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Topic: Married but "looking"
Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Fri 06/01/12 02:12 PM Edited by Kahurangi on Fri 06/01/12 02:13 PM
To the married man who messaged me with a pic in his profile showing his wedding ring. Congratulations....you have just re-defined the word "idiot" for me.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48917	Fri 06/01/12 02:15 PM


Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Fri 06/01/12 02:22 PM
Maybe he is a polygamist and has you pegged for wife number 5?

Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Fri 06/01/12 02:22 PM
I suspect that married men on here who are "looking" and reading this as it goes to air, are now scrambling about and looking at their posted pics to see if any "evidence" of their status is showing. Priceless

Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Fri 06/01/12 02:24 PM
Maybe he is a polygamist and has you pegged for wife number 5? Number 5 is definately not his lucky number then is it?

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Fri 06/01/12 02:26 PM
MY My people these days!!

Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Fri 06/01/12 02:27 PM
Yes...i find them rather amusing

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15104	Fri 06/01/12 02:30 PM
Lots of words come to mind, but idiot is the nicer version...

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Fri 06/01/12 02:33 PM
Everybody looks. I think that is why they call this place a site.

Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Fri 06/01/12 02:35 PM
Are you defending his right to hit on girls on this site Rainbow?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48917	Fri 06/01/12 02:37 PM
Everybody looks. I think that is why they call this place a site. Some of the women here have listed themselves as "separated". At least they are honest about it.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Fri 06/01/12 02:38 PM
I just want one that is available and hits my preferences and prefers me.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Fri 06/01/12 02:40 PM
To be fair, I wear a type of wedding ring. maybe it holds sentimental value and there is another reason he wears it.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Fri 06/01/12 02:47 PM Edited by Ladywind7 on Fri 06/01/12 02:50 PM
I just want one that is available and hits my preferences and prefers me. I would go on a 'date' with ya. But kiwiland is so far away. Sigh. And I have my eye on someone else.

Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Fri 06/01/12 02:50 PM
Here's a thought...something which may have been overlooked by the "average married player" in favour of their need to "spice up their life", because they have become bored and complacent with married life. The unsuspecting recipient who is genuinely looking for somebody special and ripe for love is headed for a big fall if those "married but looking" people play them. Yeah...too bad for them ay? Btw...this applies to both genders in anticipation of those that think this is specifically for men.

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15104	Fri 06/01/12 02:55 PM
To be fair, I wear a type of wedding ring. maybe it holds sentimental value and there is another reason he wears it. I presumed from the OP that he listed himself as married and said somewhere in his profile he was "just looking". But if not, this is a good point. Also, it could have been an old picture.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Fri 06/01/12 02:57 PM
Here's a thought...something which may have been overlooked by the "average married player" in favour of their need to "spice up their life", because they have become bored and complacent with married life. The unsuspecting recipient who is genuinely looking for somebody special and ripe for love is headed for a big fall if those "married but looking" people play them. Yeah...too bad for them ay? Btw...this applies to both genders in anticipation of those that think this is specifically for men. Why do married players exist?...Because there are plenty (or enough) willing participants....If you are not one, just say no....

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15104	Fri 06/01/12 03:08 PM


Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Fri 06/01/12 03:10 PM Edited by Kahurangi on Fri 06/01/12 03:11 PM
Ha!...so much for the sanctity of "marriage" Why get married at all????

lilott Joined Thu 10/12/06 Posts: 2295	Fri 06/01/12 03:11 PM
To the married man who messaged me with a pic in his profile showing his wedding ring. Congratulations....you have just re-defined the word "idiot" for me. This kind of thing makes me ashamed that I'm a man.