Im kinda new but been away a while had marriage trouble last time herer found another site introduced wife to it we got better 4 bout amonth she started spendin all her time on it with me beggin her to spend time with me then she had 2 massive heart attack caused by clogged artery but blamed me said was stressin her out over web 2 weeks outta hospital she kicks me out tells me its over she met someone else on other site I intrduced her to and she never actually met him face to face but prefers him to me cause he dont mind her bein on web.wtf!!! Sorry bout all this just had to get it off my chest other site had pluses over mingle bcause was mobile friendly but mingle always had a LOT better class of people thats y Im back better people no jerks and haters here any way sorry just had to veent a little

Hi Chris

Hope you don't mind me jumping in. I think it takes an extra effort to make an Internet relationship happen. There are some great couples up here who have pulled it off but many of us who have tried it have fallen into dangerous waters for sure.

walk softly and carry a big heart, and delete button

u see we wernt internet couple we were real couple she kicked me out for a guy she met on internet still hasnt actually met him but prefers him to 10 yrs of wedded bliss thats just blows my mind dont know what happened to us we were great till got web access if could trn back time wouldve never got it

She loves you, she may be infatuated with a stranger because new is exciting, but she loves you. I almost can guarantee this new interest will fizzle out and she will have a renewed passion for you. I understand how bad she is making you feel right now, but like you said "10 years" will always beat out 10 minutes.
Stay strong, and show her the man you are that she is neglecting.

good advice Julie

good advice Julie

Are you saying you and your wife were looking for threesomes on the internet? Or did you both have an open marriage? Or were you both just looking to make new friends? Or am i just having a "wtf?" moment? :/

ditto

Yeah. I'm sure we're missing pieces of vital information.

Yeah, run on sentences, bad grammar, and poor spelling will do that to you every time.

all of this. and where's andy rooney with...the rest of the story.

Kinda wondering why in the world would you wanna introduce "your girl" to a dating site??

not lookin 4 3some and no not open marriagewe had a normal marriage just lookin for new friends and the crap hit the fan more or less

sorry double post

not lookin 4 a datein site was like mingle datein and just chat if what your lookin 4 not namein site but was both for dateing or just chat which is what we used it for was just chat she thinks she found love

As your profile says your divorced, I assume then that your (now ex) wife has moved on with this new guy. You, my friend have fallen victim to one of the great injustices of our times. as the saying goes "The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence". AND everyone on the internet is perfect (or seems that way)

I'm sorry for your problems, but when one spouse starts spending an exorbitant amount of time on the computer away for their partner, there is a problem. Thats when a little extra effort is needed. I, like the others above wonder about you both being on the net looking for people to chat with. That can always lead to trouble when married. I have had friends marriages broke up under the same instances.

You need to be mindful of that, if you and anyone else plays that game. You have to make sure life is good at home, otherwise someone on the other side of the computer screen may sound alot better. whether if they are or not.

well trouble bug sorta jumped gun on rec.div. not started yet and the guy she kicked me out 4 came by 4 adult relations the day I left he found out bout her health probs n found out nothin gonna happen 4 bot another 2 mo. so he bolted leavin her alone not tlkn 2 her againbe sause it was more than he wanted to get into.fyi she goes back 16th to have a 3rd stint put in her leg. She not givin up the nosense tho seein this thru lookin 4 some one 4 adult relations only now. wtf!!!

ditto


Yeah. I'm sure we're missing pieces of vital information.


all of this. and where's andy rooney with...the rest of the story.
well my dark angel the rest of the story we got on chat just to meet friends because we didnt really have any .She started gettin attn she had stopped noticing me payin her asumeing i wasnt paying attn to her anymore bcause after 10 yrs u just dont notice it anymore started bein more and more withdrawn from me so i hacked her acct. found out she given her # out then put txt tracker app on her phone and foundf out she was tryin to hookup with thede guys. I confronted her we argued a couple weeks she started plain head games with me and I had a complete nevous brk down and she had a hrt attk. She blames me 4 all of it even hrt attk she got out of hosp week l8r she kicked me out to hook up with aguy she met but trnd out more than he bargaind 4 so he left I was pushed furthur and furthur into a dark place thunkin bout suicide ( cont.)

Im finally gettin back to myself now that im able to vent . the big prob is she has no where to go not able to wrk therefore im haveing to support her and me 2 houses (fd up)she tryin to find her anothe kook up while playin head games on me fortunately the one true friend we both had opened my eyes and helped me see what was really goin on her telling lies to evrybody on me the kind thatll put me in prison my only worry now but she wantin me to sign an agreement that Ill suport her and tk care of her meds for rest of her life (lmfao) That is not fair to me at all she thinks it is. she is goin thru menopause and with heart attak causein her to change entire lifestyle.This is causing her to need proffesional help and meds but she refuses 2 belive this well now u know the rest of the story

just an update on my prob we filed a no fault divorc and about same time I met the most amazin girl on the same site my x was on.OMG the chemistry is great we tlkd for a week then we met sat spent wknd at the lake in my camper just hangin out n gettin to know each other lol she still aint went home. Im treatin her like a lady she tratin me great we have evrythin in, common hell she is basically a fem ver. of me. I just cant believe how well we get along or how much alike we r she got 3 beautiful children and heck i cant wait to meet them hope they like me too this relationship is last a long time i think