Topic: My boy is NINETEEN today!
msharmony's photo
Sun 09/11/11 02:42 PM
I feel so old,,,lol

But Im so glad his dad and I could continue to partner each other in raising him even after our relationship together ended...


I think we done pretty good, sigh

Queene123's photo
Sun 09/11/11 03:15 PM

I feel so old,,,lol

But Im so glad his dad and I could continue to partner each other in raising him even after our relationship together ended...


I think we done pretty good, sigh



my baby is 24
and when he turned 21
i didnt want him to get older
i dont feel old
and im a grandma
my granddaughte stated she felt old to be 11
and my response was i didnt feel old to be a grandma
laugh

seamac's photo
Sun 09/11/11 03:54 PM
19! Congrats!! You are still so young, have no fear!

I had no issues with my son aging until he was turning 30!! I had no problem turning 30 myself BUT my child turning 30 was another story! I planned to have a 30th birthday freak out for months in advance...was going to buy myself expensive hand and face cream, attempt to undo the years...LOL When he did turn 30 (almost two years ago) I was sooo over myself. Instead I looked at where he is in his life, how happy he is, how in love he is with a wonderful woman and just shrugged and knew I had done my job as his mom well. Till he was 10 I was a single mom and then again when he was about 25 when my husband died, my son was still floundering then and again I helped him find his strength. I did good and I can acknowledge that. Feels good too!

Enjoy 19...it is all getting ready for him to fly the coop from here on out. Be proud of you parenting skills and love every moment with him.

Be very proud that you and his dad did this together even though you two weren't! flowerforyou

oldhippie1952's photo
Sun 09/11/11 04:13 PM

I feel so old,,,lol

But Im so glad his dad and I could continue to partner each other in raising him even after our relationship together ended...


I think we done pretty good, sigh


You are still young, and pretty and compassionate. Now you can relax and enjoy your son's achievements on his own.

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Sun 09/11/11 04:16 PM
oh you are all a bunch of kids bigsmile

msharmony's photo
Sun 09/11/11 04:27 PM

19! Congrats!! You are still so young, have no fear!

I had no issues with my son aging until he was turning 30!! I had no problem turning 30 myself BUT my child turning 30 was another story! I planned to have a 30th birthday freak out for months in advance...was going to buy myself expensive hand and face cream, attempt to undo the years...LOL When he did turn 30 (almost two years ago) I was sooo over myself. Instead I looked at where he is in his life, how happy he is, how in love he is with a wonderful woman and just shrugged and knew I had done my job as his mom well. Till he was 10 I was a single mom and then again when he was about 25 when my husband died, my son was still floundering then and again I helped him find his strength. I did good and I can acknowledge that. Feels good too!

Enjoy 19...it is all getting ready for him to fly the coop from here on out. Be proud of you parenting skills and love every moment with him.

Be very proud that you and his dad did this together even though you two weren't! flowerforyou



thanx , I havent even begun to imagine being around when he is THIRTY,, oh man,,,lolflowerforyou

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Sun 09/11/11 05:01 PM
Happy Birthday to your little baby....a day for you to pause,savor and remember that special extraordinary miracle moment nineteen years ago!!!! :smile:

boredinaz06's photo
Sun 09/11/11 05:03 PM


Happy birthday to your whipper snapper, make sure he stays off my lawn!

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Sun 09/11/11 05:07 PM



Happy birthday to your whipper snapper, make sure he stays off my lawn!

laugh

lilott's photo
Sun 09/11/11 08:19 PM
Both my boys only have about 20 years before they retire.

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Mon 09/12/11 12:59 PM
congradulations :smile:

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 09/12/11 01:07 PM
woo hoo! Happy birthday!!

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Mon 09/12/11 01:08 PM
Congrats..I know it does make us feel old.flowerforyou

Happy Birthday:banana:

luv2roknroll's photo
Fri 09/30/11 05:24 AM
Happy belated birthdayflowerforyou

luv2roknroll's photo
Fri 09/30/11 05:34 AM
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