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Pardon my stupidity and ignorance, but I'm 31, I've never had a boyfriend and never been in a serious relationship. How sad is that?
So, one of my questions is, if I see a guy on here that I like, etc., I've "nudged" him and I think he's "nudged" me back (I'm not going to pay to make sure), so I want to send him a message...but what do I say? Any tips would be appreciated. :D God, I seriously feel stupid that I don't know what to say, etc. :( |
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Pardon my stupidity and ignorance, but I'm 31, I've never had a boyfriend and never been in a serious relationship. How sad is that? So, one of my questions is, if I see a guy on here that I like, etc., I've "nudged" him and I think he's "nudged" me back (I'm not going to pay to make sure), so I want to send him a message...but what do I say? Any tips would be appreciated. :D God, I seriously feel stupid that I don't know what to say, etc. :( I am sure you have freinds and have started freinships with others.....it pretty much goes the same way accept you are adding a sense of sexuality and attraction to the mixture.............think of kind of as a best friend that you long to kiss |
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Be direct, guys like that.
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Pardon my stupidity and ignorance, but I'm 31, I've never had a boyfriend and never been in a serious relationship. How sad is that? So, one of my questions is, if I see a guy on here that I like, etc., I've "nudged" him and I think he's "nudged" me back (I'm not going to pay to make sure), so I want to send him a message...but what do I say? Any tips would be appreciated. :D God, I seriously feel stupid that I don't know what to say, etc. :( Actually you don't have to pay to receive nudges. All contact is free. If you didn't see a nudge back then that means he didn't send one. As to how what to say, try saying hi and say something about his profile or why you like him |
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It costs NOTHING to check your Nudges.
You can check them in TWO ways. Either check you 'Recent Activity' then 'more' at the bottom of that, that covers about the last 60 contacts made to your profile. Or, if you want to check 'name specific' activity you go to THEIR profile page, then all the way to the bottom, for activity between the two of you. |
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 Yikes!Cy gently slaps the top of her hand.Never!refer to oneself as stupid or ignorant.Shakes a can of self-esteem booster & hands it to her. Best of luck sweetie.Godspeed!Cy 
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TELL HIM WHAT YOU "WANT"...
then, find "man", that WANT THE SAME AS YOU. most helpful if one actually know's what CREATE THE "FEELINGS" they themself want. everybody say's they want to "be in love"? no problem, but to actually find, one would have to know what LOVE IS? being that many "seek love", it would be most profitable for self to deduct and aquire for itself, a true tangible "definition" of what love be? it seems hard to get past the fact, that no "love" could ever exist, or feelings of extreme admiration", lest BOTH had such things, and no such thing could CONTINUE, if there was not RESPECT OF THE MUTUAL WANTS AND ASPIRATION'S OF EACH OTHER? no ONE want BE AS SUPREME, or the guide TO WHAT BE SEEN AS GOOD, but rather TWO WANTS AS EQUAL? then, love, friendship, unity, feelings of togetherness, solace, could exist, due to COMMON PURPOSE? what be self's purpose, in what itself WANTS? this cut's thru the infinity looking for what be but an illusion, if one stare at a FEELING it want for itself, BUT KNOWS NOT WHAT CREATE SUCH FEELINGS? hope that makes viable sense... one cent |
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"Hello" is a good start. Good luck sweetie
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