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Topic: Change...but what?
singlentri_ing's photo
Mon 01/24/11 10:25 PM
I feel like I need a change in my life, but I don't know what. I don't know if it's as simple as a new hair cut/makeover, or if it's a new job, a new place to live (out of the state), etc.

When you guys feel the need for a change in your life, how do you go about figuring out exactly what it is that needs to change?

wraithme66's photo
Mon 01/24/11 10:35 PM
Changes in my life happen primarily due to necessity... If I were stupid rich... Then I would make changes as I choose.

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Mon 01/24/11 10:59 PM

I feel like I need a change in my life, but I don't know what. I don't know if it's as simple as a new hair cut/makeover, or if it's a new job, a new place to live (out of the state), etc.

When you guys feel the need for a change in your life, how do you go about figuring out exactly what it is that needs to change?


I felt this frequently

often I just go shopping for clothes quite honestly

that's also why I bought my bike & joined a fitness center

what I seem to do is make small changes here & there . In the end the changes I've made are becoming a pretty comprehensive overall picture done one small step at a time

newarkjw's photo
Mon 01/24/11 11:07 PM
I am still trying to figure this out myself.......smokin

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Mon 01/24/11 11:11 PM
sometimes I think we get in a rut

but I dont think it requires drastic change to pull out of it

in fact drastic changes are usually pretty stressful jmho

newarkjw's photo
Mon 01/24/11 11:28 PM
Radical changes can also be very rewarding............smokin

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Tue 01/25/11 08:26 AM

sometimes I think we get in a rut

but I dont think it requires drastic change to pull out of it

in fact drastic changes are usually pretty stressful jmho
I LIVE in a rut frown

soufiehere's photo
Tue 01/25/11 09:12 AM

I LIVE in a rut frown

Well it could have been a shoe.

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Tue 01/25/11 09:24 AM


I LIVE in a rut frown

Well it could have been a shoe.
wood that mean I'd have a bunch of kids ??

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Tue 01/25/11 09:37 AM

I am still trying to figure this out myself.......smokin

With Newark here... Wish I knew exactly what and how!

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 01/25/11 10:08 AM
When that happens to me I try taking a class or learning something new.

You could try anything from dancing to astronomy.

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Tue 01/25/11 10:21 AM

When that happens to me I try taking a class or learning something new.

You could try anything from dancing to astronomy.



:thumbsup:

I started talking salsa lessons. Try something new that you think you'll enjoy.

soufiehere's photo
Tue 01/25/11 10:30 AM



I LIVE in a rut frown

Well it could have been a shoe.

wood that mean I'd have a bunch of kids ??

This would depend upon how much
actual rutting you did.

OP: Try brand-new underwear.

Dragoness's photo
Tue 01/25/11 11:03 AM
They have articles on this subject on the internet that you can read. I looked it up one time.

I have been stuck for a while myself and haven't figured out what the change is yet so I am no help and shouldn't have wasted your time:wink: laugh


roadlesstrvld's photo
Tue 01/25/11 11:16 AM
Move...start over....join new groups...life is wonderful when you open yourself up to new things...change small stuff or big stuff...just do something that will make you smile.

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Tue 01/25/11 02:15 PM

Move...start over....join new groups...life is wonderful when you open yourself up to new things...change small stuff or big stuff...just do something that will make you smile.
welcome to the forums roadless...

seamac's photo
Tue 01/25/11 05:25 PM
"if in doubt, leave it out" Perhaps you are doing something that you would rather not be doing, something you don't need to be doing that is dragging you down. Just a thought but if there is something like that just getting rid of it might be the needed change.


Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 01/25/11 05:29 PM
when i feel it's time for change i buy new shoes

(which is alot) ! :banana: :banana: :banana:

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Tue 01/25/11 05:30 PM

I feel like I need a change in my life, but I don't know what. I don't know if it's as simple as a new hair cut/makeover, or if it's a new job, a new place to live (out of the state), etc.

When you guys feel the need for a change in your life, how do you go about figuring out exactly what it is that needs to change?
OH,,,thats EASY,,,when she tells me to GET-OUT!!!!!!

I KNOW TO PACK and GO,,,,,,noway

:wink: laugh simple wasn't it?:banana:

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Tue 01/25/11 05:32 PM

I feel like I need a change in my life, but I don't know what. I don't know if it's as simple as a new hair cut/makeover, or if it's a new job, a new place to live (out of the state), etc.

When you guys feel the need for a change in your life, how do you go about figuring out exactly what it is that needs to change?
OH,,,SORRY,, I MISSED-READ,,,

Its STILL simple,,,

I TELL HER TO GET-OUT,,,,noway

And then I know I will HAVE MORE ROOM.....bigsmile

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