So graphic and I don't depute it. I actually know these things. I just had the blinders on because I assumed he was all that he says he was.

I think most people don't suck I just think its luck, in the scheme of things. That and right place right time. And I know its not perfect but it still blows your trust away people take it just like that.

Live and learn Doll. It's all we can do.

Chin up trooper! You seem like an intelligent and descent natured lady. (from what little I have read)

I think you will do just fine Maria.

Bites when someone pulls the wool over your eyes but that makes him the wolf and you the lamb so dom't be too hard on yourself.

With experience your instinct will improve.

If yo keep in mind nobody's perfect and expect a few adventures with the Frog Prince Association it won't feel so personal.

been there a few times myself dont beat urself up over it

So agreed, women can be so scandalous

Oh, well, do you know a lot of guys who just want a jeans and t-shirt girl? I like jeans, but i also like skirts, and designer sweats too. I love tank tops and v-necks, and lots of shoes too. I think my boyfriend really likes the fact that i can be girly but also down to earth. People think i am a snob but those who know me, know its not true. If a guy judges you based on your wardrobe, then you are right, who cares if he judges you before he knows you, because really he's doing you a favor by showing you how shallow he is.

I've had guys say even before getting to know me, "you know, I'm sorry I don't see an attraction." I never forget stuff like that. People can be SO incredibly shallow this is why I say I've given up going after "those types."

Well any guy who says that has a very specific look. I mean, there are chicks who only date black guys or black guys who only date asians and so forth, I met this guy he was into me on a rebound from his ex, but all he talked about was how hot hispanic women were, and im like are you blind, Cuz Im 5'10 nordic jew. That ended pretty quickly. but on the other hand he had his preference and Im just glad i found out before i developed feeling towards him.

Thats good you found that out before getting attached and I mean that is a red flag. I swear most guys would be lying if they said they didn't have a type. I think every guy has their little wants just like us. Only I think with women, its more suggestive. Personality and character take a back door to looks. If you're going into something in the hopes that your future children will be genetically perfect then its for the wrong reasons. Women make this mistake too.

Very true,,and this Internet HELPS themtokeeptheir distance so a person is no wiser...Personally I wish every cheater fell in love,,just for THEM to be cheated on by them..Karma I guess,,lol
But rarely happens...The better person cuts their ties,all because their love just lies..
They leave hurt and alone,,as their lover keeps on keeping ON..
But,,BOTH can and do lie to HAVE MORE!

Life is cruel, liars don't rule,
they just don't care who holds their tool...

Not a good idea to get involved with someone who is mentally ill... you do not own his bs.. he does.. so this penetrating you as in it is somehow your fault or something you take on is bs.. you don't owe yourself any agony over this slug.. he needs to get some professional help and unless he contacted you to provide therapy I'd say he needed a kick in his balls .. so that he doesn't bring home his stds and give them to his hitching post at home... because she is no way, no how anything to him other than a place to smack skin.... you wasting anymore time wondering what he is up to or why he does it is a good waste of your personal space.. he isn't the first piece of crap on the planet and he won't be the last.... anyway he is damaged goods to everyone ... and sadly mostly to himself.. anyway your exercise for today is .. go in the mirror .. take a good look into your eyes .. tell you that you love you and will never ever treat you any other way than lovingly and then walk away from the mirror and say with empowerment "next"... no more time wasted on the wasted k...

This is the shizmic that i go through for bein so sensitive. Sometimes i really hate it because i am the type of person who sees the good in people than the bad. Just the other day some dolt said i was average looking. Lol sereiously this is like grade school comments and i didn't want to defend myself to someone who ill never meet even if he lived down the street. Get tired of these little boys who think its ok to act this way.

It took me a long time to realize that it really doesn't matter what anybody thinks about me, or the way I look or talk or think or tie my shoes or whatever. Not my problem.

Sensitivity is a beautiful thing, but not if you're using it against yourself.

Got no clue what "Shizmic" means but, I ain't going for it.

"Sensitive" ain't a bad thing. Yes, "sensitive" means you may get hurt more or deeper than the insensitive twits around you. Being "Sensitive" also means that you can love deeper than the shallow ones.

Of my real family...my Dad, older brother and me....I am the sensitive one....I heard it for years.

Being sensitive ain't a bad thing and it has served me well. Being sentive has protected me and it has allowed me to really give the full measure of my love and apprecieation to the people who return my love in kind.

If you are gonna hate yourself for seeing the good in people... for being positive and having hope (you are here so, you got hope)...

I am gonna need you to smack yourself around.

Keep being an optimist or I may have to call in my leg breakers.

:)

Well its great advice and for now I'll just take it and see what happens. No matter what I'm gonna keep doing what I'm doing.

That's the spirit Girl!

Love ain't a sprint....it's a marathon.

Well sit down and have a drink this may take a while but i can tell you this there are guys ou there that want the same things you do.

Ha, sorry, my sister and picked it up instead of saying ****, its our thing.

Guess its not completely. And I do definitely learn a lot more because it tends to hit me more when people say certain things like attack my looks. Which I am struggled with personally to just accept.

Well that's great right? You have some iota how I feel on the subject.

In the circle of things, I'm sure that's the ultimate purpose for being such a sensitive sucker. For the time being I am young so it hits home a lot more and I know I have some maturing to do in that field.

I don't really hate myself for being a true sensitive. I just hate that situations like that happen MORE than so-called good uses of it. I gotta have hope somewhere right?

SORRY, I'll try not to show worry wart side as much, just can't help it when something just irritates me to a breaking point. I couldn't really discuss this with my friends. Strangely...

Its a pick yaself up and go regiment eh? Learnin' the ropes is an ongoing battle. Hopefully my sanity will stay afloat.