just gonna start giving em numbers lol met the 2 one tonight lets see if i actually get to meet this one hope she is as pretty as her pic is an no the body wasnt in the pic just the face seemed pretty nice an she is close to home even closer than the last one so 2 positives in a row anyone wana place bets ahead of time . i do have to say she seemed to have a really good attitude but they all do when you first meet them .cant wait to find out exited but not throwing in the heart yet lol. was a beautiful face though .an close to the same age wow never thought about that will be strange always dated older or younger hmmm thinking out loud woops lol.opinions are welcome please be nice in the opinions though.

I am sure she will be thrilled to
be called 'Number Two.'

lol your right but i didnt want to put her name in here so i went with 2 i meet women all the time but the ones that you think hmm maybe just right well this is the second attempt at this lol i use the forums for advice not nessasarly the same site she is on .I know i suck with words lol working on it.just have little faith in it yet so i called it number 2 .

Good luck on your date. Soph has a point about the number two thought but maybe she will turn out to be real nice and be the one and only. Don't kid yourself she has probably googled you and knows all the sights you are on even if she doesn't admit it. Probably a real good idea for watching what you say on line if you know what I mean.

Try to stick with talking about things you like and not previous attempts. Ladies have their dud dates too so it is kind of like why should you have all the luck? lol

Probably not going to hurt that you tell her you think she is pretty. Don't go on and on about it because that makes anyone self concious but a nice compliment helps to know if you are not just spinning your wheels. If you remark about her clothes keep it generic and non sexual.

If you have had several email exchanges you might want to look them up and see if you can find any conversation starters there or in her profile. It is nice to see that a person pays attention to what you say as long as it doesn't sound like you are grilling them. Generally speaking the best questions come out like trying to "share" rather than JUST "discover". Example;
I"I went to the (blank) on a vacation one time but I thought it would be fun to go someplace new; do you have any suggestions?" Or I grew up on/in a (farm/small town/city) but I wondered where you grew up? one of my oldest records is (blank) but I kind of like (blank). Do you have a favorite song?

I am always shocked when guys tell me they woman is wanting to move in right off the bat but I have found after dateing awhile the traditional female follows the man is still pretty much what is expected eventually so I guess having thought something about that idea would be wise. Now days most desireable women are not all that desperate for shelter but they generally have a concept of how long they want to be strung across two addresses. I personally am not that hot to relocate but I guess that is different with each person. One thing that will send me running is a guy who talks about his home as a shrine to the late wife or a flop house for the kids between jobs.

One thing I would say is make an effort to look nice. I am kind of a T-shirt and jeans kind of gal when it comes to my guy every day but for the first date if I have to put on a dress the least that he can do is show up in a shirt with a collar and shaved and shined. Lay off the cologne though. Especially if your kids or ex bought it for you.

Well will keep my fingers grossed for you. I was Married to a guy from Malvern so Razorback fellas rank pretty high with me. Good luck!

thanks for the advice pacific star il try to look into doing some of those for talk pointers so im not real bright when it comes to the dating world but i told her that one thing that i am is honest above all as i think its the most important thing in a relationship then move along from there .Im just not good at lying lol.im a work in progress kinda man lol.i did tell her she was pretty today an told her good morning but i didnt want to ambush her with to many messages as i think she had some problems with guys bothering her to much. hope she finds me easy to chat with i know she is taking the initial time to learn who i am which is ok with me because i dont appear to be alot to people sometimes on the outside till they get close an see what my life endures way to much family drama i try to keep most females away from my family .dont want to scare em off lol. so then there is that skeptic thing about me im trying to jump over that wall not so easy when you been alone for a long time. sorry if i said to much just working on the new me learning how to be me again an live for a change. we havent set a date or anything just yet just chatting so far.

yep think i may have blown it once again lol man im good at running off the ones i like lol so i suck at dating .
havent heard back from her in 2 days .il wait got nothing better to do lol.

Awwww.
Not all women are as smart
as they look.

thanks soufie .maybe someday il learn how to be one of the halfway normal people na never happen lol.

OP, have you tried the Dewey Decimal System? It's great. If you misfile a girlfriend, or if can't remember her title (Miss, Mrs., Countess, Baroness, or Dutchess) then you can always cross-refernce her to her religion or circumdescribe her ample amplitudes and find her that way.

I prefer the colour-coding of dates. For each date I show up with a number of paints, and paint circles, straight lines, and crosses on her, in different colours and hues, according to her opinions, attitudes, and mood.

This saves a LOT of time trying to remember them for their individuality.

GIRLS, don't do this at home on your boyfriends. If he's got a multi-faceted personality, he will be beaten up all the times, coz people will think he is gay, what with the circles of the colours of the rainbow all over him.

lol good idea cant tell ya how many times the scammer ones return an message me i usually take a bit to remember who they were an soon remember why i ran for it lol. good morning an happy newyears.

You don't want to be a clone.
They are aplenty already.
And you cannot spot them in a crowd.

Sometimes when a guy tells a woman that they're an honest or nice guy, it makes the woman question why the guy is even declaring that. That question may stick in her head. Maybe you made her suspicious by saying you were an honest guy. Other than that, i can't really tell why she may have not called back.

yes i am not sure wish they would at least tell you when they are ready to dump ya that would make it much simpler to go on to the next an so on till i find one that matches lol think ran off a second one after that one in one night thats pure talent if anyone can chase a female off in chat by being nice its me lol.

guess i was wrong but not sure think she initally just neeeded help to move but we got to talking over the phone instead of chat online an going really well so far im suppose to go help tommorrow an see her it really scares me to be thinking about the possibilitie of being in a relationship again she seems really nice an down to earth i get jitters when i talk to her just not normal for me at all to get the jitters like a weird feeling hope it works out just had to update maybe i shouldnt say anything in here at all but dont really have anyone else to talk with about it.so ancious to meet her .wish me well tommorrow is the day i meet her after i get off of work been talking on the phone with her today 2 times so far nice person with a good attitude so far .someone better say a prayer for me not to screw this one up .thanks for all your advice.

well i went but was scary people should post recent profile pics not ones that are 10 yrs old i was nice an helped her move but had to tell her i wasnt attracted to her i hate doing that to people but the face just has to be there for me if not then i got to go.i know right now i feel shallow but at least im not false advertising my profile pics on any site what you see is what i am now not ten yrs ago or a yr ago.so were on to the next one again. lol knew was to good to be true its a normal thing for me.