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Can anyone explain for me what is the thing young men have for older women? I joined the site a couple of weeks ago and have been amazed by the amount of mail i'm receiving from men less than half my age. Don't get me wrong i'm not bragging or complaining, but young men don't come on to me in the real world. And then there's the thing about talking sensuously to men the same age as your sons. Id appreciate any thoughts! It's because they think we're hot (we are) and we have lots of money to spend on them!! 
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If you've got it, flaunt it!
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If you've got it, flaunt it! Long live the cougars!.....  
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Yes indeed.
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Yes indeed. 
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 Not that there is anything at all wrong with that!  |
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Not that there is anything at all wrong with that! You goooooooooooooooooo girl!! 
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Can anyone explain for me what is the thing young men have for older women? I joined the site a couple of weeks ago and have been amazed by the amount of mail i'm receiving from men less than half my age. Don't get me wrong i'm not bragging or complaining, but young men don't come on to me in the real world. And then there's the thing about talking sensuously to men the same age as your sons. Id appreciate any thoughts! It's because they think we're hot (we are) and we have lots of money to spend on them!! I agree that is their perception but that's not helpful for those of us looking for a relationship and those if us who want to be appreciated for something more substantial than that...as far as money....I have children. A young single man is likely to have a lot more money than I have |
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This is purely speculation and dependent on the age of both parties..I do think it’s about sex/level of experience combined with the fact that some older women aren’t necessarily looking to settle down – the assumption being that older women having come out of marriages/long term relationships, know what they want, don’t play games, are more honest with their feelings, aren’t looking to have (any more) kids and are more secure i.e. not possessive and being ok if he wants to spend time with his friends etc. How true this is I don’t know but it is what I have come to think based on some of the conversations that I have had with younger guys... Dang you hit the nail on the head. The weird thing is that younger guys seem to get it and are even open to a long term relationship (or so they say  ) but guys around my own age don't...why is that? They don't want to get married again or have children probably. Want more freedom. Being tied down is not of intrest to them lol. exactly- younger guys are in it pretty much for the sex |
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Can anyone explain for me what is the thing young men have for older women? I joined the site a couple of weeks ago and have been amazed by the amount of mail i'm receiving from men less than half my age. Don't get me wrong i'm not bragging or complaining, but young men don't come on to me in the real world. And then there's the thing about talking sensuously to men the same age as your sons. Id appreciate any thoughts! It's because they think we're hot (we are) and we have lots of money to spend on them!! I agree that is their perception but that's not helpful for those of us looking for a relationship and those if us who want to be appreciated for something more substantial than that...as far as money....I have children. A young single man is likely to have a lot more money than I have Read and noted!!.....It is tough being a single mom...My daughter did it from jump street and now grandson is eighteen and daughter is getting married!!  Believe me, she deserves and earned the happiness she is experiencing now.....
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Not that there is anything at all wrong with that! not that I have any interest in that - I am not here to fulfill someones fantasy. Nor am I interested in being used by some guy whose into it pretty much for his own selfish reasons - sex at my expense emotionally. I am a real person looking for a best friend and a long term love relationship not someone just here so some young guy can have sex - WTF is that? what I don;t like is they know that many of us are looking for a relationship but they hit on us anyway knowing full well that they are not interested in a relationship - even lying about it sometimes I have dated several younger guys and was with one for five years only way I'd ever do it again is if.....well I prolly wouldn't but if I did - I would need a long time to learn to trust him first and I am talking about much younger - like more than 10 or 15 yrs younger |
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Can anyone explain for me what is the thing young men have for older women? I joined the site a couple of weeks ago and have been amazed by the amount of mail i'm receiving from men less than half my age. Don't get me wrong i'm not bragging or complaining, but young men don't come on to me in the real world. And then there's the thing about talking sensuously to men the same age as your sons. Id appreciate any thoughts! It's because they think we're hot (we are) and we have lots of money to spend on them!! I agree that is their perception but that's not helpful for those of us looking for a relationship and those if us who want to be appreciated for something more substantial than that...as far as money....I have children. A young single man is likely to have a lot more money than I have Read and noted!!.....It is tough being a single mom...My daughter did it from jump street and now grandson is eighteen and daughter is getting married!! Believe me, she deserves and earned the happiness she is experiencing now..... well my kids are older too! So I do have the time but after raising 4 and having one just now starting college, I am not out to support anyone else financially at this point - it ain't happening 
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I get told I look young. You will have to tell me if that is true or not. I act young which is true. I have a girly fasting voice with various accents from FL to valley girl mixed it.
