Topic: Best way to approach you?
esperanza79's photo
Fri 01/07/11 06:47 PM
I respond to almost anything or everything...I don't mind nudges or anything else silly. Unless you're someone trolling for sex, then I will not respond, as I have put specifically in my profile I'm not into FWB or NSA. After that....anything is fair game. If you're a prick or insincere I'll figure it out pretty quickly.

BellaV's photo
Fri 01/07/11 06:47 PM

I respond to almost anything or everything...I don't mind nudges or anything else silly. Unless you're someone trolling for sex, then I will not respond, as I have put specifically in my profile I'm not into FWB or NSA. After that....anything is fair game. If you're a prick or insincere I'll figure it out pretty quickly.



Well put! AMEN!

drb1970's photo
Sun 01/09/11 12:17 PM

A simple Hi always worked for mewaving
Hi:wink: lol

Skootchy74's photo
Sun 01/09/11 12:25 PM
i prefer blunt,open honesty...+ it helps if you..
1.) smoke a little weed
2.) like videogames
3.) like to engage in a philisophical conversation
4.) believe the eyes really are the windows of the soul.
5.) i dont know what 5# is yet but ill find something to put up on here....

ScottyBravo's photo
Sun 01/09/11 12:26 PM
come up and grab me by my cahonas :banana:

eileena9's photo
Sun 01/09/11 12:28 PM

come up and grab me by my cahonas :banana:


devil devil devil

HawaiiMusikMan's photo
Sun 01/09/11 12:28 PM
I don't know guys, I've been quite fond of the "kick them in the butt" nudge. That's how I usually respond to getting a nudge on here

no photo
Sun 01/09/11 12:33 PM

What turns you "on" or "off" when it comes to how people approach you? How do you feel about "nudges?" What about mail and personal notes? What would motivate you to write back to someone? What would turn you "off?" Thanks...



I generally don't respond to nudges from strangers. If they have something to say, say it, make it interesting, and check the spelling. Plus, experience has taught me that nudges from strangers are most likely scammers. If I'm in a scammer-squashing mood, I may play along until I have enough evidence to turn them in and get their account nuked.

Same with IMs. If it's a stranger, it's almost always a scammer. I will generally go along with those because it only takes a minute or two for me to confirm that they're scamming.

Nudges and IMs from people I've communicated with before are fine and I have no issues with those.

As far as e-mails, go, I will pretty much write anyone back who writes to me. Most of the e-mails I get are pretty disappointing, content-wise, though; it's clear that they either have nothing to say (I get a lot of e-mails that consist of "Hi" or "How are you?") or they don't know how to say it.

If someone wants to get my attention, they should send me something that has some intellectual content to it.


eileena9's photo
Sun 01/09/11 12:39 PM

I don't know guys, I've been quite fond of the "kick them in the butt" nudge. That's how I usually respond to getting a nudge on here


Tested for authenticity.......and he did!!:cry: :cry: :cry:

laugh laugh laugh :wink:

HawaiiMusikMan's photo
Sun 01/09/11 12:43 PM


I don't know guys, I've been quite fond of the "kick them in the butt" nudge. That's how I usually respond to getting a nudge on here


Tested for authenticity.......and he did!!:cry: :cry: :cry:

laugh laugh laugh :wink:


A man of my word bigsmile

Loy822's photo
Sun 01/09/11 12:56 PM
Humor - if I crack up I'll talk to anyone

soufiehere's photo
Sun 01/09/11 12:59 PM
For me, you must enter through the 'funny bone' door.
Tickle your way to my brain.
I will notice :-)

BellaV's photo
Sun 01/09/11 01:40 PM


come up and grab me by my cahonas :banana:


devil devil devil



i did and all i got was a handfull of socks and lace pantiessad rant sad

ScottyBravo's photo
Sun 01/09/11 01:44 PM



come up and grab me by my cahonas :banana:


devil devil devil



i did and all i got was a handfull of socks and lace pantiessad rant sad


you have a typo on sock hun and did you sniff the panties I think they were yours

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 01/09/11 01:48 PM
Cahones or cojones?

BellaV's photo
Sun 01/09/11 01:53 PM
frustrated lmaooo i forgot the question!

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 01/09/11 01:54 PM

frustrated lmaooo i forgot the question!


Blonde moment? lol

BellaV's photo
Sun 01/09/11 01:55 PM
lol yep


but u 2 made me laugh

Destiny1988's photo
Tue 01/11/11 08:24 PM
Yes oNLY EMAIL, . .introduced urself. . . .no more nudges

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 01/11/11 08:56 PM
I don't usually respond to nudges from people I don't know from the forums. I will almost always respond to a legit email unless it is sexual in nature or unreadable.