I've been here over a month and only really had one person express interest (he turned out to be a scammer). Please look my profile over,and tell me whats wrong, Or is it just me expecting too much? I've even messaged a few people trying to connect. So am I Quasimodo's sister or what? (joke)Thanks for any input.

this place is strange! Imma lesbian & guys are nudging me!!! what the heck!

Your profile seems pretty straightforward but maybe you should swap out the main pic with the one with the white and black shirt. As far as dates and replies - I've had one date, which was okay; A little awkward but at least I did something that day you know? I met another who I still talk to who I would have loved to have met but there's complications.

My suggestion is to consistently update your profile, review mutual matches, and make sure you're using multiple match sites to increase your chances. Make sure to pay special attention to their profile - it's a shame you were scammed - and weigh in heavily on that person before you start talking too much.

Hope this helps, goodluck. Oh and say hi to Uncle Sam for me, he owes me some money haha.

Thanks James But now I know. See I saved all the webistes i found him on, so now I can look into them if they see "too good to be true" Or are moving way too fast.

I had an "almost"

and a guy who dumped me through a text!!


there are strange crearures here


Ya gotta go through the pricks before ya find that rose!!!!....



good luck to ya!

That sounds like it could be kinda fun
anyway thanks!

I'm not really looking to date but I sure have made some really good friends on here. Good Luck.......

i havent met anyone yet ...as in for a date...yet B-) ....i have made a new friend....i'm happy....things will go as they will....im along for teh ride lol!

Good luck to you Mixalh!!!!...........................

there has been several people have gotten dates even got married or engaged from this site

I have met a few from here...dated a couple and had a year long relationship with someone from this site....sometimes it just takes time....that was a two year time span btw....just stay in the forums and someone will see you and fall head over heels....good luck!

lol....have you EVER found a man that pays attention to what a girl says

my experience with this site is that its more on the side of being a social bulletin board/chat site than a "serious" dating site...people here seem to just hang out (mostly the same dedicated crowd) and have fun with each other typing amusing little tid-bits to one another...

thats what is known as a clique................


I try hard to stay out of them.......................


I see it swallow up peoples real selves and then they become internet/social site robotic in their answers to others.........


From the outside I read them and have to laugh.......



and there are so few who wander out of that comfort zone.....

wait

watch

listen

I've been here since it was Just Say Hi and I have never had a date from here. Matter of fact I haven't dated since 1979.

Goodness Gracious!!!

wish I could say that.....


wouldn't have to put up with the grief!!!!heheh

But then, you have not wanted to, yes?

wow!!!!! over 30yrs... feeling lonely in the corner
where we call life, but life is shareing it with some close
but wait? i guess that someone would only be you