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I don't think its fair that you categorize us 'young males', especially since everyone is different. I was quite offended that most of you will instantly assume that all I want is sex because of my age. Get to know the person before you start judging please. Never categorize people, you never know who you will offend. It could even be the perfect guy for you, but because of a stupid comment they might never speak to you.
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well experience doesn't lie
and even you I would not automatically believe just on your say so been there been burned by that and I don;t care if someone won't speak to me because I feel this way don't care 'bout that at all |
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Then you have bad experiences. Don't make all of us suffer for it. I never told you to 'believe me because I say that', all I said was get to know the person before making assumptions. What do assumptions make out of you and me? Not very nice... I mean do what you want, obviously, but don't start targeting us 'young males'. Everyone is unique, everyone. Not just women and old men.
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Well, if you don't want to be stereotyped, then don't put such a stereotypical picture on your profile. BOTH the fish AND the weird hand gesture. It tells me you're thinking inside the box and are not unique.
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I like younger men and do have them message me...BUT I do not like younger men any younger than about 10 yrs or so...Too strange...My kids are 31 and 35....And has anyone had any luck on here yet...I have been here a few weeks....
xoxoxo Deb 
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Then you have bad experiences. Don't make all of us suffer for it. I never told you to 'believe me because I say that', all I said was get to know the person before making assumptions. What do assumptions make out of you and me? Not very nice... I mean do what you want, obviously, but don't start targeting us 'young males'. Everyone is unique, everyone. Not just women and old men. I am making NO assumptions and I am not here to be nice to you - I am not saying anything in reference to you personally ad have no desire to do so I will do and say as I please as long it does not violate forum rules if u do not like it I suggest you talk with someone else you can read back through years of comments by young men on these threads as well as the experiences of many older women I stand by my statement if u don't like it we must agree to disagree and my experiences were not all bad - very few were bad - most were great! but I learned to be much more careful with younger guys so before shooting off at me about assumptions perhaps u should watch your own end/ |
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I'm sorry, I realize I have made an @$$ of myself. I am just sick of people labeling me as a 'pathetic, horny kid' because I am 22... I just wanted to say that we are not all like that. I honestly am looking to settle down, I am done with all the games. Again, I am sorry I lost control.
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Well, if you don't want to be stereotyped, then don't put such a stereotypical picture on your profile. BOTH the fish AND the weird hand gesture. It tells me you're thinking inside the box and are not unique. I am quite unique, as is everyone else on this planet. I don't think that one picture should 'label' me. It's just a picture, and its the only decent one I have of myself. I am curious though, how does this picture fit any stereotype other than I like to fish and listen to metal? |
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I'm sorry, I realize I have made an @$$ of myself. I am just sick of people labeling me as a 'pathetic, horny kid' because I am 22... I just wanted to say that we are not all like that. I honestly am looking to settle down, I am done with all the games. Again, I am sorry I lost control. A man who has no problem apologizing! Oh..you'll do well in life, honey.  |
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I'm sorry, I realize I have made an @$$ of myself. I am just sick of people labeling me as a 'pathetic, horny kid' because I am 22... I just wanted to say that we are not all like that. I honestly am looking to settle down, I am done with all the games. Again, I am sorry I lost control. A man who has no problem apologizing! Oh..you'll do well in life, honey. Haha, that made my morning. Thanks Shannon :) 
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I'm sorry, I realize I have made an @$$ of myself. I am just sick of people labeling me as a 'pathetic, horny kid' because I am 22... I just wanted to say that we are not all like that. I honestly am looking to settle down, I am done with all the games. Again, I am sorry I lost control. not a problem I did not notice anyone labeling you as a pathetic horny kid though. So perhaps you mean that you have had that experience in the past! sorry to hear. None of us likes to be labeled - on here in these forums, in my experience, it's not meant personally - sometimes we generalize but most posters try to say that we don't mean ALL younger/older/men/women - whatever the subject is I was not addressing you personally at all - no worries I think we all need to be careful anyway regardless of age & take time to get to know the people we meet - not just because of scams but also because of compatibility issues no problems - it was nice for you to explain |
