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Topic: so when is the right time?
buttons's photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:30 PM
i can never seem to hit it... do guys just like the chase? once a gal bites its over? i dont get it! ive done everything.. i guess wrong i show no interest for a week to 8 weeks.. nothing in there seems to be right... what is the right time? or is there one?

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:33 PM
Edited by IndnPrncs on Wed 12/22/10 10:33 PM
I think when it is right it just will be.. I know it sounds cliche` but I think it's true..

We can chat and talk and really seem to click with people and then it's gone like a flash.. They do something that we don't like or vice versa... But when we really click with someone it's going to click through their moods, ours, bad days, good days, etc. I don't think there will be a question... flowerforyou

buttons's photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:38 PM

I think when it is right it just will be.. I know it sounds cliche` but I think it's true..

We can chat and talk and really seem to click with people and then it's gone like a flash.. They do something that we don't like or vice versa... But when we really click with someone it's going to click through their moods, ours, bad days, good days, etc. I don't think there will be a question... flowerforyou
weird really.. sometimes i am ready faster than other times for different reasons.. then when im ready poof they are gone... makes me wonder if they were ever ready or just wanted attention and desperate at the time... i dont think i will ever be that fast again.. i just dont really care much anymore lmao! well hope they got their thrill if thinking i cared that much.. just cause i showed interest... does not mean im desperate.... definitely and doing fine on my own..

mrheartfelt's photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:38 PM

i can never seem to hit it... do guys just like the chase? once a gal bites its over? i dont get it! ive done everything.. i guess wrong i show no interest for a week to 8 weeks.. nothing in there seems to be right... what is the right time? or is there one?


Trust me, you will know when it is right. Having been in a lot of situations, I know it is best to know yourself before any one else knows you. Learn what you want and don't let people fool you. You will be ready when the time comes when you know yourself first and do work on yourself.waving waving

no photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:40 PM

I think when it is right it just will be.. I know it sounds cliche` but I think it's true..

We can chat and talk and really seem to click with people and then it's gone like a flash.. They do something that we don't like or vice versa... But when we really click with someone it's going to click through their moods, ours, bad days, good days, etc. I don't think there will be a question... flowerforyou



Yep -- what she said!! flowerforyou


buttons's photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:40 PM


i can never seem to hit it... do guys just like the chase? once a gal bites its over? i dont get it! ive done everything.. i guess wrong i show no interest for a week to 8 weeks.. nothing in there seems to be right... what is the right time? or is there one?


Trust me, you will know when it is right. Having been in a lot of situations, I know it is best to know yourself before any one else knows you. Learn what you want and don't let people fool you. You will be ready when the time comes when you know yourself first and do work on yourself.waving waving
yea well when i feel i am ready no matter the time it always seems to be wrong is the issue here lol! thanks though for your sweetness!

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:41 PM


I think when it is right it just will be.. I know it sounds cliche` but I think it's true..

We can chat and talk and really seem to click with people and then it's gone like a flash.. They do something that we don't like or vice versa... But when we really click with someone it's going to click through their moods, ours, bad days, good days, etc. I don't think there will be a question... flowerforyou
weird really.. sometimes i am ready faster than other times for different reasons.. then when im ready poof they are gone... makes me wonder if they were ever ready or just wanted attention and desperate at the time... i dont think i will ever be that fast again.. i just dont really care much anymore lmao! well hope they got their thrill if thinking i cared that much.. just cause i showed interest... does not mean im desperate.... definitely and doing fine on my own..


Some do get off on it Buttons.. They're insecure jerks with low self-esteem that have to feed off other people...

buttons's photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:43 PM



I think when it is right it just will be.. I know it sounds cliche` but I think it's true..

We can chat and talk and really seem to click with people and then it's gone like a flash.. They do something that we don't like or vice versa... But when we really click with someone it's going to click through their moods, ours, bad days, good days, etc. I don't think there will be a question... flowerforyou
weird really.. sometimes i am ready faster than other times for different reasons.. then when im ready poof they are gone... makes me wonder if they were ever ready or just wanted attention and desperate at the time... i dont think i will ever be that fast again.. i just dont really care much anymore lmao! well hope they got their thrill if thinking i cared that much.. just cause i showed interest... does not mean im desperate.... definitely and doing fine on my own..


