So I have been out there trying to drown myself in a sea of eligible guys only to find that it's really a pond and only a couple feet deep. On top of that I am not exactly petite nor am I really fat I am solid and 5'8" in height so any heels over 2 inches mean I am taller than the average guy. So imagine being a guy and this big girl comes over to ask you to dance, that sends most guys running for the hills. Here's my problem I want a tall guy or at least a guy whose arms are bigger than mine, but tall guys seem to like small woman. What is up with that?

I know what you mean. Well Im plus sized, its hard to find any guy who likes bigger women.

Well I am big and I have a lot of guys asking me out

I don't doubt it. I think mostly what a person has to do is let others know that they are still available. I would say that letting them know that you don't bite but then again some like to be bitten.

Tell us your ways!

There are lots of guys out there who don't go for the skinny women.

Well i m 6ft 2" n i like the women with average hieght.. Not so tall to 6ft n not too short to 5ft..! But the women should be Athletic or slim...lol

I agree, a woman should look like a woman - have curves in all the right places...

I never undesrtood men who are attracted to women who look like 12 year old boys, or who have plastic implants, botox lips and orange skin!

Be yourself, let your personality shine through - and good luck to you!

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