities, it's just a matter of you finding one that you have chemistry with.

Read your profile. You sound extremely deep and very secure in who you are. Love the Ly Dynasty comment. Martial arts should be giving you the "patience" piece of this puzzle as well.

Single parenting is tough in any generation, and either gender. As you focus on your little girl, stabilize in life, things will fall into place for you too. You won't miss what life brings your way.

flowerforyou


Thank you but its hard to believe that there are women in my generation who have great qualities because all I run into are those who have low self esteems and thinking that they don't deserve anything better or who cares about prestige. Hell, I may have a job that makes enough for me to get by or living comfortably but I feel as though I am judge by what I make. Yes, I believe there should be chemistry too. The Ly Dynasty comment, sad to say that my ancestors butchered a lot of people and fought in many skirmishes against the Chinese invaders during those times. Martial arts does give me patience but patience to wage warfare. I have patience with people but if I keep running into the same stupid thing and no one different, then I don't know how to look at women in my generation. I don't know...lol

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