This is a first for me. Just a little bit ago, I came across my ex from three years ago on another dating website. Since curiosity often gets the best of me I decided to check his profile out.



His profile was disgusting and worth reporting. He claimed he had little to no baggage in his life. He took 8 years off his age, claimed he has no children and he ended his profile by stating quite clearly that "No fat chicks are allowed. Not fair? Life isn't fair. Go to the gym."

I feel physically sick because he's 38, he has 2 of the greatest kids who's mother (he's still married to her. He never told me but his mom did)is a crack whore on the streets of kensington. He also states he is undecided/open about having kids. Such a lie! and to top it off he's mean when he drinks sometimes.



I'm just so disgusted and don't want any other women to have to deal with what I went through with him.

People can be anyone they wish to be,
on the internet.
Lying is not illegal.
They become 'players' and they know what
words to use.
It is a shame someone else will have
to go through it, as you did.
Live and learn :-)

i can see why you dumped his butt. forget him you can do better, learn from your mistake and move on to a better life.

I don't care about him, Storm. It just makes me sick that he's lying. I just feel for anyone that might get involved with him. Maybe I care too much about good women .. it just kills me to know someone might fall for his crap.

I just feel like I need to protect those who are honestly good people and don't deserve his crap.

well i doubt you have much to worry about... i dont know many women who would go running to any man who ends his profile with "no fat chicks allowed".... just sayin...

You're right. And the ones who do are probably hoochies.

yep. the ones with a brain will stay away from him, and the ones that don't are not worth a crap anyway.

Thanks guys I think I just went into a state of shock at how disgusted I felt.

I don't blame you for feeling disgusted. And it sucks that they tend to get away with it all, at least for a while. Just pray no harm comes to those who don't know his character. God bless his children.

Yeah, I know. I just want to warn everyone on PlentyofFish, lol.

I can see why it might bother u somewhat, but really it is no longer any of your business

you have to let it go...

plenty of vain women who feel the same about 'fatness'

fitness buffs
health buffs,,, etc

You're right .. Can't protect everyone I suppose.

right, and letting him affect your emotions??? nah - he doesn;t deserve the attention

but I am sure there's someone out there who does deserve your attention and is just perfect for you!

he is an ex and it is the NOW and the future for yourself and your new guy that is important!!!! not the past with Mr Liealot

that's a good point too - getting in the middle of those things often backfires - I know I just steer clear -

I figure whatever was negative between us might be something he & his new lady are compatible with - or maybe he learned from our mistakes and is trying to be a better person? who knows....I have tried to use lessons from failed relationships to change myself for the better in the future - so I'll be a better partner for the next guy I meet - at least this is my goal. I would want to give my ex the same benefit of the doubt that I would like. a new man will know there were problems that's why they are exes right? And he certainly has a few of those too- But no need to sabotage anyone else's 2nd chances jmho....

I know. You all are so right. I appreciate all the feedback. Some of you have points that I've never even thought about. The past is the past and I wish it would stay there ... without me coming across an ex every now or then ha. Wishful thinking, eh?

well once you have a new relationship well under way...the ex stuff won't matter so much

just don;t get to be totally numb like I am

Three years....let it go.

Your ex is on a dating site....ohhhhhhh could be worse.

My ex has a gaping butthole porn site.

Eventually, you gotta just chalk it up to a loss and be a better person when you just walk away.