What do you do when you are a virgin and all the guys ever want from you is sex?



any suggestions

To quote Nancy Regan...Just say no!

If they don't understand your reasons for not giving up the goods, move on. You are too young and pretty and have to much to offer to worry about it.

Believe it or not, I have heard there are guys that wait. You should be able to find a stand up one.

I tried to tell a guy that I was a virgin, but he knew I have a son. Ooops!

uuuuhhhhhhhhhhh---can i get back to you on this?---

gotta have sex sometime...

Tell em if they really respected you, they would respect your desicion to wait. Personally, I didn't. I don't regret it (as every situation you put yourself in teaches you something), and try and look back on it with good thoughts.

But that doen't mean I don't think about what would happen if I would have waited.

It's your body. It's your life. If they respect you and want to be with you, they'll wait.

Tell them your A Lesbian LOL its hard to Crack that shield LOL

Give the poor guy what he wants. LOL

now--------------here's the thing------------

Yea I have that problem too

rivame, well chances would be better, if we were on the same continent.

justliving, keep your high standards dear, most will just be jealous. Don't get a big head, you life, your body, your CHOICE. Seems this is an idea that is getting bigger, amongst you young ladies. I respect your choice.

just...

It will always be YOUR decision to make. No one should force you to do anything you don't want to. He should respect you enough to wait if that's what you choose to do. Just my 2 cents worth.

Bottom line, the right guy will wait. But just like your desire to wait until your wedding night, while it isnt easy, good guys are worth waiting for. K, Im out!

You'd better hurry, I hear the Macy's one day sale is almost over. All dresses, pumps and lederhosen are half off and 60% if you know the secret code or can kiss the monkey without wincing.

Kick him to the curb girl. He isn't worth losing something as precious as your virginity. Don't be pressured by anyone.

tell them thanks, but no thanks, and walk away. If all they want is sex, then they do NOT want you. now I grant ya you are extremely beautiful and it would be very worrisome if some young guy did NOT think about sex with you, lol, but that does not mean that that should be all he wants or is willing to pursue. There is just so much more out there, and sex only lasts so long. Sex will actually DESTROY a relationsihp if that is all there is in the end, so keep up the strong will and good luck in finding that right man.

BTW I am free most week nights and days, if you wanna go out give me a call.

indeed it's your choice!!

and if you look at the stats on HIV and the mutation rates , not to mention other STD's
SHE DAMN WELL BETTER WAIT !! till she is confident of her safty in such an instance.

these days are so incredibly different in terms of sexual freedom , it is imperative that we are educated and aware and take advantage of the tools available to prevent disease...life threatening disease especially.

exchanging test results should be as common place as knowing their birthday....and even with that, there are still possibilities for risk....people lie. about how many they have been with, or even discount the ones that meant nothing and that they've long ago forgotton about....

when you have sex with someone,

you are encountering everyone they have had sex with for the last 10 years.

and all of the people those were with, for the last 10 years...

and exponentially.....

you may think this is extreme......i suggest you do the homework yourself

your life depends on it

I think Ill go back to being a virgin ... Can I do that?

After all, she's a virgin and she's getting offers.

The only offers I get are from 25 year old, Catholic, god fearing, fun bunnies from the Philippines who want to marry me and have a house full of kids!!!

Jeez!!

It sucks!

Although, here's a debate for the world at large.

Should the young lady in question be able to exercise her rights to wear a bikini without getting sexually loaded approaches, or should she do the hijab and hope!

belushi, a young lady is a young lady (no matetr what the age ) and they shoudl be able to wear whatever they want whenever they want without worrying about being pressured or subjected to sexual innuendos and talk if they do not want to be.

What you just asked is the same thing as saying a woman that is wearing skimpy clothing is asking to be raped. Thats a load of horse manure.