Me and this guy have been talking for almost a year, I liked him but to me I felt he only liked me as a friend. We agreed to hang out...he choose the movies. He picked me up, but when we got to the movies, he opened the door for me.I was about to get my money out and he bought me my ticket. During the movies, we sat and watched, he glanced over once. After, we drove around for an hour talking. When I was about to get out of the car, he asked if I needed him to walk me to my door, I laughed and said no. As I was leaving, nothing happened...no hug or anything. So...was it just a friendly hang out? Or..?

well non of my guy friends ever did that for me,lol

but maybe he trying to say he likes you by treating you right

well he definitely doesnt hate you ....guy makes me proud lol....good ot hear that there are good people out there :)

yeah its a safe bet to say he likes you...as to his intentions...why worry about it? i mean it was a great outing ....why can't it be just that?

you had fun :) whatever will happen...i believe will happen ...it's all a ride...so enjoy it :)

could it be that he is shy and maybe he thought when you laughed and said you didn't need him to walk you to do,he thought a hug or something might be unwanted by you?

Awe man! I would have had him walk me to the door just to find out what would happen next. If everything seemed to look like a date, it might have. But of course, both of you didn't agree it was in your heads. But a walk to your door would have said it all about that night. Oooooo!

aww-sweet guy! I agree with Jt though, the walking to your door was probably his way of seeing how much you liked him!

It seems as if your man is a little shy about making the first move. It's also possible that by asking you if you 'needed' him to walk you to the door he was trying to feel out the vibes as to whether or not you 'needed' a goodnight kiss. This is pretty much the make it or break it part of the date(determining attraction) and with many guys will determine the likelihood of possible second dates. But what if your man doesn't have the balls to kiss you? Ask yourself if you're really interested in this guy as a bf or are you just stringing him along?(we both know you already know he's interested) If you are still interested in him despite the possibility that he's already been neutered then I reccomend making the first move yourself, call him up right now to tell him what a good time you both had on your date and plan another one, then when he picks you up or when you meet just take his hands in yours and lean in and kiss him, it's as simple as that.(this will tell him in man talk that you like him and that it's ok for him to like you back)
Of course you might just decide that you don't like him romantically and continue to let him open doors for you and pay for your dates together, it's always nice to have a doormat to wipe your feet on whenever it's convenient. And he'll always be there for you when you break up with your real bf's. The choice is yours!

He may just be a Gentleman...They are out there you know, rare, but there out there. Good luck

why are you trying to GUESS?

is there any need for ANY GUESS?

any assumption, FROM OTHER'S THAT DO NOT EVEN KNOW THE MAN?

ask HIM IF HE LIKES YOU FOR MORE THAN A FRIEND?

he will say YES.

because MORE than a FRIEND, well, that simply means i would "**** you" if you allowed me", lol...

TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT?

see if HE THINKS WHAT YOU WANT IT "IMPORTANT"!?

it dosen't matter WHAT HE IS THINKING, as much as it MATTER'S, YOU TELL HIM WHAT YOU ARE THINKING, WHICH BE WHAT YOU WANT, OR FEEL ABOUT HIM?

the one that GUESSES, TRYING TO BE THE SMARTEST, to get what they WANT, never finds it, simply because THEY WILL NOT SPEAK IT, AND THEN SIMPLY FIND WHAT YOU THINK, MOST FEEL, SEE'S THE SAME THINGS AS IMPORTANT?

can one find out if another care's about what they WANT?

of course, BUT NOT UNTIL YOU SPEAK IT, then see HOW MUCH OF IT BE RETAINED, for if ANOTHER YOU CARE ABOUT, say's to you, "this is really important to me", DO YOU THINK YOU WILL "REMEMBER IT"?

speak, speak speak, TO THE ONE YOU 'WANT TO KNOW'...

one cent

chances are he's over there wondering, you're over here wondering, you two should be talking. he sounds like a gentleman, yes, but you guys need to be adult about it and....communicate.

I agree. It's ironic that young women sometimes don't even recognize a gentleman any more when they are sitting right next to one. Of course he liked you OP, or he would not have taken you to the movie in the first place. Walking his date to the door is how a gentleman expresses his manners & appreication & is also how he will lean in, often, for that first kiss. Sounds like u let a good one get away