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hmm what about younger women with older men, I personally get messages from 18 - 20 year olds who are interested. my ex was 8 years younger then me and is now with a man 13 years older them me. it is not about the sex there as she still came to me for awhile after to fill those needs. Can it be different in the case of older women & younger men, then it is with younger women & older men? If one can form a relationship why not the other, is it simply because it is perceived that men only think with their penises? I sadly do agree though that they simply want sex but I would say that about most guys on these sites and a lot of women to. judge each case as best you can and I would not assume anything with out getting to know the person. I often get hit on by men old enough to be my father. In that case, I do think it's mostly about sex. That being said, sex is important to a lot of people. No one is going to date someone they're not interested in having sex with. You just have to find someone you're actually attracted to and interested in. |
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well experience doesn't lie and even you I would not automatically believe just on your say so been there been burned by that and I don;t care if someone won't speak to me because I feel this way don't care 'bout that at all So you've dated so many younger men to know they're only into older women because they think they're easy to get into bed? Enough so that you can speak for all younger men? |
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I'm sorry, I realize I have made an @$$ of myself. I am just sick of people labeling me as a 'pathetic, horny kid' because I am 22... I just wanted to say that we are not all like that. I honestly am looking to settle down, I am done with all the games. Again, I am sorry I lost control. A man who has no problem apologizing! Oh..you'll do well in life, honey. Haha, that made my morning. Thanks Shannon :) Anytime! 
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Then you have bad experiences. Don't make all of us suffer for it. I never told you to 'believe me because I say that', all I said was get to know the person before making assumptions. What do assumptions make out of you and me? Not very nice... I mean do what you want, obviously, but don't start targeting us 'young males'. Everyone is unique, everyone. Not just women and old men. I am making NO assumptions and I am not here to be nice to you - I am not saying anything in reference to you personally ad have no desire to do so I will do and say as I please as long it does not violate forum rules if u do not like it I suggest you talk with someone else you can read back through years of comments by young men on these threads as well as the experiences of many older women I stand by my statement if u don't like it we must agree to disagree and my experiences were not all bad - very few were bad - most were great! but I learned to be much more careful with younger guys so before shooting off at me about assumptions perhaps u should watch your own end/ Except you are making assumptions. You said that you wouldn't even believe what he said based on your own experiences. That is assuming that he's going to be like those younger men you've been with. |
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I like the maturity, wisdom, and elegance in women older than I. Very rarely can I find that in women my age...and they're all married.
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Then you have bad experiences. Don't make all of us suffer for it. I never told you to 'believe me because I say that', all I said was get to know the person before making assumptions. What do assumptions make out of you and me? Not very nice... I mean do what you want, obviously, but don't start targeting us 'young males'. Everyone is unique, everyone. Not just women and old men. I am making NO assumptions and I am not here to be nice to you - I am not saying anything in reference to you personally ad have no desire to do so I will do and say as I please as long it does not violate forum rules if u do not like it I suggest you talk with someone else you can read back through years of comments by young men on these threads as well as the experiences of many older women I stand by my statement if u don't like it we must agree to disagree and my experiences were not all bad - very few were bad - most were great! but I learned to be much more careful with younger guys so before shooting off at me about assumptions perhaps u should watch your own end/ Except you are making assumptions. You said that you wouldn't even believe what he said based on your own experiences. That is assuming that he's going to be like those younger men you've been with. not really - younger guys PMing for sex is pretty understood I make no assumptions in this instance and clearly stated that comment refers to a particular set of circumstances. Everyone makes assumptions sometimes, but I am not assuming - and no I would not necessarily believe him (or anyone I do not know) "just on his say so" I would call that intelligent we can agree to disagree but I have no personal interest in him or anyone in his age range so it does not matter |
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I like the maturity, wisdom, and elegance in women older than I. Very rarely can I find that in women my age...and they're all married. well they can't all be! We wouldn't be on here then  
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whats a shake weight? Its a dumbell that you shake. As for young guys; they hit on me too. Its either for sex or they are looking for a place to live but they sure as hell aren't interested in me as a person. |
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younger guys to older women, the truth is we (GUYS) are beginning to fall in love with matured women even in our own part of the world here because they are experienced, exposed and not too putting guys under un necessary, aggravated pressure, the only shortcoming is the societal and family views on these which may reslt to not flaunting it. Overall if both parties are sincere and know what they want FINE,
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