Awwww, ((sweet)) ((Gypsi)), I've been divorced two times, and had a very close realtionship go bad. It has been 6 years since my last marriage. After the 1st one, I jumped right into another and was with him for 11 yyrs, which was 11 yrs too long!
I want the next one to be the last one. I have to be careful of my feelings though. They are still delicate after this last relationship in which we met online. It has been almost 1yr since that. I don't get out much so I haven't dated. I dont know how to date, lol.
Was married in essence, from the time I was 16 to age 34. I'm a bit intimidated by the whole thing. So just take your time. Sorry, didn't mean to hyjack this thread. I just wanted people to know there is life after divorce and it doenst have to include another person. It is all about you now. Take advantage of it.
If love comes your way, just be careful and scrutinize heavily.......

My marriage fell apart more for the reason of her drug uses and finding out after we were married that she didn't want a child. So I think you can figure out the rest. Ah but not saying it was all her. It taks two,so I had my part in the relationship. chopperdan. One thing I don't like about your question is,that a lot of people blame there othere half for why it fell apart and why things don't work out for them today. I'm saying what i am is because for thoses who do blame your past for today. Grow up.

Shadow I am sorry, I just wanted to know if any one person had found a reason or if things just took there toll. I have had a few break ups and most were because of me or just wrong place wrong time.

yeh same with me..all due to timing..just didnt work out..guess its just not my time right now..oh well..it is what it is

chopperdan I'm not sorry lol because it helped me in more ways then one going through that marraige. It actually made me stonger and whats expected of me as a man, so now that I'm in a new relationship I have that much more to offer.

i havent found love after my divorce yet but just have to be patient.. and actually im not in no hurry to... it'll come when you least expect it.. but after being divorce it does make you alot more aware of whats going on and more picky than before.. but there is always love somewhere . it just takes time to find the right one.. but no hurry.. enjoy being free and life while you can

My divorce happened due to him cheating. I think he was a bit shocked when I filed for divorce but I always said that would be the only thing I could never forgive.
I will say that it taught me how to know the signs of when someone is cheating!! I think everyone knew but me!! I don't think my timing was off for the relationship...I just think he wasn't ready to settledown and be the family man just yet!!

sorry to hear that.. mine was cheating and abusive.. physically and mentally.. NEVER AGAIN cause i know the signs of them both now.

I get really aprehensive when in a new relationship because of the fact of being hurt again & again. Just want the truth up front.

been alone for six years and i don't miss the bull****.take it slow.

Well after my 10th div....I am hoping to finally find it!!!!!

I hope so