this sucks :-(...is anyone in the same boat as me?

Yup. It sounds worse than it is, though. I'd rather be alone than be in a relationship with someone and WISH I was alone.

Just buy some chocolate and eat it all yourself..........

ice cream is good too

true statements..very helpful

I like the idea with chocolate and good wine!!!!!

Just think about not having to spend any money on someone

Valentines day is so overrated, its just to commercialized like Christmas, I buy myself a big box of chocolates and pamper myself, not a damn thing wrong with that

I'm with ya sister! Someday I am going to experience Valentine's day. Just want to see what the hype is about

You are planning this far ahead to be alone?
Seems time enough to form a plan :-)

I will only be alone if my PC conks out

Why does everyone always worry about being alone? I think we forget the good parts about it honestly. YOU decide what you want to do for the night, what you will eat, you only have to pick up after yourself, geesh I could go on and on.
Stop thinking about finding someone and usually that's when it happens..IF THAT'S WHAT YOU WANT!! I myself love being alone, I am pretty awesome company!!

It's a great day to watch My Bloody Valentine.

last year my nephew asked me to be his valentine.
i think he's moved on though.
):

I was thinking the same thing.

I just want to have one Valentine's day. After that ... I don't care.

I second that

I meant that for Torgo

V-day is a day to spend alone, driving, watching every car pass me with their hands held in the middle of their seats, as I then reflect on my own disposition of living life w/o someone to pamper, or buy all my silly little gifts for,,like the ones I have to pass-by in every store, shop, truck stop I visit,,and then I have to glance at a few,,and think more about all my past beautiful times of sharing that day with my woman,,
Couples all are magnified to their fullest on that day.
Old men and women holding hands and YOU JUST KNOW,,you ONLY WISH
you had what THEY ARE LIVING....Then,,its the next day,,and life goes back to my eyes being closed to really ENVISION and SEE all that same love around me,,and I am,,,me again until my birthday
in June,,to hope and see if I can NOT have this reflection to view.
Hey,,THIS IS REAL, and so is LIFE,,we need to have a real awareness of who we are, and where we are, so we can KNOW, what we would like to be in this world and IF WE REALLY NEED SOME ELSE IN IT to share
life with,,,and as for me,,,I know I am happier,,living WITH
someone who Loves me,,than living my life,,alone..
So bring on any possible injuries and harms to my feelings because to STOP, is to DIE INSIDE,,and for THAT,,I shall never endure.

So,,,,I can just say to YOU,,,I HOPE you have as bright a day as
your can manage not to SEE around your day,,,as all that I see,,,wink,lol

I don't think Valentine's day is that special of a day. It's not a day I want to go on a first date. And if I'm seeing someone, it means more to make another day special.

So, for this Valentine's day, since it's on a Monday, I will probably be playing trivia with friends.