Younger guys who are brainy usually WANT TO COMMIT but if they don't want children and you don't need their insurance, they are perfectly happy with a committed relationship with no paper. More forward thinking. And the zero population growth thing is popular now esp. among men. Hard to find a women under 40 who doesn't want babies (ask Lex). A lot of older guys not all, like to slap a ring on it and go into protect and dominate mode FOR YOUR OWN GOOD. Must young guys unless you are freebasing in the living room or something are more live and let live I have found Mind you my experience is with nerdom. As Todd Barry says if you are going to have sex with him, even though hates smoking, you can smoke weed and light BBQ in the living room if he is going to get laid. Older guys FREAK out of my mild bipolar and ADOS (Attention Deficit Oh Sparkly - my programmer friend gave me that diagnosis also know as kitten with tinfoil ball and golden retriever syndrome). A lot of older guys have been burned so much that they can't relax and trust like younger guys. Also women live longer so it's good to find a younger guy who will live and be vital longer. If I date a 56 year, old, he will be way older than my parents in 20 years. I didn't change baby diapers, I don't want a husband who will be in them in three seconds (handicapped does not count in that statement). |
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Well, I will admit that the krupa explained
this one to me. A guy (any age) will hit on 100 chicas, hoping to turn over just one reply. Nature of the beast, time and again. Hard for us gals to understand. The fact they are young is almost incidental. |
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Well, I will admit that the krupa explained this one to me. A guy (any age) will hit on 100 chicas, hoping to turn over just one reply. Nature of the beast, time and again. Hard for us gals to understand. The fact they are young is almost incidental. Love closes every gap, crosses every bridge, climbs every mountain, swims every ocean...so many things that peeps complain about don't mean a thing when the relationship is love based.... My story and I'm stickin to it....
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Well, I will admit that the krupa explained this one to me. A guy (any age) will hit on 100 chicas, hoping to turn over just one reply. Nature of the beast, time and again. Hard for us gals to understand. The fact they are young is almost incidental. In a more general sense I agree with this a lot of things about men in terms of how they act does not seem to change as they get older I was mostly speaking to the cougar mythology with guys hitting on older women on here....that is basically what they are into but in getting know someone and actually forming a bond - age isn;t a big factor. As Tead pointed out both younger and older men might have reasons for either wanting or not wanting children, or a commitment, or w/e |
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Well, I will admit that the krupa explained this one to me. A guy (any age) will hit on 100 chicas, hoping to turn over just one reply. Nature of the beast, time and again. Hard for us gals to understand. The fact they are young is almost incidental. Love closes every gap, crosses every bridge, climbs every mountain, swims every ocean...so many things that peeps complain about don't mean a thing when the relationship is love based.... My story and I'm stickin to it.... Actually, younger guys comment on actual things said in my profile. If it tell them my name, they remember and don't call me TEADIPPER forever. They don't call me "angel". Those are the things that grab my attention |
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Well, I will admit that the krupa explained this one to me. A guy (any age) will hit on 100 chicas, hoping to turn over just one reply. Nature of the beast, time and again. Hard for us gals to understand. The fact they are young is almost incidental. Love closes every gap, crosses every bridge, climbs every mountain, swims every ocean...so many things that peeps complain about don't mean a thing when the relationship is love based.... My story and I'm stickin to it.... This I agree with completely. The only thing I was saying was in response to young guys messaging us all the time for sex - nothing to do with love - if & when love enters the picture that is a much different thing
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Well, I will admit that the krupa explained this one to me. A guy (any age) will hit on 100 chicas, hoping to turn over just one reply. Nature of the beast, time and again. Hard for us gals to understand. The fact they are young is almost incidental. Love closes every gap, crosses every bridge, climbs every mountain, swims every ocean...so many things that peeps complain about don't mean a thing when the relationship is love based.... My story and I'm stickin to it.... Actually, younger guys comment on actual things said in my profile. If it tell them my name, they remember and don't call me TEADIPPER forever. They don't call me "angel". Those are the things that grab my attention Again, a good point....and it is the same with me, the little things that tell you they are paying attention..This counts in a very BIG way...
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Well, I will admit that the krupa explained this one to me. A guy (any age) will hit on 100 chicas, hoping to turn over just one reply. Nature of the beast, time and again. Hard for us gals to understand. The fact they are young is almost incidental. Love closes every gap, crosses every bridge, climbs every mountain, swims every ocean...so many things that peeps complain about don't mean a thing when the relationship is love based.... My story and I'm stickin to it.... Actually, younger guys comment on actual things said in my profile. If it tell them my name, they remember and don't call me TEADIPPER forever. They don't call me "angel". Those are the things that grab my attention that is a good point as an older woman (being the older one) a sign of increased interest from me is using his actual name (not on the threads tho. I seldom do that - if ever)rather than his screen name - if I know it |
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