Looking at your profile, and how you present yourself, it hardly surprises me that the people a profile like that would attract to respond are going to get nasty when you reject them.

I doubt that much is "lost in translation" but maybe it is harmless vamping and you might want to clean up your act if you want more consideration and respect of your absolute right to make choices.

Part of being a mature woman, and having the support of being treated like a lady, is acting like a lady across the board.

If you make yourself sound like you are willing to be anybodies girl you can't really complain when someone is offended that they don't get to be anybody. It is false advertiseing and a cost of your own behavior.

Think you kind of shot yourself in the foot complaining but maybe that got some more traffic your direction. Hopefully you don't get more than you bargain for. A hateful email for rejecting you is the least of your worries if you are promoteing yourself this way.

Looking at your profile, and how you present yourself, it hardly surprises me that the people a profile like that would attract to respond are going to get nasty when you reject them.

I doubt that much is "lost in translation" but maybe it is harmless vamping and you might want to clean up your act if you want more consideration and respect of your absolute right to make choices.

Part of being a mature woman, and having the support of being treated like a lady, is acting like a lady across the board.

If you make yourself sound like you are willing to be anybodies girl you can't really complain when someone is offended that they don't get to be anybody. It is false advertiseing and a cost of your own behavior.

Think you kind of shot yourself in the foot complaining but maybe that got some more traffic your direction. Hopefully you don't get more than you bargain for. A hateful email for rejecting you is the least of your worries if you are promoteing yourself this way.

when i tell people men and women i'm not interested in chatting to them or just not interested in them i get messages that say "oh ok good luck katy", but i sometimes get attacked for it, the people are 9/10 times english so i don't know if its normal or what? (i haven't met an english person before joining this site by the way) i don't mean ithis to be provoketive i'm just curious

I think PacificStar means that you don't have anything written in your profile but when people ask, you tell them you are not interested.....maybe you can write something about the kind of partner you are looking for..

No actually I think she is asking for what kind of partner she is looking for; xXXx and now she is whineing because she got it.

i didn't know you hated the english hahaha

I took the "xX-Xx" to be kisses because she is blowing kisses in her picture.

Looking at your profile, and how you present yourself, it hardly surprises me that the people a profile like that would attract to respond are going to get nasty when you reject them.

I doubt that much is "lost in translation" but maybe it is harmless vamping and you might want to clean up your act if you want more consideration and respect of your absolute right to make choices.

Part of being a mature woman, and having the support of being treated like a lady, is acting like a lady across the board.

If you make yourself sound like you are willing to be anybodies girl you can't really complain when someone is offended that they don't get to be anybody. It is false advertiseing and a cost of your own behavior.

Think you kind of shot yourself in the foot complaining but maybe that got some more traffic your direction. Hopefully you don't get more than you bargain for. A hateful email for rejecting you is the least of your worries if you are promoteing yourself this way.