I am expecting my son in two weeks or less and could use any and all advice for raising a child. I want to be a good parent

I can't give you a whole lot of advice, other than to follow your instincts.. My son is a month old tomorrow, and I can tell you that if you're the main parent, get plenty of sleep... Sleep when he does, otherwise things will get overwhelming and frustrating very easily. Congratulations to you sir! Being a parent is the best thing in the world.

first of all congratulations! I had my daughter 3 weeks ago! She came early. But i agree with dani. Go with your instincts. Alot comes naturally. Do what you feel is best and not what you read online or in books, though they can be a good start if you are unsure. If you ever question always ask the doctor. I'm a first time mommy and i haven.t had many problems that i didn't overcome. For instance breastfeeding, i have to do both that and formula so she gains well. Also i let her sleep in bed with me. It's easier for me. But doctors and books tell you not to. You'll just know what's best as you go. You'll love being a daddy. :)

Thank you ladies I had a feeling the best advice was go with it. So far your ladies have confirmed it. Congrats two you two as well :)

it all starts with the name. don't give your kid a f'd up name. it's something they carry throughout life and something easy for kids on the playground to poke fun at.

IMO it is a parents responsibility to do the least amount of damage to the lives of their children. always put the needs of your children before your own no matter how badly it may affect you or go against your wants.

most importantly, teach him how to be a man. confident, aggressive, honest, trustworthy, ambitious.

but what do i know.


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I've found the advice on this poster to be very helpful. I recommend printing it out and taping it to the fridge.

Congrats on the little one. My kids have been the best experiences of my life.


http://fukung.net/v/8234/f1bfac554f153545f2a956fd9a52104c.jpg

(Edit - Sorry, I couldn't figure out how to post an in-line image and had to post the link instead)

couldn't get the image to post, instead here's a link.

http://fukung.net/v/8234/f1bfac554f153545f2a956fd9a52104c.jpg


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Thanks. Very sound advice. T-27 weeks 5 days for me.

and thank you. :) good luck. Have fun. It's a wonderful thing.