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Topic: do you worry to much about your weight?be honest
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Sun 12/12/10 03:31 PM


:smile: Hmmmm Honestly, yes I dont like how I look and I definatley do not show my body, I wouldn't even have a body photo on here except I was asked to put it on. love
Yes obviously I am insecure, :cry: and know it, I know that people like me for who I am inside but the outside gives me more trouble.
No I cannot relax and eat what I want, although I do eat what i like , just not lots of it.
I have had two husbands play up on me and yes sadly that has left me short of confidence in the looks department. :cry: I dont even know who I do it for.:smile:
well them guys must of been idiots from what i see you look very beautiful and i know you have a awesome personality from what i see in the threads and from just chatting as a friend no 1 should ever put a person down its so sad when jerks do that well thanks for your message and i tell you don't need to feel insecure your a hottie and i bet all on here aggree that you are so keep your spirits strong and always hold your head up high i am here too if you ever need a friend to chat with hugsssssssss:)))))flowers

Never change cheer...not many still think like you.

Cheer_up's photo
Sun 12/12/10 03:35 PM


i Hear so many times Ladys say i can't eat that its to fattening or i need to lose some weight don't you think? and i talking about some ladys that were even really thin worrying about that now me myself i love women that has something to hug i bet alot of guys would say the same thing you ladys worry way to much about weight but curious why??????? i mean in my books most look just great .i think ladys worry way to much:)so stop the worrying and know that us guys like you for you:banana: :smile: waving


Not many guys think like you Cheer_up...is why alot become anorexic or obese...we all have to take care of our bodies no matter what size or weight and also not because of a guy.
well its true i say as long as you are healthy and feel good that what counts first and the heart and the inner beauty of a person so many worry about the ouside they forget the inside of a person sometimes but i aggree if you do something do it for 1s self or for health reasons not to please some stupid jerk who cannot accept a lady for the way they are:) hugsssss my friend have a awesome nightflowerforyou

Cheer_up's photo
Sun 12/12/10 03:52 PM



:smile: Hmmmm Honestly, yes I dont like how I look and I definatley do not show my body, I wouldn't even have a body photo on here except I was asked to put it on. love
Yes obviously I am insecure, :cry: and know it, I know that people like me for who I am inside but the outside gives me more trouble.
No I cannot relax and eat what I want, although I do eat what i like , just not lots of it.
I have had two husbands play up on me and yes sadly that has left me short of confidence in the looks department. :cry: I dont even know who I do it for.:smile:
well them guys must of been idiots from what i see you look very beautiful and i know you have a awesome personality from what i see in the threads and from just chatting as a friend no 1 should ever put a person down its so sad when jerks do that well thanks for your message and i tell you don't need to feel insecure your a hottie and i bet all on here aggree that you are so keep your spirits strong and always hold your head up high i am here too if you ever need a friend to chat with hugsssssssss:)))))flowers

Never change cheer...not many still think like you.
well thank you i just speak from my heart and i really hate when people judge so many people in this life and when people think they are better then someone else i love all the same big small fat or tall i really like that song i played it for a good friend of mine that was not well but he was a heavy guy its called he ain't heavy he's my brother .... he loved it and now he is doing alot better he still around now 265 but lost alot of weight and feels great he had alot of friends that were like 6'8 325 pounds around like 6 that came around 1 passed away due to stomache cancer but they all were great people and i dated a lady only 4'11" in the past too so life is just to short always good to respect and care about others no matter what size no 1 is perfect cheers flowers

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Sun 12/12/10 04:07 PM




:smile: Hmmmm Honestly, yes I dont like how I look and I definatley do not show my body, I wouldn't even have a body photo on here except I was asked to put it on. love
Yes obviously I am insecure, :cry: and know it, I know that people like me for who I am inside but the outside gives me more trouble.
No I cannot relax and eat what I want, although I do eat what i like , just not lots of it.
I have had two husbands play up on me and yes sadly that has left me short of confidence in the looks department. :cry: I dont even know who I do it for.:smile:
well them guys must of been idiots from what i see you look very beautiful and i know you have a awesome personality from what i see in the threads and from just chatting as a friend no 1 should ever put a person down its so sad when jerks do that well thanks for your message and i tell you don't need to feel insecure your a hottie and i bet all on here aggree that you are so keep your spirits strong and always hold your head up high i am here too if you ever need a friend to chat with hugsssssssss:)))))flowers