Some do get off on it Buttons.. They're insecure jerks with low self-esteem that have to feed off other people...
true i have found that... then i wait on the ones who arent and lose them lol! i just havent got it down lol!

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:45 PM
Nothing to get down darlin'.. If you're feeling it it doesn't matter, you'll know it and if they are it will click.. Just think all the mistakes you're missing out on will one day lead you to say "Thank God", when you meet that "one"...

buttons's photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:54 PM
tired of mistakes lol! that is why i dont have any ideas other than friends.. till way later lol!

ValentinaSS's photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:56 PM
Edited by ValentinaSS on Wed 12/22/10 11:00 PM

i can never seem to hit it... do guys just like the chase? once a gal bites its over? i dont get it! ive done everything.. i guess wrong i show no interest for a week to 8 weeks.. nothing in there seems to be right... what is the right time? or is there one?

you have had no luck, are u kiddin??????
now i really doubt my own luck (which hasnt been good) sheeesh

buttons's photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:56 PM
that "one" for me is not going to be seen too soon.. this may be a problem that is why i ask a time.... i feel the ones i waited on... cause i wanna make sure slip away... perhaps they may have been the one?

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:57 PM
Nothing wrong with that.. Anything I go into it's as friends.. Even then they can have ulterior motives which involve their ego... Can't help the jerks, just have to be stronger and better and not let them get you down...

kc0003's photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:58 PM
it's pretty rare when two individuals progress at the same speed, in the same direction, at the same time. the "timing" you ask about has to be just right for both. that said, it does happen.

buttons's photo
Wed 12/22/10 10:59 PM


i can never seem to hit it... do guys just like the chase? once a gal bites its over? i dont get it! ive done everything.. i guess wrong i show no interest for a week to 8 weeks.. nothing in there seems to be right... what is the right time? or is there one?

you have had no luck?????
i haven`t either,,,,and now have to just call it quits!!!!
i hear ya ive been there for a while now.. got fooled once... then it was a big reminder lol!laugh :wink:

buttons's photo
Wed 12/22/10 11:01 PM

it's pretty rare when two individuals progress at the same speed, in the same direction, at the same time. the "timing" you ask about has to be just right for both. that said, it does happen.
now that makes a lil sense lol! really it does.. i guess you gotta get the right pair in the same timing?

buttons's photo
Wed 12/22/10 11:04 PM

Nothing wrong with that.. Anything I go into it's as friends.. Even then they can have ulterior motives which involve their ego... Can't help the jerks, just have to be stronger and better and not let them get you down...
yea me too friends first... sometimes it can be for 2 weeks sometimes longer if you didnt meet and just talk... or even meet.. if the timing isnt right when i meet i look at as friend.. crap lol.. im usually the one who gets butterflies first. but i guess not always.. if i am in a wait mode... then i may a few months later.. weird lol!

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 12/22/10 11:09 PM

it's pretty rare when two individuals progress at the same speed, in the same direction, at the same time. the "timing" you ask about has to be just right for both. that said, it does happen.


It isn't common but "rare" to me indicates that it hardly ever happens and we've all witnessed that it does happen...

Even if it's not forever, we've clicked with people and we know what that is like...

buttons's photo
Wed 12/22/10 11:12 PM


it's pretty rare when two individuals progress at the same speed, in the same direction, at the same time. the "timing" you ask about has to be just right for both. that said, it does happen.


It isn't common but "rare" to me indicates that it hardly ever happens and we've all witnessed that it does happen...

Even if it's not forever, we've clicked with people and we know what that is like...
that is so true! i can say even 5 or 6 yrs there was a lotta good to last that long... except once for me lol! i had a few last that long.. just the once was not good.

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 12/22/10 11:14 PM
I think remembering the good is important.. It doesn't matter that they didn't work out, what matters is how you felt and what you experienced during those meaningful relationships... Usually it's those relationships that show us some of the things we desire and require in a person...

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