Topic: Paranoid...but whatever...
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Fri 09/03/10 11:38 PM
So I met this guy off here years ago...kinda fell for him...we broke it off....in the end, me having a broken heart.

He reactivated his profile and it made me smile.

He could be reading this right now...if so, heya!happy been awhile!


I was content on being single for the rest of my life after him...I'm completely fine with it. But theres still a part of me that goes...'what if' so...


Do I even react?

Do I say something?


Gah, feelings suck.

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Fri 09/03/10 11:40 PM
If it were me, I wouldn't say anything... But you're not me and you have to do what works for you.. Just remember that broken heart.... Is that something you want again? Ego/Pride says let him contact you, if he doesn't then you know what was back then is still the same now...

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Fri 09/03/10 11:44 PM

If it were me, I wouldn't say anything... But you're not me and you have to do what works for you.. Just remember that broken heart.... Is that something you want again? Ego/Pride says let him contact you, if he doesn't then you know what was back then is still the same now...


Oh its so hard though, we ended things not so nicely and its been years since we last talked. Maybe closure is kinda needed...? I don't know...guess I have no pride when it comes to him. ohwell

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Fri 09/03/10 11:44 PM
you already DID react...

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Fri 09/03/10 11:45 PM

you already DID react...


laugh Guess I did, but he was never one to read these posts! So its kinda like 'reacting behind his back' :banana:

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Fri 09/03/10 11:47 PM
Well good luck with whatever you decide to do...

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Fri 09/03/10 11:48 PM
Common sense is self-discipline.

Two eyes.

Two ears.

One brain.

- Use them.

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Fri 09/03/10 11:49 PM


you already DID react...


laugh Guess I did, but he was never one to read these posts! So its kinda like 'reacting behind his back' :banana:


oh...ok in that case i say stab him!...you know since you are at his back and all.

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Sat 09/04/10 01:36 AM
The way I see it... you already are in a submissive position and by contacting him first you'd only make it clear just in case he hadn't already noticed.

The way I see it, you broke it off because he was a jerk, right? In such cases, there is no such thing as closure - only repeating the same mistakes. DON'T DO IT.

Or do it, if you're one of those “that makes me feel alive” folks - who am I to judge after all?

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Sat 09/04/10 01:57 AM
I think you just did say something I cindah felt the same way about my ex wife untill I realized that we could never end up in the same city as an old couple we just grew into wanting seperate goals.
but people mend cracks all the time.

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Sat 09/04/10 01:59 AM
i never realy got into this site befor. But here I am with nothing to do on a friday night.

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Sat 09/04/10 02:13 AM
this is what I want ta know.

could she be much fun,
could she be attractive,
could she get freaky low,

and on top of all her game,
could she still,
could she still be responsible.

cause if she could - well that’s my kindah girl...

"lyrics to my new song" sang old school R&B stylie.

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Sat 09/04/10 07:26 AM

Common sense is self-discipline.

Two eyes.

Two ears.

One brain.

- Use them.



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