Never change cheer...not many still think like you.
well thank you i just speak from my heart and i really hate when people judge so many people in this life and when people think they are better then someone else i love all the same big small fat or tall i really like that song i played it for a good friend of mine that was not well but he was a heavy guy its called he ain't heavy he's my brother .... he loved it and now he is doing alot better he still around now 265 but lost alot of weight and feels great he had alot of friends that were like 6'8 325 pounds around like 6 that came around 1 passed away due to stomache cancer but they all were great people and i dated a lady only 4'11" in the past too so life is just to short always good to respect and care about others no matter what size no 1 is perfect cheers flowers


What counts & important is how you feel...not what others think.

josie68's photo
Sun 12/12/10 04:08 PM
Edited by josie68 on Sun 12/12/10 04:09 PM


:smile: Hmmmm Honestly, yes I dont like how I look and I definatley do not show my body, I wouldn't even have a body photo on here except I was asked to put it on. love
Yes obviously I am insecure, :cry: and know it, I know that people like me for who I am inside but the outside gives me more trouble.
No I cannot relax and eat what I want, although I do eat what i like , just not lots of it.
I have had two husbands play up on me and yes sadly that has left me short of confidence in the looks department. :cry: I dont even know who I do it for.:smile:
well them guys must of been idiots from what i see you look very beautiful and i know you have a awesome personality from what i see in the threads and from just chatting as a friend no 1 should ever put a person down its so sad when jerks do that well thanks for your message and i tell you don't need to feel insecure your a hottie and i bet all on here aggree that you are so keep your spirits strong and always hold your head up high i am here too if you ever need a friend to chat with hugsssssssss:)))))flowers


Thanks Cheer Up, your a Fair dinkum Bloke, Love ya love :smile:

And i think all the girls here feel the same.

ScottyBravo's photo
Sun 12/12/10 06:22 PM
Josie you look fantastic a very beautiful sexy stunning woman, don't ever let some ahole take that away from you flowerforyou

navygirl's photo
Sun 12/12/10 11:28 PM



I have gained a lot of weight the last 17 mo. but because I had a bad knee and couldn't do much including barely walk or stand. After 2 surgerys (and a new knee) I am on my way to being healthy again.. I will be back in the gym asap and that helps me tremendously.. Besides that I have a new Harley in the garage waiting to be ridden..bigsmile Thats my big incentive!!


I understand where you are coming from. Took me 4 years to recoup from my accident and I am doing well. Good luck to you in getting yourself back in shape.




My daughter was in the Navy over 12 yrs.. She was gaining a lot of weight and finally had to get out because of it.. Come to find out she had a tumor on her pituitary gland that was causing her body to make tons more cortisol than usual.. After she had surgery to remove it her weight dropped a lot...


Glad to hear she finally found the problem for the weight gain. Mine was just because I couldn't walk for 4 years. It was quite the battle to get the pounds off but I did and I am still doing it. Just lost another 6 from Thursday to Sunday. Not sure how I did it but sure not complaining. LOL

navygirl's photo
Sun 12/12/10 11:30 PM



Men tell me that all the time that I am not as pretty as the girls they used to date. They expect models not real women. I don't give a crap if they don't think I am pretty; they are not worth my efforts anyways.


Men don't do that! noway tongue2 :laughing:


Well not in Fantasyland men wouldn't do that but I don't live in Fantasyland. laugh

MusicLoverandMore's photo
Sun 12/12/10 11:34 PM
I am happy with the way I am!! I am told I am too skinny but I eat like a horse and not put on weight..Might have a little pouch but for the most part I am pretty happy with my weight...It beats being called a anorexic!!

MusicLoverandMore's photo
Sun 12/12/10 11:34 PM
I am happy with the way I am!! I am told I am too skinny but I eat like a horse and not put on weight..Might have a little pouch but for the most part I am pretty happy with my weight...It beats being called a anorexic!!

navygirl's photo
Sun 12/12/10 11:35 PM

I am happy with the way I am!! I am told I am too skinny but I eat like a horse and not put on weight..Might have a little pouch but for the most part I am pretty happy with my weight...It beats being called a anorexic!!


I am so jealous of you. I just look at food and I gain weight. grumble

MusicLoverandMore's photo
Sun 12/12/10 11:42 PM


I am happy with the way I am!! I am told I am too skinny but I eat like a horse and not put on weight..Might have a little pouch but for the most part I am pretty happy with my weight...It beats being called a anorexic!!


I am so jealous of you. I just look at food and I gain weight. grumble


I was 102 pds 3 yrs ago..Funny thing was I was working and had all this extra energy! Oh and I think stress had alot to do with it also! But I come home from the job and I was very hungry and ate like a horse..how did I lose that weight? I just didn't get it! I was not trying to lose weight! But I guess maybe it was stress..Who knows! Today I gained 2 sizes of clothes and up there to 118.

navygirl's photo
Sun 12/12/10 11:45 PM



I am happy with the way I am!! I am told I am too skinny but I eat like a horse and not put on weight..Might have a little pouch but for the most part I am pretty happy with my weight...It beats being called a anorexic!!


