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Topic: Just a question for the moms and ladies
lulu24's photo
Fri 02/25/11 07:36 PM


i have about a two-year range mine might have been in...and even then, i'm not sure. i just don't care.

i haven't had a doctor ask me that in ages.
spock mmmmmmmmmmm, now I have to go back to the draw board,,,wink,lol, I would THINK,,that IF,,she had PE,,in school by then? THAT is where she would for sure remember or not,,well,,if they were like my growing up days and everyone had to shower for gym? But I shall note this Lulu,,and thanks,,:heart:
i wasn't ever IN PE...i received credit because of the martial arts hours i put in elsewhere.

axl_rose40's photo
Fri 02/25/11 08:18 PM

Just because THIS is an ODD question,,and SOME have seen a desire to lead it into something more,,,
After having many conversations with a friend of mine(female) and as to her complete child-hood memories,,as her father was a PERVERT
and sexually assulted her
and her not having ANY IDEA as to when she had started her's,,I felt MAYBE,,,that was because she was already being rapped by him then. And didn't or couldn't remember THAT,,because of THAT..
Because in my mind and all my girl (friends) talking to me through life,,even today,,almost ALL of them,,could tell ANYONE in a heart beat,,their age when they started,,,so as to TEST THAT IDEA OF THOUGHT,,,that ALL WOMEN HAVE A PRETTY GOOD IDEA (HOW OLD THEY WERE) when that happened to them,,,I ran this post as an average thought of all of YOUR thoughts here,,,as to IF it was an age YOU KNEW,,in growing up,,WITHOUT wrong being done to you..
as THAT would help me to know HER truth that happen..OK?
Just my own head trip,,trying to understand her mind,,THEN..


Having raised by quite meticulous (and protective at that) set of parents, my first period was a very remarkable day because that was when they started being more observant of my ways. It became the start of so much lectures about my femininity, the reasons why I should be more careful with myself and more reasons not to let guys touch me wrongly. At a very young age then, it was a mystery not really knowing the explicit reasons because my parents were not so blunt about the sensitive issues this brought along to a young lady, but I'd say they were so successful in instilling in me that I should be very, very wary of some people who will attempt to do me wrong because my physical attributes begun getting attention then.

Yes, I remember my age when I got my first period. And I will have my daughter remember hers too for the same reason.

Sleepless_nights_78's photo
Fri 02/25/11 10:39 PM
I remember my age when it started but it wasn't something that my mother ever felt comfy talking about. I'm happy that I had the other girls in my class to talk with. I'm glad that I'm more able to discuss matters like this with my own daughter. I kinda know how your friend feels, having lived through a similar type of trauma in my own life. My thoughts are with her. :)

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Fri 02/25/11 11:49 PM

I remember my age when it started but it wasn't something that my mother ever felt comfy talking about. I'm happy that I had the other girls in my class to talk with. I'm glad that I'm more able to discuss matters like this with my own daughter. I kinda know how your friend feels, having lived through a similar type of trauma in my own life. My thoughts are with her. :)
:heart: I'm sorry that happen..And to be very real here.
I have met TO MANY women on here and in life,,where THAT has been an issue with their childhoods,,,and it makes me want to invent a time machine and go back,,and save everyone of them from THIS..
I don't know the inside head trip that my friend has,,,I WISH I knew how the pieces all devided out,,and into all the whats,,
To have so much faith, and so young,,and then to have that all taken away,,,is beyond my comprehensions. It is no wonder there are so many teenage suicides...Thank you for your help..:heart:

Sleepless_nights_78's photo
Sun 02/27/11 12:36 AM


I remember my age when it started but it wasn't something that my mother ever felt comfy talking about. I'm happy that I had the other girls in my class to talk with. I'm glad that I'm more able to discuss matters like this with my own daughter. I kinda know how your friend feels, having lived through a similar type of trauma in my own life. My thoughts are with her. :)
:heart: I'm sorry that happen..And to be very real here.
I have met TO MANY women on here and in life,,where THAT has been an issue with their childhoods,,,and it makes me want to invent a time machine and go back,,and save everyone of them from THIS..
I don't know the inside head trip that my friend has,,,I WISH I knew how the pieces all devided out,,and into all the whats,,
To have so much faith, and so young,,and then to have that all taken away,,,is beyond my comprehensions. It is no wonder there are so many teenage suicides...Thank you for your help..:heart:

If I have helped in any way, you are welcome. :) from my own research it is also one of the main reasons for depression, additions and so many other factors that are in society today.

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