I am so jealous of you. I just look at food and I gain weight. grumble


I was 102 pds 3 yrs ago..Funny thing was I was working and had all this extra energy! Oh and I think stress had alot to do with it also! But I come home from the job and I was very hungry and ate like a horse..how did I lose that weight? I just didn't get it! I was not trying to lose weight! But I guess maybe it was stress..Who knows! Today I gained 2 sizes of clothes and up there to 118.


You also may have a good metabolism. I started weight training and dropped 40 pounds but I watch everything I eat. I haven't indulged in any of the Christmas goodies as I want to keep the weight down but honestly I don't miss it or crave it. Would rather have fruit or salad anyways.

josie68's photo
Mon 12/13/10 12:08 AM

Josie you look fantastic a very beautiful sexy stunning woman, don't ever let some ahole take that away from you flowerforyou


Thanks heaps Scottyflowerforyou love

Cheer_up's photo
Mon 12/13/10 12:41 AM



:smile: Hmmmm Honestly, yes I dont like how I look and I definatley do not show my body, I wouldn't even have a body photo on here except I was asked to put it on. love
Yes obviously I am insecure, :cry: and know it, I know that people like me for who I am inside but the outside gives me more trouble.
No I cannot relax and eat what I want, although I do eat what i like , just not lots of it.
I have had two husbands play up on me and yes sadly that has left me short of confidence in the looks department. :cry: I dont even know who I do it for.:smile:
well them guys must of been idiots from what i see you look very beautiful and i know you have a awesome personality from what i see in the threads and from just chatting as a friend no 1 should ever put a person down its so sad when jerks do that well thanks for your message and i tell you don't need to feel insecure your a hottie and i bet all on here aggree that you are so keep your spirits strong and always hold your head up high i am here too if you ever need a friend to chat with hugsssssssss:)))))flowers


Thanks Cheer Up, your a Fair dinkum Bloke, Love ya love :smile:

And i think all the girls here feel the same.
awwwwwww thanks my beautiful looking friend love flowers :smile: hugssssssssssssss

Cheer_up's photo
Tue 12/21/10 07:18 PM

I am happy with the way I am!! I am told I am too skinny but I eat like a horse and not put on weight..Might have a little pouch but for the most part I am pretty happy with my weight...It beats being called a anorexic!!
Well i think you look just Fine just the way you are and your right guys love to hold on to a lady:)))))) hugssssssflowerforyou

Cheer_up's photo
Tue 12/21/10 07:21 PM

Josie you look fantastic a very beautiful sexy stunning woman, don't ever let some ahole take that away from you flowerforyou
you took the words right out of my mouth dude cheers i aggree 100% she is very beautiful inside and out HAPPY HOLIDAYS ALL!:)))CHEERS:thumbsup: waving :banana:

Cheer_up's photo
Thu 12/23/10 07:52 PM
Hope you all Enjoy your food in the Holiday season and HAPPY HOLIDAYS ALL !CHEERSwaving :smile: :banana:

fireflysgirl's photo
Thu 12/23/10 08:31 PM
Haha-got a letter from one of my bad boys today and he said it was okay to gain a few pounds over the holidays to make me jump start the new year by re-losing them-LOL!

Jess642's photo
Thu 12/23/10 08:37 PM



:smile: Hmmmm Honestly, yes I dont like how I look and I definatley do not show my body, I wouldn't even have a body photo on here except I was asked to put it on. love
Yes obviously I am insecure, :cry: and know it, I know that people like me for who I am inside but the outside gives me more trouble.
No I cannot relax and eat what I want, although I do eat what i like , just not lots of it.
I have had two husbands play up on me and yes sadly that has left me short of confidence in the looks department. :cry: I dont even know who I do it for.:smile:
well them guys must of been idiots from what i see you look very beautiful and i know you have a awesome personality from what i see in the threads and from just chatting as a friend no 1 should ever put a person down its so sad when jerks do that well thanks for your message and i tell you don't need to feel insecure your a hottie and i bet all on here aggree that you are so keep your spirits strong and always hold your head up high i am here too if you ever need a friend to chat with hugsssssssss:)))))flowers


Thanks Cheer Up, your a Fair dinkum Bloke, Love ya love :smile:

And i think all the girls here feel the same.


Aussie chicka!...heya from the rather sodden Queenslander!

Seems you guys are in for wild weather too...drinker

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